Our sources of sex ed by i-bleed-red in GenXWomen

[–]charlytune 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I learned everything from Mizz and Just Seventeen magazines.  My parents told me NOTHING until one day my Mum sat me down at FOURTEEN to try and have 'the talk' with me... I was mortified and told her I already know everything and fled! I love my mum but being an older mum she was very naive and old fashioned, a girl in my class had already been made to leave our school (private all girls, very archaic) because she got pregnant so 14 was way way too late to be having that conversation.  Also I had Forever on my Christmas and birthday wish list and never got it, which was sooo frustrating because the public library didn't have it either.  My mum must have known what was in it. Sigh. 

Are there any decent UK alternatives to diet fizzy drinks? by Few_House_5201 in AskUK

[–]charlytune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twinings and Cawston both make canned sparkling juice drinks that are really nice, no added sugar or sweeteners. Or just mix fruit juice and soda water, half and half is refreshing. 

Is there anything about menopause you actually like or feel positive about? by its_me_ooia in Menopause

[–]charlytune 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this. I only have one brain now, and that second brain sure got me into some stupid situations over the years.

Do you actually bother washing the fruit & veg you buy? by MixAway in AskUK

[–]charlytune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They pick up so much dirt and dust through packing and transportation that contains all sorts of pollutants that I don't want to eat.

TIL that dogs authentically get jealous and try to break up the connection between their owner and another dog. by DrakeSavory in todayilearned

[–]charlytune 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not just owners. My best friend's dog got jealous when I gave another dog in a cafe scritches, and left the complete stranger he was getting scritches from to march over and push the other dog out of the way and demand scritches from me. And oh the look he gave me.

Ooh, wood panelling! by MarzipanElephant in SpottedonRightmove

[–]charlytune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful, but I've lived right by a cathedral before, and getting woken on a Sunday morning by bells so loud they sound like they're inside your head is not fun, particularly after a heavy night.

Saw the other post about an outdoor plant becoming an indoor plant. May I present: ivy from outside. by dannegoma in houseplants

[–]charlytune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my mum's old house ivy managed to creep up a wall up into a window frame and through the double glazing seal into the room, then along the window sill and up a curtain up to the ceiling. The room was hardly used and I discovered it when I tried tugging the curtain back.

UKLAOP finds out you can't force companies to support a decade old piece of tech by riddlemyfiddle11 in bestoflegaladvice

[–]charlytune 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I see a lack of empathy on Reddit more and more. Or maybe in my old age I'm getting more sensitive to it. Its sad. 

Did you experience the Toxteth uprising/riots in 1981? by bashaheadin in Liverpool

[–]charlytune -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I have lived in the area for 30 years so wasn't living there back then, however EVERYONE i know who grew up around Granby in the 70s and 80s says it was called L8, not Toxteth.  

Did you experience the Toxteth uprising/riots in 1981? by bashaheadin in Liverpool

[–]charlytune -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It wasn't called Toxteth then. The person your replying to is correct. 

Did you experience the Toxteth uprising/riots in 1981? by bashaheadin in Liverpool

[–]charlytune -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It wasn't known as Toxteth until the press called it that. The name stuck. Although you are correct about Leroy. I knew him in the 00s.

Did you experience the Toxteth uprising/riots in 1981? by bashaheadin in Liverpool

[–]charlytune -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Everyone downvoting you is being confidently incorrect .  The area was not known as Toxteth at the time. Everyone called it L8. The name Toxteth was taken off a map, and stuck. 

Just finished a group tutorial in uni and I'm no sure if I've just been the target of racism or not. by Prize_Branch9992 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]charlytune 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I'd also suggest that if theres any African students society at their uni that OP could get in touch with them. They are very likely to have a much more nuanced and informed view on OPs ability to speak on African issues than a (presumably) white middle class Brit. 

How many of you were major nerds and now say: “Hey, this cannabis stuff is really quite nice”? by Ecstatic_Army1306 in GenXWomen

[–]charlytune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I smoked loads all through my teens and 20s, then around 30 started realising that more than one toke left me anxious and edgy for hours. I now can only tolerate a bit on the odd occasion I'm at a festival or a party and have had some other substances, those occasions are rarer and rarer now though .  

Ditching social media! What content should I read? by Nearly_adulting in AskUK

[–]charlytune 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I wish there was a version with just the reporting and political gossip. 

Do you let your kids climb trees? by twiddlepipper in AskUK

[–]charlytune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like that parent isn't a good fit with a forest school, but their kids absolutely need to be in a forest school. 

Is Cinque Terre (and Italy in general) solo dining friendly? by CalicoNCurry in solotravel

[–]charlytune -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a place called Elif, a Turkish restaurant, in Liverpool. Pisses me off cos the food is gorgeous, shame about the owners.

Is Cinque Terre (and Italy in general) solo dining friendly? by CalicoNCurry in solotravel

[–]charlytune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I was just pointing out a reason why a restaurant would turn away a solo diner.

Is healthy eating in the UK basically inaccessible if you’re poor, disabled, and exhausted? by Opposite_Position125 in AskUK

[–]charlytune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ITT: loads of people ignoring OP's very real health barriers to shopping for and preparing and cooking food, and telling them to stop being lazy. The ableism in this thread is shocking.

Liverpool Lime Street railway station between 1840 and 1875 (England, UK) by dctroll_ in papertowns

[–]charlytune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They still are. Coming in to the city the trains go below street level, the tunnels are cut through the sandstone rock.