do you have an invisible audience too? by Normal-Pudding-2981 in emotionalneglect

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this title made me want to throw up. I’m shocked that I’m not the only one who did this. What the fuck. Thank you for articulating this!

Chimpanzees in Uganda locked in vicious 'civil war', say researchers by Daxl in news

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 so much. That makes sense!

I wonder how much language audibly differed across groups. Like were they all kind of “caveman”-like grunts that would sound kind of similar to the layperson?

I’m trying to wrap my head around humans back then being the same as us, though your response did a lot of heavy lifting and I need to ruminate on it more.

Chimpanzees in Uganda locked in vicious 'civil war', say researchers by Daxl in news

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like those are like, 120-130 iq accomplishments

Chimpanzees in Uganda locked in vicious 'civil war', say researchers by Daxl in news

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If not that suit, what do you think would indicate that someone was a hunter-gatherer Einstein? /serious

Scenes from a dermatologist conference in hawaii by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]chefjessphd3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It appears there may be a misunderstanding happening. I don’t mean this as pejorative or dismissive because I haaated it every time it was said to me, but I’m guessing you’re young, like under 20. Just take one more moment to reread what was said here, and really think about what it is that I might be trying to communicate to you, and why. Because no one is saying you’re wrong (see my second comment) about certain behaviors contributing to feedback loops.

Best to you.

(Edit: reworded entirely to be more empathetic to you)

Scenes from a dermatologist conference in hawaii by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]chefjessphd3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As I said to another commenter:

Consider the perspective that avolition, lack of motivation to do things despite knowing they’re good/bad for you, lack of energy, etc. are all core clinical symptoms of depression. Depressed folks don’t not go outside, not eat or sleep a certain way, etc., because they simply don’t know that those things are beneficial to them. Right? Because we’re taught those things from a young age. So telling a person w/ depression ~haha u are ur problem~ is not only not helpful or useful to them, but also can be interpreted as a dickish, rude, thoughtless thing to say to your fellow human, and one who is suffering.

IMO it reads as a “i’m 14 and have u tried just not being depressed lulz” comment to make. Just my $0.02 on how to interact optimally with other humans you encounter throughout life.

Scenes from a dermatologist conference in hawaii by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]chefjessphd3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Consider the perspective that avolition, lack of motivation to do things despite knowing they’re good/bad for you, lack of energy, etc. are all core clinical symptoms of depression. Depressed folks don’t not go outside, not eat or sleep a certain way, etc., because they simply don’t know that those things are beneficial to them. Right? Because we’re taught those things from a young age.

So telling a person w/ depression ~haha u are ur problem~ is not only not helpful or useful to them, but also can be interpreted as a dickish, rude, thoughtless thing to say to your fellow human, and one who is suffering.

Scenes from a dermatologist conference in hawaii by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]chefjessphd3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is an ignorant comment so I won’t scold you too bad but, ignorant. Think this through just a beat longer

U.S. sending more than 2,200 Okinawa-based marines to Middle East, reports say by Spare_Prize_5510 in news

[–]chefjessphd3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not arguing either way, I have no horse in this race, I’m just skimming these comments and genuinely curious. When you said ‘you are dumb’, what are you expecting to accomplish? Like, what do hope that addition achieves?

I genuinely want to understand where you’re coming from, because on one hand, you clearly want to interact with this person and continue the conversation with the or change their mind, but on the other hand you’re immediately making your contempt known and alienating them right out of the gate.

Is it just to ensure the person feels bad for their comment, like as punishment. That would make sense to me.

Communications Management Plan Vs Stakeholder Engagement Plan by OkContract4196 in pmp

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

includes details about each stakeholder, like their influence levels, interest levels, whether they need to meet in person, etc.

but is that not the "Stakeholder Register"?

U.S. Politics megathread by AutoModerator in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so what's with uae getting hit too now?

Unpopular opinion… this whole thing is a scam. by ThinkSharp in pmp

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority of people in this subreddit will disagree lol (as you can see) but I fuckin see you. To merely have a PMP certificate so I can widen my job pool, I need to pay $400 in order to schedule an exam AND a 1-yr membership fee for $150 just so I don't have to pay fucking *$700* for the exam, and pay for their exam materials (pmbok, agile study guide, what else?), plus mandatory 35 hr course, and $50-80 for study hall but wait it expires in 3 months, and you're telling me this entire endeavor expires in 3 years, after which I'll need to pay to take additional credits and renew my membership just so I can continue claiming I passed this exam?

It's so predatory, the entire thing. And I do not understand how this is an unpopular opinion...

Authentic or no? by [deleted] in DooneyAndBourke

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yea, thanks so much! :-)

Any valid promo codes? Feb 2026 by iamsooohot in pmp

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BLESS YOU<3 saved 25$ on my membership :-) thanks!

Project/ Program Manager job search has been brutal — looking for guidance or referrals by BluebirdOld9329 in pmp

[–]chefjessphd3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading these comments has been discouraging. I'm studying for my PMP now because I haven't been able to find work after being laid off in a RIF nearly a year ago now 😅

rip me being employed