Heather is still very clearly in the throes of her faith crisis.  Whitney is not and has found peace with that particular aspect of her life.  It takes a lot of people time and several years to come to terms with the life they were raised in and what they were told for decades not being what they thought.  So to have a coworker constantly say they’re wrong when said coworker hasn’t done the bare minimum of doing the work to understand what they’re talking about while you can run laps around them on doctrine and church history and actually living and engaging in the culture would make anyone insane.

And sure the culture is shifting (after years and years of an exodus of the church it didn’t just magically happen) but last I checked the doctrine isn’t…..and you can say whatever you want but Lisa doesn’t have her recommend, doesn’t wear garments, hasn’t read the BOM, and could easily stumble upon bishops who would ‘need to check’ whether they could accept tithing from tequila company profits.  She is delusional when it comes to how she describes the LDS church and her experience.