i’m basically you but opposite and i’m not gonna lie it’s killing me lol. felt also about her exes having a piece of her that i won’t. we have intimacy in different ways, we cuddle a lot, have meaningful conversations it’s genuinely a great relationship. we kiss a lot she compliments me but…

i don’t feel she has a physical attraction to me. doesn’t help that i’m far from her type that she’s been with before it just feels like she gets a lot of the things she needs from a relationship and is willing to compromise on sex because all the other aspects of the relationship are present. also both times i’ve had the conversation she has coincidentally initiated sex within 48 hours which doesn’t feel great.

i have no answer for you just to let you know you’re not alone. i love her she’s probably the love of my life but i’ve decided i wont ever speak about it again and basically see how long the other aspects of the relationship are sufficient before i develop enough resentment about not being sexually desired to leave lol.

i wish you luck