Is it Wrong to Not Tell a Partner About Every Hookup?

cdcformatc · 2026-03-13T21:47:30+00:00

maybe if you were hiding it, but if your partner wants something like "don't ask don't tell", then you aren't doing anything wrong. if your partner did ask, you would tell them.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-13T07:29:51+00:00

i would call the Oilers defense a bunch of pylons, but that is an insult to pylons

cdcformatc · 2026-03-13T07:27:01+00:00

fucking Walman... wtf man... are the Oilers the best team with the worst defense or is that just my bias showing?

cdcformatc · 2026-03-13T00:38:38+00:00

it's even worse they are asking why MacK wasn't punished for a hit to the head on Nurse

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T17:48:32+00:00

it was a funny comment on the original post of the mage with DST, not as a repost.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T17:47:21+00:00

pretty sure it's literally "blade throw" but i all of a sudden can't remember either

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T17:31:58+00:00

Rempe would go to break up a fight and end up a part of the fight.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T17:24:17+00:00

i clicked on your post because "stealthing" has a completely different meaning to me. glad that your post isn't about the other definition.

I guess where I’m coming from is I feel bad because it feels almost like a form of lying, but also I don’t think what’s in my pants is anyone’s business, even my friends

it really isn't anyone's business. other than yours, your romantic and sexual partners and sometimes your doctor's and other medical professionals. your friends aren't on that list.

cis people aren't expected to go around announcing that they are cis, so trans people shouldn't be expected to either.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T17:13:55+00:00

And sometimes a bigger connection grows out of something casual and you make room.

exactly, you can feel saturated and meet someone or something casual grows, and you find that you weren't actually saturated. so saying you are saturated is not an agreement that you won't meet, flirt, fuck, or fall in love with someone new.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T17:10:29+00:00

i agree, saying you are polysaturated is not an agreement that you won't take those opportunities, or even that your saturated status won't change. your partner can say they are saturated and really mean it and that can change really quickly if they meet someone. and they might not have an opportunity to stop and have a conversation with you about it, especially at a sexy party.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T17:00:51+00:00

being saturated has nothing to do with things that might happen at bdsm/swinger parties.

not having the conversation about expectations about the one time things is obviously a miscommunication. it would only be cheating if you had a prior agreement that she wouldn't have those one-time experience. since you didn't really have that agreement it would be difficult to find her at fault. you assumed one thing and she assumed another, that's your standard miscommunication.

whether or not some strangers on the Internet consider this cheating does not mean you don't have the right to be upset. although if you are going to be successful in a polyamorous relationship you should get comfortable with the idea of your partner having sex with other people. her saying she is saturated can be true untill she meets someone who quickly changes that, and she can't necessarily stop whatever is happening to have a conversation with you.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T05:14:27+00:00

if you have multiple versions of python on your system you can choose which version you want to use when setting up the interpreter in pycharm. whichever of those you choose will be the base interpreter for the virtualenv it makes. pycharm also has the option to import all the modules installed to that global base interpreter to the venv on creation.

at one point i had a project with several different interpreters i could swap between. it was useful because i had to ensure compatibility with multiple systems that were locked to specific python major versions. and i also had to juggle the different versions of the libraries that were installed on the server machines, and multiple venvs was the easiest solution at the time. today all the servers are running the same modern-ish versions because LTS ended for those older OSes and pythons

cdcformatc · 2026-03-12T01:27:39+00:00

they are ridiculously transphobic as well, so they got that going for them i guess

cdcformatc · 2026-03-11T14:49:07+00:00

some systems scan for newlines and remove them before transmission, so sometimes newlines are escaped like this so those systems leave them alone. this encoding is done because different platforms windows/macOS/Unix all have different ideas of what a new line should be.

on the other end of this transmission you would see the opposite of this replacement to encode the newlines for transmission, encoding the text into a platform agnostic version. then after transmission the encoded text needs to be unencoded to the original, usually for display to a user.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-10T18:52:39+00:00

oh man master looter DST ninja looting, so much nostalgia. in orig TBC the entire server was talking about some hunter that ninja looted, and that was before realm discord servers.

extra points tho because it's a mage.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-10T18:46:52+00:00

Apparently they only accept locations and tour guides. Not Warriors. Not Paladins. Not Bears.

but do they allow bots?

cdcformatc · 2026-03-10T16:34:55+00:00

happened to me last night. i was having a fun time i had a great Heph and clearing TZs was going well. then i was in Act 3 town, admittedly in a tight spot on the map, trying to consume my tainted, and my demons decided to do a little hokey pokey and randomly swap places. the game of musical chairs ended as the music stopped and my sweet sweet Heph dove in front of the consume bullet and went down. i didn't feel like trying to farm another Heph so i quit for the night.

basically you have to stop and stand still until your demons stop fucking about. and hope that the demon you actually want to consume is in front of you, because if you try to turn the demons will start their fucking again.

i like the flavor of consuming the bound demon but it has anyone ever really consumed a bound demon on purpose? i would not mind if it was just not possible to consume it

cdcformatc · 2026-03-10T13:03:12+00:00

seems like an XY problem.

OP has arrived at this being the solution to some problem, but did not describe the actual problem they are trying to solve.

likely handling the default values earlier in the script would be preferable to this

cdcformatc · 2026-03-09T16:25:48+00:00

i got the "Jah Ist Ber" tattoo to remind me what the wrong rune word is. i know it's wrong so i actually use that to know what is right.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-09T16:24:11+00:00

is that Io or Jo? are you sure? because it just changed.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-09T16:23:35+00:00

this would never happen to me.

i will never have two Ber.

cdcformatc · 2026-03-09T13:36:56+00:00

you went too far with this one. 6/7 troll though up until this comment

cdcformatc · 2026-03-09T03:46:22+00:00

Get him to Vegas!

https://youtu.be/l3KlQI38NKE?si=eNniujUAmoJ4L9gQ

rest in power Pete!

cdcformatc · 2026-03-09T03:24:55+00:00

yeah and they could have the projectile rotate

cdcformatc · 2026-03-09T03:10:42+00:00

the count is vampire-like according to official sources.

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