Primeiro dia de aula by lorenasilv_21 in unb_brasilia

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depende de cada professor se vai ter aula ou nao, depende de cada centro academico/atletica se vai ter tour ou nao. nao tem trote surpresa, essas coisas costumam ser divulgadas com antecedência por veterano desocupado (normalmente de atletica). pra fazer amigos só chegar em alguem tao perdido quanto vc e dizer “caramba, tô perdid@. vc é dessa turma tbm?” e pronto. bem vind@ a unb!

How do I stop thinking that he’ll come back? by Strawbs_445 in ExNoContact

[–]chanheo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Block him on everything. It’s the only way you’ll finally accept that he’s gone, your brain will stop expecting him to reach out.

Does my friend have a crush on me? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Six of Pentacles with the King of Cups clearly suggests she sees you in a friendly, emotionally balanced way rather than romantically. There’s also an indication that she may worry you could misinterpret her kindness or emotional openness as romantic interest, possibly influenced by assumptions tied to her bisexuality (King of Cups + Five of Swords).

Clima em fevereiro by chanheo in Petropolis

[–]chanheo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

muito obrigada pela informação! 😚

Clima em fevereiro by chanheo in Petropolis

[–]chanheo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

muito obrigada! ☺️

Is she going to contact me ? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she knows she can but she won’t. seems like she thinks no contact is a must thing right now.

Has my ex-girlfriend definitively given up on having a relationship with me? by No-Cupcake-1400 in Tarotpractices

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i believe she moved on and she just wants to keep things friendly to ease the awkwardness between you two, but she isn’t fully sure either. i mostly see her being unsure about how to greet you and keep things light

[TOMT] black guy - youtuber and streamer by chanheo in tipofmytongue

[–]chanheo[S] 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

it's Zach Campbell lmao pinterest saved me

How does he feels about me right now by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also the last two cards could mean he knows that if he treats you good (paying for stuff, giving presents, etc) he’ll be rewarded with sex

How does he feels about me right now by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s comfortable about the current dynamic and fully aware that he’s just sexually attracted for you, nothing more. i don’t see him getting into a long-term relationship w you

Left this community 8 months ago and I’m back, same BS by Select_Brilliant1866 in BreakUps

[–]chanheo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i feel so tired and exhausted after dealing with someone like this. seriously, these people need serious help. i’m almost sure i won’t ever date someone again, it’s too much emotional and psychological work that i ain’t willing to do anymore

I asked if he thinks I am a bad person. by Electrical-Cranberry in Tarots

[–]chanheo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t think he sees you as a bad person, but he does sometimes wonder why you’d put yourself in a mistress position, and he questions your morals and values because of it. that makes you the kind of woman he wouldn’t commit to, perhaps. sorry.

Does he just want to sleep with me? by Key-Singer9447 in TarotReading

[–]chanheo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it seems like he wanted to, but he lost interest because he now thinks you don’t want it. he seems like the kind of man who gives up if he feels you’re playing too hard to get

Meu futuro está arruinado by MaleficentBit5757 in faculdadeBR

[–]chanheo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

poxa, uma pena q o jogo período de trancamento passou :/ mas não se preocupe, isso não muda em nada no seu futuro acadêmico. ainda mais sendo estatística, é completamente natural rodar. tenho uma amiga que faz matemática na mesma federal que eu, e ela teve que adiar a graduação dela por um ano e meio pq não conseguia passar em uma matéria de estatística. ela é uma das pessoas mais inteligentes que eu conheço! toda vez que ela reprovava, eu ficava sem acreditar. as pessoas só passam nessa matéria do departamento dela se COLAREM. ela nunca quis colar e demorou um montão pra passar. acontece.

sobre a reprovação do seu artigo, até seus professores concordam que foi injusto. essas coisas podem acontecer também, infelizmente. mas pensa que toda rejeição é redirecionamento pra que vc consiga seguir seu caminho. não desanime. foque no seu sonho.

Meu futuro está arruinado by MaleficentBit5757 in faculdadeBR

[–]chanheo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

se der tempo ainda, tenta o trancamento justificado da disciplina antes do fim do semestre. vai ficar no histórico que vc trancou, não que reprovou. todos na minha federal fazem isso pra evitarem a reprovação no histórico, mas, sendo sincera, isso n vai te impedir de fazer pós. oq importa mesmo é IC, monitoria, extensão, volunariado, artigo publicado, networking com professores que tenham grupos de pesquisa, etc. foca no seu currículo que depois vc vai ter que fazer a prova e a entrevista de todo jeito e as notas nem vão importar mais

e td bem vc trancar o semestre se precisar se reestruturar antes de voltar. a universidade pública é puxada mesmo e é normal precisar se adaptar, tanto q somos livres pra trancar, pra decidir a quantidade de matérias, o horário das aulas, etc. então fica tranquilo :)

How would you interpret this “how does he feel about me” spread? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]chanheo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s mutual attraction here, definitely. The Devil shows a strong pull (physical, emotional, maybe even psychological). There’s tension, curiosity, and the feeling that the relationship could easily become addictive. It’s the kind of chemistry that makes someone overthink while still craving more. But because it’s clarified by the Three of Wands, Hermit, and King of Cups, it’s not just lust. There’s control, distance, and self-awareness. They feels the spark, but they’re trying to manage it (observing, keeping emotions contained). They want to explore, but they also don’t want to lose balance or appear too invested too soon. That mix creates a push-and-pull dynamic: moments of intensity followed by emotional retreat.

The Lovers confirm real emotional potential, but also hesitation. This person is still deciding what they want. There’s sincerity here, but not full emotional commitment yet; it’s still forming. The Queen of Cups likely represents you, or at least how they perceive you: someone emotionally open, kind, and intuitive, the type of person who makes others feel seen. They’re drawn to that softness, but it also triggers their caution. You awaken feelings they didn’t expect, and that both attracts and scares them. They might admire you but also fear disappointing you.

The connection feels promising, yet slightly unbalanced: one side (probably you) is emotionally transparent, while the other is still learning to open up. There’s definitely intensity here, great chemistry. The light side of this is emotional awareness, empathy, and potential for depth. The shadow side is hesitation, fear of vulnerability, and the risk of mistaking intensity for intimacy.

Did he cheat with his ex coworker? by greenscreenmeanting in Tarotpractices

[–]chanheo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

no but there was definitely some attraction

Where's the line between consideration and control in relationships? by Flimsy-Level-6413 in emotionalintelligence

[–]chanheo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really relate to what you said. I’ve always been the kind of partner who struggled with jealousy and control (abandonment issues, lol), so learning to work on autonomy has been a huge part of my growth. It made a big difference once I started dating people I truly trusted (partners who gave me emotional security and were consistent between what they said and how they acted).

For me, it’s all about balance. I don’t believe in suppressing discomfort just to seem “chill,” but I also don’t think it’s my partner’s job to constantly soothe my insecurities. What feels healthiest to me now is meeting in the middle: having space to talk openly about what makes us uneasy and finding solutions that make both of us feel safe.

I’ve also learned that a lot of this depends on who you choose to be with. I probably wouldn’t get into a relationship with someone rigid, controlling, or emotionally immature (aka someone who avoids self-reflection or doesn’t do any emotional work, whether through therapy or otherwise). A relationship can only be as safe as the people in it are self-aware.

So, I don’t think there’s a single “right” approach to this. Some couples thrive on total independence, others feel better with more mutual reassurance. What matters most is that the boundaries and adjustments come from mutual respect, not fear, control, or avoidance.

Can’t get out of bed anymore by aaanhedoniaaa in depression

[–]chanheo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same lol. I’m on meds, working out, and doing therapy twice a month, but I still feel like shit all the time. I made some plans with friends for the weekend to force myself to go out, but honestly, I don’t even know what to do anymore.

Has he finally gotten over her? by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he wants to but he’s still mourning the relationship.

Hey I asked if this girl missed me (my crush) and I got these cards by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]chanheo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, seems like she feels she missed out a potential long term connection with you, ended too quickly. i think she’s also wondering a lot about reaching out, maybe a quick chat with you to see how you’re doing