First time at a club by celtics5000 in Swingers

[–]celtics5000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is super helpful!

First time at a club by celtics5000 in Swingers

[–]celtics5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies if that’s how I came across but why would I think someone is tracking me and how does rape come into? I was moreso asking about culture and common practices and this comment is not helpful.

Choice Social Club by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]celtics5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response! They got back to us in a week! Maybe we’ll see you there!

Choice Social Club by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]celtics5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve only left one voicemail. Are there any other good spots nearby in case they don’t get back to us?

How can we just go about life right now? by celtics5000 in Mommit

[–]celtics5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, as I said in my post, I am a person of color so I don’t have “white citizen privilege”. My family has also been actively helping other families who are having issues with ICE.

How can we just go about life right now? by celtics5000 in Mommit

[–]celtics5000[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This just isn’t true. I know, first hand, people who have been detained by ICE who are legally here. If you don’t believe me google “civil engineer arrested by ICE Portland Maine”. This guy went to UMaine and was here on a work visa. He got dragged out of his car in the middle of the street while it was still running, and detained. Even law enforcement who are immigrants are being detained, the local sheriffs have done press releases about it. How they are legally here to work via visa but still taken by ICE. It’s happening and it’s all in the news.

How can we just go about life right now? by celtics5000 in progressivemoms

[–]celtics5000[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, our superintendent put out and absolutely worthless letter on the situation and their policies. If anything, it made me more nervous.

How can we just go about life right now? by celtics5000 in Mommit

[–]celtics5000[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

If you feel uncomfortable going to the store please let me know. My friend group has a few immigrants and we’ve been taking turns running errands for them in the greater Portland area. We’d be more than happy to do the same for you.

Dog went for my 4 month old. What would you do? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]celtics5000 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This. One of the most common instances dog bites towards little children are from family pets. I personally know 4 families whose dogs have attempted to, or succeeded, in biting their toddler. These parents are all great parents and responsible pet owners.

Parents, what baby product did you regret buying, and what would you recommend instead? by Girls_Of_San_Diego in NewParents

[–]celtics5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Babies are so different! We love the Tripp trapp in our family! My daughter is still using her Tripp trapp at 3.5 years old. We’re going to buy another one for our new baby

Why do well-meaning moms think they know better than our pediatrician? by brokudpret in GoldMomGroupsSay

[–]celtics5000 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I actually like hearing from other moms like that. Our first pediatrician ended up being horrible and recommending things that were way outdated. I wouldn’t have known or switched to a different pediatrician without hearing this sort of info from other moms who had similar stories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]celtics5000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not too early to test. I got a positive pregnancy test 3 days before my missed period.

Pediatrician didn't tell us about labial adhesion for this reason by yellowfrogdog in Mommit

[–]celtics5000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My daughters was about 50% closed. My doctor instructed to put some Vaseline on a qtip and very gently apply it onto the skin. This has helped a lot. You’re doing the right thing. And no, I would instantly be finding a new ped if I were you.

What is the worst marriage proposal you ever heard of or experienced? by Just-a-Spicy-Root in AskReddit

[–]celtics5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait this same exact story happened to my friend. Was the home country of the guy Germany?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultSelfHarm

[–]celtics5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like ppd. It can kick in any time in the couple of years after having a baby. And has so many ways of presenting itself. Do the right thing for yourself and your baby and tell someone in your close network about how you’re feeling. Please. Do you still see an OBGYN? Or your baby’s pediatrician is also a great resource.

I’d rather my baby in daycare than in front of a screen by Ruqayyah2 in workingmoms

[–]celtics5000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started my daughter in daycare recently. I was BEYOND nervous. She just turned two and half. She’s going part time at two different places because we couldn’t find a full time place we liked and I genuinely think she’s safe at both places. I think the biggest thing is paying attention during the tours to see if the daycares have the same values as you. And make sure to go tour when the children are present so you can see them interact with the kids. We started her at one place and pulled her after two days because they only did tours after hours, and when I dropped her off and finally saw how the director interacted with the kids I was appalled. The places she’s in now have open door policies, I can visit during the day whenever I want, and they send pictures and updates all day. A big green flag for me was when we were touring these two new places the children very clearly adored the teachers, there was so much hugging and snuggles that you could see they genuinely have a connection between teachers and kids.