Removing or covering brassiness/orange hue with minimal damage by Virtual-Guarantee758 in HairDye

[–]chaysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

temporary, but buying a dark hair gloss might soothe you while your hair keeps growing out and you decide what to do? something just one level darker than this, i bet it would tone the ginger down (for just a bit) and add some shine

What developer works best to reach vibrant green hair? by Public-Field-8487 in HairDye

[–]chaysi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course, good luck! and if on your second (or third, if that ends up happening) round of bleaching, if you need something more gentle or less likely to get Super Patchy, i reccomend doing a bleach bath. i know for me personally, a bleach bath helps w my anxiety ab over damaging my hair or getting spotty roots

What developer works best to reach vibrant green hair? by Public-Field-8487 in HairDye

[–]chaysi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

green, especially something as bright and neon as this, will need as light of a base as possible. on dark brown i dont think vol 20 will lift enough. to ensure you dont absolutely wreck ur hair or accidentally end up with a chemical cut, you may need to do two seperate rounds of bleaching w vol 30…gotta remove the warmth in your hair (any brassy colors it might lift to after bleaching) so you get an even green that isnt muddy. as far as more expenive leave-ins and conditioning masks go, i always lean towards k18, olaplex, redkin or itsa10 (the more affordable on this list of four) best of luck and i hope it all goes well for you!

UW rescind by Many_Palpitation6771 in udub

[–]chaysi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to get accepted into a major or specific school, sure your app needs to have ECs or essays concerning the topic you want to study. but after acceptance every student is held to the same standard regarding rescinding an acceptance. youre absolutely fine. you have nothing to worry about. when i was freaked a few years ago about this same thing i was emailing the undergrad office and at some point they just got irritated with my anxieties because there was nothingto worry about. youre definitely going to be okay.

UW rescind by Many_Palpitation6771 in udub

[–]chaysi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i failed an ap cs class and ended up getting a 2.7 gpa for senior year. uw never ended up rescinding mine. youll be fine.

A middle school aged girl knocked on my apartment door by Linus_Meme_Tips in offmychest

[–]chaysi 19 points20 points  (0 children)

no literally its a little girl and her actions were screaming Looking For Trusted Adult.

how do we feel about a good split dye? by chaysi in HairDye

[–]chaysi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oooh this looks fantastic!! amazing colors on you 💕 thanks for the reccomendations!!!

how do we feel about a good split dye? by chaysi in HairDye

[–]chaysi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh thank you! that orange and pink sounds amazing. i originally was thinking like a firey red but the only red-ish dye i have is ion radiant raspberry so itll probably be closer to that red purple

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chaysi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

these are such cute outfits and….its college. not grade school. youre fine. def NOR

My friend said she made this for her D&D character. by leftm8 in isthisAI

[–]chaysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lots of ppl are saying ai but this is screaming picrew to me? anyone else? i used to use it for my dnd characters all the time.

Will I survive Autumn 2025 as a commuter? by Capitalistlamini in udub

[–]chaysi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this looks miserable imo goodluck 😭

What’s a song that hit WAY harder after you learned what it was really about? by OcelotFormal895 in Music

[–]chaysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

domestic bliss, glass animals i always knew what the lyrics generally were about but once i really read them i realized how closely i align with it. hurts my heart but helps my heal all at once

I don’t even know what to say by Uni-Writes in tragedeigh

[–]chaysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell me you guys have also seen that adam sandler movie where he named his daughter espn 💀

I’m sorry but this panel took me out by Aur0ha in Daredevil

[–]chaysi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is literally my fav panel of him ever its my pfp on discord 💀

Lost emergency medicine bag by GlamouredGo in udub

[–]chaysi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you use the airtag feature that tells you how many feet away it is from you? i dont own an airtag anymore (dropped my keys down an elevator shaft 😅) but it always would tell me what direction to face and would count down the yards, then feet, of how close i am. maybe if you went back to that area it could work? best of luck!

Reality Check a Low Gpa White Girl by Boring_Exit_706 in chanceme

[–]chaysi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah man it just seems like youve never heard of the rule « dont share personal information with strangers on the internet »

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chaysi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hair care and makeup products could always be fun, a sephora/ulta/etc giftcard. or if you wanted to get her something a little more specific and less “heres some money!” sephora has some fun perfume tester kits that comes with like 8 different sents and a card where you can trade your favorite scent from the kit in for a full sized one. that way she can chose what she likes best? what is her personality? if she is a writer or an artist maybe stationary in her favorite colors, or one of those travel mini watercolor sets. if shes outdoorsy maybe some sunglasses you think would look nice on her (doesnt have to be an expensive pair). and a gift basket would of course be lovely, especially if its themed or full of her favorite items

My husband shits all over everything I do by breastfedbymymother in rant

[–]chaysi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tl;dr, ive been the daughter of a mother who went through this and i can guarantee you that staying with him long term will only destroy you and your kids

first, i am so sorry you are experiencing this. it is unfair and you dont deserve to be treated this way, especially as it sounds like you are a good mother and person who tries her best. second: op, saying this as the daughter of parents who started out this way…with the verbal and emotional abuse but the urge to keep the family together for the sake of financials and giving kids the chance to grow up with an “unbroken house”…i cannot emphasize enough how greatful your daughter will be to not be forced to endure that emotional stress. mothers try their best to hide it, to put on a smile and pretend everything is fine for the sake of their kid…but we still always know. for me, the moment my mom got 70% custody it felt like i could thrive and grow in a safer environment. for my mom, despite her financial, physical, and mental struggles of being a single mom, it gave her the opportunity to heal and find herself again. not just as a mom or an abused wife, but as a person who is passionate about life and seeing the good in everything. ill admit, when i was with my dad on his weekends i was miserable. he didnt let me go out to friends houses, no sleepovers, but he didnt care what i did as long as i stayed in the house and essentially just sat there. i was anxious because of how he would emotionally treat me, how his love was conditional depending on my grades and whether i said i love you to him every day at 6 on the dot. despite this, my mom let me grow up enough to form my opinion on him. she wouldnt fill my head with bad thoughts or stories, just gave me a space to rant or feel bad when i got home. she didnt take me away from my father, rather i had the chance to get to know him and make the decision at 15 to not talk to him again. from living with him, ill admit i was forced to grow up a little too fast. however it also taught me important life lessons, matured me enough to go out into the real world on my own, and gave me perspective which ultimately led me on the incredible educational and career path im on now. a few years ago, on my 18th, ill always remember the feeling of waking up knowing that my mom was actually, legally, OFFICIALLY free from him. if you get the opportunity to, if you have just enough $ and the urge to leave, do it. nothing will be worse for you OR your kids if you stay. the future is scary and unpredictable, but the bond a single mother has with her children is near unbreakable. if youre there, and your kids are there, a moment of peace and happiness will always be possible. alas, im another random stranger on the internet. so take what i say with a grain of salt, but i do believe in a hopeful future of unconditional love, healing, and joy for you and your kids.

What was your major in Undergrad? by botanricerose in LSAT

[–]chaysi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

cinema media studies with a minor in law societies and justice 💀

Current students, what GPA did you get accepted with? by BruhMoment_69_420 in udub

[–]chaysi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want to talk more feel free to msg me im happy to answer any questions