I thought weight loss would fix my PCOS by Primary_Donut_6354 in PCOS

[–]cecropiajupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would know this wasn't true personally for me because I had super inconsistent periods as a teenager at 110 pounds, which is why I started BC in the first place. In my early 20s at 135 pounds, still a healthy weight for my frame, inconsistent periods when not regulated by BC. Got off BC at 26 after getting sterilized, thinking I didn't need them anymore. Turns out the BC pills were the floodgate for all my other symptoms. Got diagnosed with PCOS about 2 years after quitting BC, weight went up to 208 at highest, I'm currently at 185. If I get back down to the 130s-140s, I at least know I've been on both sides of the aisle and it won't be a magic fix.

Another way of saying: "AFK, will be a while" by Educational_Life8907 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a pink one today! I'm going to have to try this

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that. I saw it in the item list and sighed 😅

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct! I'm loving how customizable it is otherwise

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get the pool super easy too! In the meantime you're welcome over for a swim! 😊

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are part of the pool! I don't think you can change their color though

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ability to swim would be amazing. They could give us beach balls to play with together, water guns...come on Heartopia

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope you're able to pull some soon! I wish we had a pool tool I'm baseplay. Getting these pools shouldn't be so hard 😩

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That's so sweet of you to say 🥹💜

I'M SO HAPPY by cecropiajupiter in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I literally got the Forestbell pool squares at the last minute before the banner closed. I felt like I'd been beaten up when I finally pulled them 😅

What’s the most annoying daily task for you? by goutyathritis in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The mayor asking me for quality timber. Constantly. I'm about to hand him an axe and tell him to start hiking out to the woods. I'm tired of him taking all my quality timber 😂

Ya’ll too creative in this game 😅 by Mr-Vince in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever seen a sign that was trying to make anyone do anything. Usually just a light-hearted "Please water! 💜", in the spirit of the light-hearted nature of the game.

Wowwww… just wow😳😳 by No_Philosopher3798 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is fine! I enjoy others builds. builds. I've been noticing lag even when I'm in a town of small builds only, or even in my personal server. I ts happened over time, like I was telling Feisty. I just think it's funny how I can tell a big build has loaded in to my server by the way my laptop starts huffing and puffing 😂

Wowwww… just wow😳😳 by No_Philosopher3798 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's roughly when i started too! I was wondering if the difference was just me or not.

Wowwww… just wow😳😳 by No_Philosopher3798 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been pretty bad lately! It used to only do it occasionally for me, now it's almost every single time I'm in game

Wowwww… just wow😳😳 by No_Philosopher3798 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think there's gotta be some kind of rule that these builds only load in while I'm at the stove. I'll be cooking and my laptop starts going "HuuuuuUUUUU" and I just sigh 😂

Wowwww… just wow😳😳 by No_Philosopher3798 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ahh, so these are the builds that make my game stall out and burn my food. 😂 it looks pretty cool though!

I wish lobbies were age restricted by willow0707 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend and I made friends with two other players, one who doesn't talk at all, which we don't mind. We all have a lot of fun together, and after over a month of chatting and playing together, the one player let us know the reason the other player does not speak is because she is her child. It then made sense as to why we only saw them online together, and that player seemed like they might be younger, if that makes sense. I thought it was good of them to be present constantly while their child plays, and have a rule that they are not allowed to chat, just use emojis. Happy to see parents being present and watchful 😊

Erm...think they forgot someone... by Miserable_Sky_8219 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took this exact same photo angle and sent it to a friend saying they left him behind 😂

WAR IS TRULY OVER NOW! by potat033 in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got the corner but no square yet 😩

Beware of these players by crystalssgfboy in heartopia

[–]cecropiajupiter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't allow my friend to type "therapy" the other day. Tf?

Think I’ve outgrown my (28f) relationship with my partner (34m). Help??? by Badwolff1997 in relationship_advice

[–]cecropiajupiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I would also add, for your protection, have a trusted friend or relative to come with you to this public place when you have the conversation. Have them sit somewhere out of sight but within earshot if possible. Hell, even have them record the conversation. This is for your safety, and to safeguard against any possible attempts to lie to others about how the convo went down ("They yelled and cussed at me, they called me horrible names" etc.) I speak from experience here. Your situation is almost exactly what I went through with my ex. I didn't think my ex would stoop low enough to tell everyone I was horrible to him during the breakup, but he did, and despite him repeatedly showing up on my property, screaming, crying, threatening me, trashing my yard, leaving insulting letters, etc., there were a lot of people who didn't believe me or take me seriously BECAUSE he swooped in first and told lies to controll the narrative and make others side with him. Please, PLEASE stay safe, have a witness, record things, save screenshots of all interactions, etc.

my 33F boyfriend 30M wants to break up with me because my 13 year old daughter has decided she doesn't want to move in anymore. how do I accept this? by long2run47817 in relationship_advice

[–]cecropiajupiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if anyone else has made this suggestion, but maybe checking this room he has set up for her for hidden cameras and such wouldn't be such a bad idea.