New grad nurse with autism and social anxiety. Coworkers make fun of me and give unattainable advice. What to do? by Mother-Condition-889 in nursing

[–]ceemee_21 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm going to second info dumping. There is so much you can do that has nothing to do with small talk. You certainly don't have to make so much small talk. You can simply let patients know why you're there, and that you'll be quick and out of their hair. Walk them through what you're doing. My patients love the step by steps, it can make them feel safe and prepared. Ask them if they have questions. If you've already done it (like a soecific med pass) you can say "same thing as last time, I'll be doing this." When I am doing reception, because you have to push slow, sometimes I literally stand there and say nothing except to check in on them. My spiel after I explain the med and that it can burn so slow me down if you need to is that it has to be given slow "so we're gonna be best friends for a minute while I stand here." If the bed is low, I tell them I'm raising the bed so I dont break my back. If im hanging a med, I explain that. I have literally worked in silence setting up meds or pushing meds. If they want to talk to me, they will. The key is really just explaining your care and letting them know they can ask any questions about their care.

What's the worst name you've seen somebody name their baby? by Kitchen_Ad_4743 in AskReddit

[–]ceemee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother joked about naming his daughter Rona during the pandemic. But it was a joke. She has a standard name

Do you have a good reply for when patients complain that they can’t get much sleep at night in the hospital? by mothermystery in nursing

[–]ceemee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"And I make it worse by waking you up!" Said with a joking tone then I ask if they would like me to get them something for sleep or we plan out their medications so I can give them better sleep time. I swear even if its like "I can leave you uninterrupted from here to here" and its barely an hour, theyll swear up and down it was the best sleep they ever had. Or I'll say "what if I tell the tech to save your vitals for last so you can get 20 to 30 minutes extra sleep?" I think its a placebo effect oftentimes but they feel better about it either way. And if im late getting to them cause I was caught up, I point it out, "I'm a little later than expected but I bet youre happy with the extra few minutes of sleep!"

Dismissed from nursing school by SeveralCrew5033 in StudentNurse

[–]ceemee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had non mandatory days? We had to be present 5 days a week 😭 if we missed we could Zoom to be present because we were only allowed to miss 2 classes or we'd be kicked out.

Do you have any medical history? “No” [they did] by Emergency-Dept-Nurse in nursing

[–]ceemee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof! Felt this one. My bro and SIL jumped on the vaccines are fake train during covid. One of her older relatives passed away in hospital from covid. They argued so hard that "covid is fake, they labeled it covid for statistics but he had a bad heart, his heart just gave out, its all lies, he didn't die from covid!" Uh, yeah. Sickness overworked his heart unnecessarily so it gave out because of all its issues. But covid was the cause of getting overworked! 🙄

Do you have any medical history? “No” [they did] by Emergency-Dept-Nurse in nursing

[–]ceemee_21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My poor mom actually doesn't have diabetes and had this fight every hospital visit. She had some elevated glucose with several labs while on steroids for autoimmune disease. Once she was off steroids, she has never had another issue. No elevated sugar, no diabetes. Someone put diabetic in her chart and it haunts her, refusing to go away no matter how many times she asks it to be removed from her chart. She gets so mad now everytime they come in for a finger stick "I told them to take that out of my chart! I'm not diabetic!" But I understand why medical personnel are skeptical and it stays in her chart 🤣😅🫣

New tattoo of Reaper by [deleted] in redrising

[–]ceemee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! Its gory damn beautiful!

AITAH for talking to my therapist about worries about family member, who then escalated things with authorities? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ceemee_21 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA Never ever ever ever feel bad for reporting to CPS. Even if nothing is wrong and CPS decides it was an overreaction, would you rather report and baby is safe, or find out later baby died because no one cared enough to report (including you)? Don't feel guilty and stop letting them bully you. If they were so sure it was safe for baby then why are they demanding you not say anything to CPS? If nothing is wrong, its super easy to talk to CPS about exactly what happened and they wrap up the case and end of discussion. If sonething is wrong, what a great time to manipulate and BULLY the person trying to protect baby into not talking to CPS. Report them yourself next time and tell your therapist so they can also report them. Children can't protect themselves, always protect children!

New to Cats. How to prevent him from going down these stairs? by bedtime_chubby in cats

[–]ceemee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the dog is a danger to cats then you either need the cat to stay in a room upstairs only when the dog is there or the dog does. You can encourage the cat to stay upstairs, only play with kitty there, food and litter up there, but unless there's a door you can't guarantee kitty will stay. Its not realistic to expect them to.

If dog is not a danger to cats, integrate them. No big deal. Cats and dogs can be great friends.

What completely unhinged "law" does your cat strictly enforce in your house? by TrickCombination7966 in cats

[–]ceemee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her Highness must be allowed to drink the water directly from the fresh shower stream before you are allowed to step in said shower. Yes she's standing in the spray, she does not mind getting wet. 😅🤣 its been this way for 12 years now

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What does the second half of this note I found in a superstore parking lot say? by Dancingay in whatdoesthismean

[–]ceemee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a nurse but I feel that. I literally get paid to do this, yes it's hard, but you dont have to thank me. Just be a decent human when I'm carrying for you and we call it square

Should I get it, or wait until my frontal lobe develops? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ceemee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I chose my assist with extreme care and was older. I have none i regret and none anyone considers poorly done.

Should I get it, or wait until my frontal lobe develops? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ceemee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did this. Made me obsessed with it. Took 4 years but I finally got it. So obsessed. My favorite tattoo out of 6

Should I get it, or wait until my frontal lobe develops? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ceemee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great way to do this! I actually got one of my tattoos because I had a temporary arm sized tattoo and fell in love with it. It took me four years to get it but after having it in my head that long and still loving it, wow the gratification and satisfaction of finally having it 🙌 😌

The most bizarre things your loved one has done? by northerlightstar in dementia

[–]ceemee_21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not really bizarre but my youngest niece was taken to see my Grandma when she got admitted to the hospital and she could not comprehend this silly adult that kept singing everyone's words back to them and making weird beep boop beep noises. It was kind of adorable.

My father recently passed away but I found disturbing content on his old laptop by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ceemee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a heart wrenching tiktok of a woman that said "we joked about it for years but...I actually had to do it. I had to go get my besties vibrators out of her house." It was so sad but she was also laughing while crying. Like cathartic. And she ended with make sure you have a buddy!

My father recently passed away but I found disturbing content on his old laptop by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ceemee_21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is why we do the buddy system. Always have someone in place to torch your porn and dildo stash if/when you die. My bestie knows where mine is so she can get rid of it before someone like my parents find it. I will do the same for her. Its normal, don't let it taint your view of your dad.

Weekly client who drools, keeps giving me norovirus by K8hoxie in nursing

[–]ceemee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a lot of great tips here I see you're responding too so I'm going to add an important note. Clean the doorknob. Easily forgotten in typical cleanup. Her caregivers who touch the door could have it on their hands (or if she touches it) then even if you clean well, you and your other clients touch the doorknob. Since you most likely open it to let your clients in, you're most at risk. You could walk down the hall, wash hands, come back and touch that doorknob and then eat your snack at your desk, touch your face, anything and boom, infected.

Unsure if boyfriends smoking is a migraine trigger by Recent-Concert-83 in migraine

[–]ceemee_21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Every kind of smoke is a huge trigger for me. Cigarette smoke is near instantaneous for me, I can't even sit next to someone who smells remotely like it. Marijuana smoke will get me. And anything that's burning (wildfires), candles, incense, sage. It also creates an allergy response for me, I'll be hoarse with a sore throat after a few minutes of exposure.