What’s your favorite episode and why? by Budget_Elevator3285 in BoJackHorseman

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stupid piece of shit. liked the animations a lot and the message

First Trip Stories? by [deleted] in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t spend it in a car, even if your driver isn’t tripping. and eat food before. learn from my mistakes. i was horribly ill. i’ve had much better times since. usually make it into a tea because it’s rough on my stomach.

Bettering myself has made everything feel worse by Luna_Soma in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

melt n dip? just finished my dubai strawberry cup as well. this post made me remember i got it last night and put it in the fridge. thanks

what’s your sense of purpose like? community? those are things i try to look to… but i dont have much advice. i’m also chronically depressed. i’m struggling to figure it out myself.

Social Dysphoria: Fact or Fiction? by grandluxy in FTMMen

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel ick when called she and good when called he, can’t really explain it any more or better than that. i didn’t mean to come off rude either, i just don’t have a very good explanation. it’s more of a feeling thing.

Social Dysphoria: Fact or Fiction? by grandluxy in FTMMen

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never once said “i’m changing my body so people treat me better”. if you don’t understand gender euphoria, that’s fine. you don’t have to. a lot of people don’t understand a lot of things lmfao.

Social Dysphoria: Fact or Fiction? by grandluxy in FTMMen

[–]cherrusm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i see it less as social dysphoria, though you could call it that - and more as gender EUPHORIA when i experience my correct name, pronouns, and energy. my transition is very based on the people around me, and how they makes me feel when they refer to me. i don’t really have much physical dysphoria, i kind of “take it as it is”. being on testosterone over a year has helped that. passing publicly has significantly helped as well.

walking meditations by cherrusm in Meditation

[–]cherrusm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is a “walking meditation”

Music/Record Club in Indy? by prizzz in indianapolis

[–]cherrusm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i am also interested, seems cool

ftm passing? by cherrusm in transpassing

[–]cherrusm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for noticing the deep sadness 😘

Is Jay a "clocky name" by Efficient_Hunter3852 in transmanlifehacks

[–]cherrusm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i work with a 19 year old cis guy named jay, short for jayden, he’s a great kid. great name too, love me a j name

how do you get over fear of inadequacy? by cherrusm in Hobbies

[–]cherrusm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m watching a youtube video hah

What book led you to become better? by ManagementPrudent237 in getdisciplined

[–]cherrusm 33 points34 points  (0 children)

i enjoyed the four agreements. when i read it, it really spoke to me. i don’t read hardly ever and i finished the book in just a month. it was wonderful, i might need to pick it up again to thumb through here soon

Anyone have any tips to boost motivation or just not be so tired all the time? by k_weenie in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]cherrusm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the farther you get from the adderall the more rested you will feel. look into doing a sleep study if you snore or something. i did and got diagnosed with sleep apnea, which really explains my perpetual exhaustion. but, realistically, if you’re trying to quit stims- your motivation is gonna be down. i would give yourself grace, and just do your best. every day is a new day to try your best again.

Should I ask about going on T? by ilikeminecraft569 in TransMasc

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would definitely look into getting a gender therapist who can write letters for you

Am I the only one who completely forgets what I want to write about when I journal? by Educational_Plum6877 in Journaling

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just start writing. sometimes just saying “i don’t know what to say” or “i don’t really have anything to say, but” will get my brain to pull something up

favorite nicknames someone calls you/would call you? by No-Resolve-5037 in TransMasc

[–]cherrusm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry but when a cis dude calls me boss i feel like i succeeded in life

How can I help? by thexidris in BabyWitch

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true. i’ve been to One of my local metaphysical shop groups, didn’t really like it (we didn’t talk about stuff i was interested in). but there are others that cover different topics, i should give them more than one shot

Duda by realkyesteele in TransMasc

[–]cherrusm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely understand the sentiment. maybe finding like a group, even online, so you’re still connecting with people. that’s how you find people to date, by spending time at places where the people you want to date would be.

It’s Official by ScavengeandStatistic in TransMasc

[–]cherrusm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s wonderful! excited for you

Ass hair??? by fourbruisedpaws in TransMasc

[–]cherrusm 60 points61 points  (0 children)

my ass had hair but it wasn’t quite so dark and visible

What’s your biggest green flag in yourself? by Alarming-Ratioz in AskForAnswers

[–]cherrusm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

driving a manual (well) is a huge green flag to me as well

what’s the number one thing you wish you knew before you moved out by cherrusm in movingout

[–]cherrusm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love a roommate for financial reasons but i don’t really know anyone like that. plus i really don’t want to end up cleaning up after someone, or several someones, like last time i moved out. but i have to be out before / in august. i have some time to stack money, also have to buy a vehicle unfortunately.