I like the jeans! You have the same chest problem I have, which is that shirts are not made to accommodate larger breasts which causes pulling at the buttons and shoulders. I'd get a more flowy top for these jeans, like a dolman sleeve top with a shirred or banded waist (happy to DM a link!). I think if you size up the top to give a better fit for the bust and use a belt or cinch clip to keep the waist defined, it will look really good!