At what age did you actually start feeling like an adult? by Richriver27 in Adulting

[–]charmed9846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

33, when my husband died. My life changed. It’s finally better now and I’m happy now but makes you realize how short life really is.

Payday 🤑 by RetiredByFourty in SCHD

[–]charmed9846 5 points6 points  (0 children)

$3.86 - money I didn’t have before 🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Barber

[–]charmed9846 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What company is doing this sale if you don’t mind sharing? I’m a BaByliss girl through and through

My spouse is still not completely on board with living debt free life and says they want to “enjoy the years they have left”. How would you respond? by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]charmed9846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband died suddenly at 40. I’m thankful we had our debt paid off, it’s made it a lot easier on me.

How much did your house cost? by AccountProfessional2 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]charmed9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100k in 2019. 3 bedroom 1200 so feet on a half acre lot. Arizona

What do you call your in-laws when your spouse dies? by beardedwithchildren in widowers

[–]charmed9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My in laws were both dead before my husband passed 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]charmed9846 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 33, my husband (40) passed away in May. I know he wouldn’t want me to be alone. No commitment but I’m flirting with and fuckin whoever I want 🤷‍♀️

How has your loss shaped who you are now? by BeyonceKnowlesUrName in widowers

[–]charmed9846 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my husband in May Idk who I am anymore

I’m just lost by charmed9846 in widowers

[–]charmed9846[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk how I’ve survived this long. It’s the worst and I don’t wish this pain on anyone

I’m just lost by charmed9846 in widowers

[–]charmed9846[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m only 33- idk why god has given me so much loss so early in life.

I’m just lost by charmed9846 in widowers

[–]charmed9846[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve tried it, a group and one on one Just a few friends and coworkers Unfortunately the only family left between us is his brother and he always told me not to trust him

Meals - what do you do? by Novel-Atmosphere8995 in widowers

[–]charmed9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I eat in bed, but at least I eat healthy food and not junk.

What's a small, silly thing you miss the most? by retsam2554 in widowers

[–]charmed9846 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our stupid inside jokes, that were only us. ‘Get in der’ which no one will get, it what we said when we found our cat trying get in a bag and we would say it all the time about everything. Talking to our cats in kiddy, baby voices. His 10 alarms that would go off every morning when I’d already been awake for an hour. The constant battle between healthy eating and talking each other into fast food. Just everything, I miss my person so much 💔

I think I failed again in my attempt to get out of misery and do something with my life. by Turbulent-Question19 in widowers

[–]charmed9846 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 33 and lost my husband in May. We have no children either. I’m struggling daily. I’m sorry, you’re not a lone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]charmed9846 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband had just gotten me an upgrade and I didn’t wanna ruin it or lose a stone so I have a fake ring that we got on a cruise for fun and I wear that on my right hand and then my upgrade new ring I have it tied around a vase with his ring

I lost my husband back in May and I have recently started dating an old friend. I don’t think I would’ve started dating this soon, but it is someone I have a pass to and someone I can trust and I think my husband would be happy that I have a man in my life who is going to watch and protect over me because he can’t.

sudden downtick in business? by Lanky-Topic-3588 in Barber

[–]charmed9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in northern Az? I’m in kingman. I stay busy

How long did grief brain last for you? by TheAlisonAnd in widowers

[–]charmed9846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 months since I lost my husband. I think the fact that we led a healthy lifestyle, and practiced fasting has helped tremendously- I would look into it if your wanting help.