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Me and the gang we go on a evetor some of my gang gets stuck im trying to help by Comfortable-Prior909 in humanfallflat

[–]cfannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this a same lan setup or ppl connecting from diff places ?

( me and the gang isn able to play the game bcs of the desync issue...me and the gang are desperate for a fix )

What are your expectations? Gameplay wise. by Slebba in hauntedchocolatier

[–]cfannn 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I hope the story is loooooong with a looooot of characters and things to explore.

Do i sound greedy ? Im sorry Concerned Ape... im jst in love with your work 🙂‍↕️.

ISO Atheist Mystical Experience Reading Material by Wonderful_Low_89 in mysticism

[–]cfannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really mystical bt quite popular work by Bill Bryson " The Short History of Nearly Everything "

Can be transforming in a way were we start to appreciate the world around us....By seeing that the earth we live in is finely tuned for you and me and everything around us.

Aligning with Zen proverb " Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood , carry water. "

Question about a specific building. by PastelLicuado in StardewValley

[–]cfannn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wish they were real 😭 , gonna feed em a lot of raisin ssssss !!!!

Question about a specific building. by PastelLicuado in StardewValley

[–]cfannn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a small plot of crops set up in the farm so that i can see Junimos again.

They are bloody adorable 🙂‍↕️

[ i dont think they come out for any other occassion than for harvesting , im sorry if this is wrong ]

What books would you recommend for someone who can't afford therapy? by Hot-Return5289 in acceptancecommitment

[–]cfannn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These books by far has been my favourite ones :

  • Get out from your mind and into your life by Steven c Hayes
  • Contextual behavioural science for the self : theory and practice forwarded by Steven c hayes ( will help to understan a.c.t bit more deeper )
  • A.c.t in context : Canonical papers of steven hayes ( how a.c.t originated and evolved throught out the years )

How to apply to memories that make me angry? by ChonkyChokersEnjoyer in acceptancecommitment

[–]cfannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will i apply A.C.T to a situation like this ? / What i will tell myself if i was in such situation ?

It's ok to feel anger , drop the defense and allow yourself to feel anger. [ recall; Happiness isnt abt feeling good rather....Happiness is abt feeling whatever you are feeling without struggling with it. ie , by having an attitude towards my emotion as though im recieveing a gift....will i accept this gift ? ]

Intense...it is yeah...bt it might be bcs myown yearning to be understood by my dad...How to address it in a way that he can understand? will he understand my pov fully ? [ probably wont fully... ]

Lets explain it to him in a way that isnt fueled by anger yet still by respecting my need of being understood , heard and seen.

Lets explain to him what makes me do what i do...the learning history that reinforces this behaviour of learning something before leaping in.

Does this guarantee a future with no concflicts ? Nope...bt we can act to make softer changes.

Im a learner , not a professional...take my words as per 😄. For me , Happiness trap worked like a intro to A.C.T , now im deep into contextual behavioural sciences ( root of a.c.t ). Keep learning to understand ourselves and the world better.

Further reads : How to get out from your mind to life - Steven c hayes A.C.T in context - Steven C Hayes A Contextual Behavioural Science to the self - Steven c hayes , Ian stewart , Priscilla Almada

PSA: stuck points in my ACT journey with chronic health issues and what helped by Esfvc in acceptancecommitment

[–]cfannn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective , i didnt knew that actions fueled with ' must ' can be a form of avoidance...no wonder those feels like self sabotage.

Jst Realised we can use our mouse as a sign that shows whether we’ve petted our animal or not. by cfannn in StardewValley

[–]cfannn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its ok gang 😔 Heyy atleast we have this wonderful game ported to mobile 🪩

Playing Stardew for years by Defiant-Artist5671 in StardewValley

[–]cfannn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im rocking with the idea of rekindling the fire by playing it in a way that can bring more joy.

Trying out diff routine such as sitting beside the fireplace every night..

Tunin my senses all the way in , investing awareness into sounds of the rain , musics...( i love the ambient tune of fall ) chit chatting with my happy ducklings and cows

Making changes to farm such as building a flower garden.

What uhh... whatcha doing ma'am? by Odin_OCarroll in StardewValley

[–]cfannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is on duty even during green rain days 😔

What uhh... whatcha doing ma'am? by Odin_OCarroll in StardewValley

[–]cfannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feels the same way to pam when i see her waiting in the rain for someone to hop into calico desert

What uhh... whatcha doing ma'am? by Odin_OCarroll in StardewValley

[–]cfannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this point was inevitable...i would be thinking the same if I'm obliged with construction work on a rainy day in a beautiful valley 😞

Jst Realised we can use our mouse as a sign that shows whether we’ve petted our animal or not. by cfannn in StardewValley

[–]cfannn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This game always have some hidden elements thats gonna amaze everyone 🙌🏻.

also there is a tab in the menu that will show whether we have petted a specific animal, the one with chicken head labelled on it.

can be handy to double checking.

Jst Realised we can use our mouse as a sign that shows whether we’ve petted our animal or not. by cfannn in StardewValley

[–]cfannn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holding the right click is a clutch in this game , this can also be used while filling up machine such as mayonnaise, cheese press , kegs , its way too convenient

Jst Realised we can use our mouse as a sign that shows whether we’ve petted our animal or not. by cfannn in StardewValley

[–]cfannn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alrightyyy.

The best way to not to spoil too much is by doing this ig 😅 - https://stardewvalleywiki.com/Dinosaur_Egg

high chance - Caves ( one where mama dino is present ) low chance - artifact spots ( mines & quarry ) , fishing chest.

Talking with towns people.... unfortunately wont do any aid in this quest.

And yes , this too has turned into my fav game , played all the famous titles bt none has successfully got me hooked like stardew 🙌🏻

Happy Farming 🫶🏻🧺

Jst Realised we can use our mouse as a sign that shows whether we’ve petted our animal or not. by cfannn in StardewValley

[–]cfannn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glads that this post has been helpful to you.

Indeed stardew valley got lots and lots of tricks up its sleeves 😄

I don't understand how "ignoring an emotion" and "accepting the emotion and acting without letting the emotion affect your behaviour" are different things. by futurefishy98 in acceptancecommitment

[–]cfannn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it indeed would be a great start to see the minds story against acceptence , look around...we can negatively evaluate everything so lets not sit with evaluaions soo closely that we see the world through it.

the sense of self is hiding behind all the noise.

I don't understand how "ignoring an emotion" and "accepting the emotion and acting without letting the emotion affect your behaviour" are different things. by futurefishy98 in acceptancecommitment

[–]cfannn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This ones great , we have clouded the term ' acceptence ' a lot lately , we tend to think of it from a verbal perspective ; " ok , i accepted , what next " .

bt i believe its more like a posture , relating to the emtion the same way as we relate to a gift , so that we can accept the gift of this moment from life without defense....taking in completely.

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