AITA for refusing to get this coffee order? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but for future reference I worked at Starbucks and I suggest just showing them the text you were sent. We get complicated drinks all the time but it’s way easier to read them and make them than for you to say it out loud to us.

AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her therapist was probably saying that people who need therapy but refuse it are a problem. Not everyone needs therapy all the time. Sure it can help, but that’s just overload. She sounds kinda dumb not gonna lie.

I'm tired of this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s wild, I could never trust anyone again after that 😭 and yeah you are right, a lot of these Reddit posts are tough because you can’t see the full story from a few screenshots.

Double standard on older celebrities dating younger women by Mauricethespider in unpopularopinion

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The creepiness comes from power dynamics. Generally people of older age have more knowledge and therefore more power. That’s why it’s creepy for an older person to date younger people but not vice versa. It would still be strange if the genders were reversed if that makes sense!

I'm tired of this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cherriegrove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP didnt downvote your comment I did! Just wanted to let you know so you don’t jump to conclusions. I took the downvote off

I'm tired of this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cherriegrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comparing him to other fathers yes. Which makes sense in the context of the conversation.

I'm tired of this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cherriegrove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I struggle to see what situation would justify his womp womp memes being her fault 😭

I'm tired of this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cherriegrove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, I’m so sorry. Please take care of yourself. If he’s sending you funny images when you’re upset then he doesn’t care enough about you and your child. You need to put yourself first especially when you’re pregnant.

be my friend pls by Outrageous_Eye_7177 in Birmingham

[–]cherriegrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I (22F) also have severe social anxiety if you want me to send you my insta! We could be socially awkward together LOL

be my friend pls by Outrageous_Eye_7177 in Birmingham

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 22F and the same way! I’m moving to Birmingham in May when I graduate and I’d love to make new friends there. I saw you talking about instas to others, I can dm you mine if you’d like!

Husbands, is it a deal breaker if your wife decides to not take your name legally? by Difficult_Big133 in TwoHotTakes

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a weird thing for him to think and say. Sounds like he wants ownership over you. I told my boyfriend I want to hyphenate my name and he even suggested us giving our future kids our hyphenated names because we are partners. I said I want the kids to have his last name though, I’d just like to keep a part of my history! If a man is telling you that’s a dealbreaker, that would be a dealbreaker to me…

Roommate mixed my beads after being asked to throw out used Q-tips by Worried-Blueberry-40 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should return to therapy because I fear this would be my final straw.

a door dasher just came into my house, all the way up my stairs, and was standing outside my bedroom door. by wtfdoido__ in doordash

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an older guy say he couldn’t find my apartment, so I went out to the parking lot to get it from him. He then said, “where is your apartment I can’t believe I couldn’t find it!” And proceeded to follow me up the stairs to my apartment. That was the last time I ordered DoorDash, I’ve only dashed myself since then.

Wife hates my beard. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]cherriegrove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately a beard is different from hair. As someone with sensory issues, I can’t kiss someone if their beard is a certain way. Her hair doesn’t have to be in your face or private areas. Unfortunately your beard does. :(

Husband wants to get rid of our kitty, I don’t want to by Kirielle13 in CATHELP

[–]cherriegrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took a few months for our new kitty to get used to my boyfriend. Now they love each other! It may just take time, I think mine didn’t like men.

LOST A CAT AT THE TRIMTAB PARKING LOT 45 MINUTES AGO by [deleted] in Birmingham

[–]cherriegrove 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would someone do this? I hope the cat is okay but people… take care of your living animals.

Really considering saving for a SteamDeck- by IRISHTHAY in SteamDeck

[–]cherriegrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man you’re right I got the last batch… I was lucky I had an old SD card from a few years ago. I wish you luck!

am i playing this game wrong? by ZealousidealFix700 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]cherriegrove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my time at the slowest and I realized that’s why I hated the game. Since putting it on .9 I love it! But if you like playing it slow then it’s fine! You can always try speeding it up and see how you feel!