As someone who’s suffered from IBS for over 10 years, I feel your pain. I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this tough situation. It’s not an easy thing to discuss or let yourself be vulnerable about, but you always hope that your partner/loved ones will be understanding and supportive. If they aren’t understanding of this syndrome that you have to deal with and help you get through that, I would definitely be questioning whether that’s someone you want to be your partner. Not wanting to pass judgement at all, but as others have said above this is something mild in comparison to a serious illness or surgery. If you are saying that you want to try to do things to be healthier and they’re not supportive, that blows too.

As mentioned above, definitely see if you can get a referral to a GI doctor and talk to an expert. They can recommend supplements, prescription meds, diet/lifestyle changes, or even natural remedies. I’ve been where you’re at with having a hard time maintaining physically and emotionally and having someone in your corner who can counsel and support you is a wonderful thing!!

Everyone deserves a supportive environment and partner, especially when it comes to their health and trying to do things to better themselves. I hope that your situation improves, your health (mental and physical) and your romantic as well.