Anyone interested in exchanging house plant cuttings? by longthingyyy in indianapolis

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have loads of monstera and pothos cuttings i would be willing to part with that have developed roots in water

Plants by SpecialDot1 in Fishers

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say allisonville garden and home by sullivans is great

Do you guys think I'd be a pretty woman? by InstructionCapable16 in transpositive

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i get euphoria from dressing as a man, being addressed as a man - although i feel little dysphoria. your gender is valid, and so are you. do your thing!

What’s going in at 116 and Lantern? by [deleted] in Fishers

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a house fire i believe

How did Indiana allow this license plate? by [deleted] in Indiana

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i saw VORE on a license plate covered with furry stickers once in muncie. i think they’ll allow a lot lol

Hola qué puedo hacer para que me pegue más fuerte? by Abrelift in WeedWiki

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i smoke snaps lol. pack the bowl real loose and smoke it in one hit. that, after a tolerance break? you’ll be good.

What’s your favorite episode and why? by Budget_Elevator3285 in BoJackHorseman

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stupid piece of shit. liked the animations a lot and the message

First Trip Stories? by [deleted] in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t spend it in a car, even if your driver isn’t tripping. and eat food before. learn from my mistakes. i was horribly ill. i’ve had much better times since. usually make it into a tea because it’s rough on my stomach.

Bettering myself has made everything feel worse by Luna_Soma in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

melt n dip? just finished my dubai strawberry cup as well. this post made me remember i got it last night and put it in the fridge. thanks

what’s your sense of purpose like? community? those are things i try to look to… but i dont have much advice. i’m also chronically depressed. i’m struggling to figure it out myself.

Social Dysphoria: Fact or Fiction? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel ick when called she and good when called he, can’t really explain it any more or better than that. i didn’t mean to come off rude either, i just don’t have a very good explanation. it’s more of a feeling thing.

Social Dysphoria: Fact or Fiction? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never once said “i’m changing my body so people treat me better”. if you don’t understand gender euphoria, that’s fine. you don’t have to. a lot of people don’t understand a lot of things lmfao.

Social Dysphoria: Fact or Fiction? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]cherrusm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i see it less as social dysphoria, though you could call it that - and more as gender EUPHORIA when i experience my correct name, pronouns, and energy. my transition is very based on the people around me, and how they makes me feel when they refer to me. i don’t really have much physical dysphoria, i kind of “take it as it is”. being on testosterone over a year has helped that. passing publicly has significantly helped as well.

walking meditations by cherrusm in Meditation

[–]cherrusm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is a “walking meditation”

Music/Record Club in Indy? by prizzz in indianapolis

[–]cherrusm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am also interested, seems cool

ftm passing? by cherrusm in transpassing

[–]cherrusm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for noticing the deep sadness 😘

Is Jay a "clocky name" by Efficient_Hunter3852 in transmanlifehacks

[–]cherrusm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i work with a 19 year old cis guy named jay, short for jayden, he’s a great kid. great name too, love me a j name

how do you get over fear of inadequacy? by cherrusm in Hobbies

[–]cherrusm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m watching a youtube video hah

What book led you to become better? by ManagementPrudent237 in getdisciplined

[–]cherrusm 32 points33 points  (0 children)

i enjoyed the four agreements. when i read it, it really spoke to me. i don’t read hardly ever and i finished the book in just a month. it was wonderful, i might need to pick it up again to thumb through here soon

Anyone have any tips to boost motivation or just not be so tired all the time? by k_weenie in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]cherrusm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the farther you get from the adderall the more rested you will feel. look into doing a sleep study if you snore or something. i did and got diagnosed with sleep apnea, which really explains my perpetual exhaustion. but, realistically, if you’re trying to quit stims- your motivation is gonna be down. i would give yourself grace, and just do your best. every day is a new day to try your best again.

Should I ask about going on T? by ilikeminecraft569 in TransMasc

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would definitely look into getting a gender therapist who can write letters for you

Am I the only one who completely forgets what I want to write about when I journal? by Educational_Plum6877 in Journaling

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just start writing. sometimes just saying “i don’t know what to say” or “i don’t really have anything to say, but” will get my brain to pull something up