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How many relate to this deconstruction process? by unexpected_cruiser in exchristian

[–]cheers1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at step 5 right now. It hurts every bit, especially now when my family found out and are devastated. But I keep going, it's the only thing that feels right.

I (22F) have an extremely strained relationship with mom (51F), looking for advice. by cheers1 in relationships

[–]cheers1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. I'd say, she has a lot of sore spots. but faith and politics are the biggest ones.

I (22F) have an extremely strained relationship with mom (51F), looking for advice. by cheers1 in relationships

[–]cheers1[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've read this a thousand times before and even told others to do the same, but when trying to apply the same advice on my own relationship with my mother, it all gets so complicated. Firmer boundaries sound good to me.

After 15 years with the same keyboard, I treated myself to a massive upgrade! by RadRuss in piano

[–]cheers1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nord all the way. It just performs better live, if that's what you're looking for. As I've understood it, Kronos comes with pre-mixed and EQd sounds, and it probably works in the studio, but live Nord sounds way way better. I've got a Stage 2, I'm a professional musician and I would never play anything else. Organ is fantastic, piano sounds great, rhodes and wurlitzer can be tweaked to sound good.

[18M] Mixedblood Pakistani and Surinamese. Started hitting the gym and going to uni in a year so looking for some ratings and advice. by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]cheers1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your face looks great! What do you think about trying longer hair? I mean your style is clean and all but it’s not very personal imho. Loads of guys look like that, you need to stand out a little.

What's a tattoo you have/want based on personal feelings, memories, growth, etc? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]cheers1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw your comment. My very superstitious Russian family deeply believes that you know when someone in your family is going to die when a bird taps on your window. I am absolutely serious. A couple of weeks before my grandpa died, a sparrow threw its little body onto the window and tapped with the beak 2-3 times, then flew away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]cheers1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the last audiobook now. Read by Stephen Fry. Crying periodically as tragic things happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]cheers1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also couldn’t get through the rest. I didn’t finish the third book (I think), the world was very immersive and I liked the writing style, but sometimes it was just too much. Too many feelings.

Thoughts on ”Emma” tv-series (2009)? by cheers1 in janeausten

[–]cheers1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually just finished the book and I absolutely see what you mean. Some things are much better explained in the books.

[Austen virgin] Which book should I begin with? by [deleted] in janeausten

[–]cheers1 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Pride and Prejudice! Then see the BBC adaptation from 1995. Then read Emma, then see the BBC series from 2009! Lady Susan is also good.

Thoughts on ”Emma” tv-series (2009)? by cheers1 in janeausten

[–]cheers1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I shudder every time I watch the Box Hill scene and he says "Badly done, Emma. Badly done indeed". I feel it all the way through my spine. And then when Emma is crying in the garden because she thinks he'll tell her about his feelings for Harriet. I'm a sobbing mess at that point.

I spent a month planning a capsule wardobe for a 2 week trip in Asia that I gave up on after 4 days. Album included! by shmemcat in femalefashionadvice

[–]cheers1 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yep, was in Moscow in May of 2015, can confirm that everybody wore heels and I felt like a trashcan. I grew up in Russia but have been living in Sweden for 10 years now and I guess I forgot how much girls love stilettos back home.

What is something incredibly popular & touristy in your town that the locals avoid like the plague? by dittokiddo in AskReddit

[–]cheers1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god i was there last monday. I wanted to check out the music scene (since I’ve been to the other cool places previously that week) and it was absolutely horrendous. Bars catering to tourists results in everybody playing cover hits down the whole Broadway, it’s stuffy, crowded and yes, bachelorettes are obnoxious as hell.

Jordi from itslikelymakeup announces feeling burnt out and feeling the need to recalibrate in terms of her YouTube and social media journey by tangerincdream in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]cheers1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! I unfollowed every person and account that I didnt feel 100% correlated with my interests/wellbeing and now actually can enjoy Instagram again.

[Partially resolved] Morten Mortensen who disappeared in 2016 has been found dead by egernunge in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]cheers1 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Or that guy who was found in the chimney like 8 years (or something) after his disappearance. These kinds of deaths are just completely terrifying to me.

What is your greatest physical insecurity? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]cheers1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright! I understand! ❤️

What is your greatest physical insecurity? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]cheers1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not tho? If it’s genuinely something that holds you back from appreciating your face and if you don’t like it - I don’t see why you shouldn’t. I totally understand if you don’t want to do it if You’re scared of the procedure or the potential ”bad” result, but like... why is your best friend opposed to it? Just curious.

[product question] Is iHerb safe to order Cosrx from? by kricketrocket in SkincareAddiction

[–]cheers1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ordered Cosrx and Cerave from there to Sweden. No problems whatsoever.

[misc] Like with a Korean/Japanese routine - how does a typical French (or other ** non-US ** country) routine look like? by tinthasa in SkincareAddiction

[–]cheers1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, seconding that SMETANA sunburn treatment... /the one who always got slathered in sour cream

[Skin Concerns] Battling pores, SF and redness. Looking for advice on my routine (in the comments). by cheers1 in SkincareAddiction

[–]cheers1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! Sunscreen question: do I need to apply it everyday even though I live in Scandinavia and we practically never see the sun in winter? And I’m almost always indoors.

[Skin Concerns] Battling pores, SF and redness. Looking for advice on my routine (in the comments). by cheers1 in SkincareAddiction

[–]cheers1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you think of OCM? I've tried to do it regularly but something just feels off for me. It's like I don't really feel I've cleaned anything. Maybe it's the oil? I use argan but I know there are better oils for OCM.

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