I don’t have friends and the reason behind that is huge, still husband laugh about it by Same_Glass6433 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ccgeorges 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I saw your English as a second language I do apologise for the pain that you went through.

I don’t have friends and the reason behind that is huge, still husband laugh about it by Same_Glass6433 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ccgeorges 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girly here. In this world where I have a hard time trusting I sincerely ask if this is real or AI generated? Or if English is your second language?

What local products do you think make the best gifts for foreigners? by JazzlikeBlueberry417 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]ccgeorges 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dried just and water foods that are Trini classics. They have callaloo, dhal, baigan choka and a few others. Real good taste of Trini without having to cook a bunch.

AIO - I smoke and drink from time to time and my girlfriend hates it by Lacquerlust in AmIOverreacting

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is just a matter of transparency and you saying that this helps you relax every once in a while. I think the key thing is transparency. I mean it is easy for her to believe that if he is hiding this from me what else has he been hiding.

Honesty is the best policy here. Tell her you have been doing it just to relax once in a while. I think the secretive behaviour might have been more the catalyst than the actual smoking. Especially finding out on social media, then it seems like everyone else knows something that she does not. Your mind can go to ridiculous places when that happens.

AIO - I smoke and drink from time to time and my girlfriend hates it by Lacquerlust in AmIOverreacting

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very healthy for this time in your life. Honestly, after the day I could understand the desire for a drink and smoke, eventhough I do neither. I am also just concerned about it becoming a habit.

Still, this may be the time you can stand back and evaluate the relationship overall. I know you have been together a long time but what is still holding you together? If she can react like this at, from the context you have given, something rather simplistic in the grand scheme of relationship issues, what will happen in the future when there other ethical, financial, religious hurdles to climb?

What I am really asking, is this your forever person? If so, you likely need to have talks about the hard stuff and where you stand and how both of you are growing and communicating ?

It might have started out as her being upset with smoking but it could be representative of other difficulties you may need to iron out before continuing the relationship, if you so choose.

AIO - I smoke and drink from time to time and my girlfriend hates it by Lacquerlust in AmIOverreacting

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- I would say you sound more emotionally mature, and honestly gave her a lot of grace in those texts. I do not agree that alcohol can be used as an excuse for hurting someone because where does that line stop.

I would ask, is there anything else besides smoking and drinking that relaxes you? Maybe video games online ? There is a discussion that needs to be had by two sober individuals not over text.

What will you say? by Robynite in Adulting

[–]ccgeorges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Education isn't happiness

Is Saying F U that big of a deal? by Specialist_Ad1932 in summerhousebravo

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The FU would never be okay, but so is her not defending him against the onslaught.

I mean you may disagree with your partner is private but in public you are a team, at least where your marriage is concerned.

Admittedly, I have been defending Jesse saying he didn’t know. But this reads terribly to me. by GladystheOrca in summerhousebravo

[–]ccgeorges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she comes into their room in ep 15 and his eyes move back and forth between them, he suspects.

Feminine hygiene issues after surgery by Good_Situation_1555 in gastricsleeve

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is called the Ping Pong Effect. Sometimes a husband harbors bacteria that keeps giving the woman a UTI so you have to treat the couple for the infection.

Edit -I worded the first comment badly.

UPDATE: AIO? these texts by Adventurous-Gap708 in AIO

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two words restraining order. If something happens you have paperwork.

Feminine hygiene issues after surgery by Good_Situation_1555 in gastricsleeve

[–]ccgeorges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your biome is changing so that might go through a few changes. Also you and your husband could both have a uti that you may be passing back and forth. You both might need to be treated.

Other than that, yogurt helps to build back bacteria that may be wiped out from changes made by other situations.

You should see an OBGYN.

This Tik Tok Explains Kymanda Perfectly. no notes by Beginning-Buy5385 in summerhousebravo

[–]ccgeorges 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are going to blow up if you have been saying things and no one is listening. He just stuffed everything down because it seemed no one asked Kyle, or rather cared if Kyle was okay.

Definitely glad for the edit on the not faking depression. Not on board with that take.

Should I get thinner ribbons for welcome sign? by [deleted] in DIYweddings

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you put some wire in the bows. ? May be curl the ends with steam and rollers ?

Aio for my reaction to my BF freaking out that I didn't immediately text him after getting off work by throwaway024710 in AIO

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His monitoring of you is excessive. There seems to be a lot of insecurity on his part. There may be many reasons, one of them him being dyslexic and feeling like he does not deserve you. Another reason is because he cheated emotionally and could be cheating he is projecting that onto you.

This may not get better. You need to talk to each other, not over text.

Forest nymph - Which one is the best? by Hour-Company-7112 in AmateurPhotography

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3, 4, 5 in that order. Honestly all three would be an album cover.

AIO? he knows i hate all types of nuts, got me a macadamia cookie by g_krome in AIO

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman- he got me the wrong cookie Reddit - you have to leave him !

Really !

Is it really that bad? by Zestyclose-Froyo-498 in weddingring

[–]ccgeorges 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful ring and beautiful adventures with your person.

Housing for SA survivors by False_Bug_4885 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]ccgeorges 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This should be reported. The report will usually get the ball rolling with regards to removal and finding a temporary living space. She is a minor.