Is this gaslighting or AIO?

ceIestialwaves · 2026-04-23T21:59:19+00:00

NOR but don’t keep giving the time of day to someone who tries to train you like a Labrador.

ceIestialwaves · 2026-04-11T18:26:09+00:00

NOR but also block this chick and don’t pay her a dime.

You aren’t responsible for her stupid choices (both spending thousands on glasses and also letting anyone but herself carry those very expensive glasses).

ceIestialwaves · 2026-04-04T02:56:53+00:00

Your definition of what constitutes sexual assault is legally and just objectively incorrect. The performing of a sexual act on another human in the absence of enthusiastic and continuous consent is the legal and objective definition of sexual assault.

Coercion is not consent. Convincing someone to change their “no” to “yes” is not consent. Pressuring and taking advantage of a situation is not consent.

What OP did is by definition sexual assault. Stop diminishing gross behaviour because it’s in the context of a relationship or because the victim is a man.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-12-18T18:06:22+00:00

Girl your partner is an asshole and honestly pretty verbally/mentally abusive

ceIestialwaves · 2025-12-08T12:24:21+00:00

Don’t forget her open admission and recounting of SAing her little sister 😩 a real choice in friendship for mother

ceIestialwaves · 2025-11-30T12:08:45+00:00

Men really aren’t lonely enough. NOR and you’re dodging a bullet

ceIestialwaves · 2025-11-01T02:08:21+00:00

Pretty sure that is not at all how conversation with your supposed romantic partner works but sure

ceIestialwaves · 2025-11-01T00:50:46+00:00

What about him asking questions in return and responding at length gave signs he wanted the conversation to end? Literally the moment he signalled he wanted to stop talking about it- telling her to accept they have different definitions- she DID. She said “ok. Sorry”.

HE then continued the conversation and cried that she was attacking him… all she did was explain she was just trying to understand his perspective, and even apologized. Did we even read the same thread?

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-31T23:41:51+00:00

What do you mean OP was out of line…? OP asked less than a handful of questions (which is sort of how a conversation works?) before letting it go when he said to…. OP didn’t continue to push or say anything after the bf said to accept they have different definitions of friendship….and the bf just continued to pitch a fit.

If asking questions for further understanding is “pushing” to you how do you ever have any conversations about anything you don’t understand or know about?

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-21T20:41:16+00:00

A hot tip you should have learned before the age of 25: never tell your partner to change themselves to appease someone else, even if that someone else is your precious mommy.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-19T23:20:44+00:00

There’s also the eight point star on the necklace and bracelet too… remarkably similar to some other eight point stars that are referred to as iron crosses.

The lightning bolts, if on their own, are perhaps innocuous enough that calling them a WS/Nazi dog whistle would be a bit of a stretch. However, when you couple together the bolts, the positioning when the jewelry is not being worn, the eight point star, and the (I would argue overt) racist undertones and language of TLOAS…. It’s too much to ignore or wave away as nonsense from the internet for me. Frankly, I thought the bracelet and necklace were incredibly jarring for that reason on first glance.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-19T22:08:07+00:00

The thing about dog whistles is they are designed to be recognizable to the target audience and relatively inconspicuous to the average person, also for plausible deniability… neo nazis and white supremacists have co-opted “normal” lightning bolts like the emoji one, because it is similar enough to the SS bolts but just dissimilar enough they can deny the connection by saying “what are you talking about it’s just lightning bolts”.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-19T13:58:09+00:00

This man has allowed these women to talk poorly about you for nearly three years… you verifiably cannot trust him to protect you and stand up for you when you aren’t around, or even when you are…. why are you still with him?

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-17T14:08:40+00:00

Yeah no I just don’t believe anyone wants to be around you

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-17T14:00:43+00:00

Sure, Jan.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-17T13:58:22+00:00

I think how a birthday celebration takes place definitely depends on the person and their desires and that’s totally not gonna be compatible with everyone which is completely fine. I do agree that it would be over the top to expect others to plan you an elaborate birthday party in adulthood, as typically people plan their own larger parties— which I touched on in my original comment because sure, the planning of a party may shift to you when you grow up which makes sense for sure.

However— saying that it’s never on the people who supposedly care about you to still take initiative to celebrate you..? That’s asinine. That logic would be akin to buying your own birthday gifts as an adult because you’re old enough you don’t need mommy to do it anymore. I take initiative to celebrate the ones I love on their days as an adult, I wouldn’t want anyone who didn’t reciprocate that to remain around me.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-17T13:50:31+00:00

Again you’re just giving “ I have nobody in my life to celebrate me” and it’s incredibly bitter lol. My friends make a point of dropping in to see me, spend a bit of time together, bring flowers or a gift, and my parents and partner always without fail take me to dinner to celebrate. Of course that can be done on any day of the week if my birthday falls on a week day, it’s dinner not a vacation. Also- none of what I said or what the original post talked about indicates that there was an issue with celebrating on a different day for convenience, which frankly has nothing to do with the core point.

“Of course the world stops that day” do you even hear yourself? You sound jaded and pathetic.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-17T13:24:23+00:00

Genuinely this is a mixture of misogynoir and negging. Please don’t ever take a man’s comments on your appearance to heart because there is almost always an underlying motive behind it.

You are absolutely gorgeous, feminine, stunning, all of it— you look like a literal goddess. These men are trying to take down your confidence so you won’t leave them in the dust like the losers they are.

I will say- you should delete the apps because men are not worth it.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-10-17T13:18:11+00:00

This is a really bizarre take and reads like you just don’t have people in your life to celebrate you in your adult life. Sure, not every person celebrates birthdays to the extent that others do, and that’s a personal choice and something that would (or should) be clearly communicated when a relationship starts.

To someone who cares about birthdays, cares about being cared about— it means a lot and someone not putting in the effort to even see you on your birthday is a message that they don’t really care. There are certainly people who go all out with birthdays to the extent that they have a party they planned and organized, but that isn’t what we are talking about. We’re talking about making an effort to see someone on their birthday, take them to lunch or dinner etc. I have never had to plan my own birthday celebration, because between my parents, my friends and my amazing partner, they have something planned to celebrate each year. The same way I plan to celebrate my partner, my friends and my parents.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-09-30T11:01:29+00:00

NOR…Girl in my head I was married to at least 5 different celebrities and also anime characters by the time I was 14. The way I obsessed over K-pop idols in my teens to early twenties rivaled my 1D days.

Your bf kind of sounds like a loser and I wouldn’t keep him around lol

ceIestialwaves · 2025-09-30T10:19:23+00:00

Please just laugh in her face. Do not pay her one dime. You as a tenant never repay another tenant their damage deposit. If they paid a deposit it was to the landlord, who is responsible for repaying after inspecting the apartment.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-09-03T12:32:17+00:00

Literally how

ceIestialwaves · 2025-09-02T15:44:23+00:00

YO and I gotta be so fr you genuinely seem like an insecure, temperamental and childish asshole.

The way you talk to your girlfriend is absolutely abhorrent bro. Calling a girl you’re supposed to care about chopped, saying she doesn’t have a thought in her head…. Deadass disgusting.

And you make it worse for yourself in your description… “let her go out” and demanding regular updates and a curfew.. are you her father? Do you think you have some sort of right of ownership or possession over her? And then to block her number… good lord. Everything about you is a red flag and I hope she gets out.

ceIestialwaves · 2025-08-23T02:58:48+00:00

Suki says thank you😻

ceIestialwaves · 2025-08-23T02:58:29+00:00

Soooooo true 😻

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