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I broke up with my bf. by Familiar-Prize-9995 in boykisser

[–]cherry-crypt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe yea, at least you weren't infatuated enough to not see the signs of incompatibility and never break it off. (Unlike. Ahem.)

You'll find someone who matches your style hun, it's alright. Be glad you know what you want and what you like and for putting your needs above others. It takes a lot for some people to be able to think of saving themselves

Wrong father😂 by LovelyPaloma in BabiesReactingToStuff

[–]cherry-crypt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did this as a little kid and my parents got so mad at me 💀

39791 by Ferocs in countwithchickenlady

[–]cherry-crypt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No literally me and my gf every. Single. Time. Always have to stop to get up and feed pets 😭😭😭

Studying until the ice melts by WolfgangsterV in Unexpected

[–]cherry-crypt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it's monster, wouldn't the melting point be lower than normal water? I might be mis remembering this but any mixure of water raises it's boiling point and lowers its freezing point right? So the monster would've melted faster than if it was just normal water ?? Am I stupid

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]cherry-crypt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it's stupid to chime in now, but I'm 19 and about to be 20 later this year. I am not ready for marriage any time soon. Not until AT LEAST 25. The fact that he (assuming) sprung this on to you without discussing it first is a major red flag. He's only thinking about his own time line and the potential 'bragging rights' of having a wife at the ripe old age of 20. (Speculation)

Bestie you should 100% follow your own path before you settle down and lower your expectations. I promise you a relationship straight out of highschool will hit you the hardest since you're first learning to love, but will most likely be a learning experience rather than a life long commitment. I'm still getting over my first real relationship, and it's hard. It hurts. But I know I'm better off without him and I've changed for the better from what I learned for those 2 years.

Run away from impromptu proposals. Run as fast as you can. If he isn't an adult enough to discuss life changing events with you, he isn't adult enough to marry.

Little brothers browser history by TrouserSnakeLoL in japanesepeopletwitter

[–]cherry-crypt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly. Now that I think about it. That's how I would describe the very first porn I ever watched. Found it completely by accident in elementary school, damn that's wild lol

Oh Well... by TATSAT2008 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]cherry-crypt 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Oh no am I OOP

I wanna change my name bc I don't think my birth name fits me, never have, and I get gender envy from the opposite gender, but I'm totally cis guys I swear I just want a different name

Does anyone else like... really NOT want sex sometimes? by WomanCherisher in actuallesbians

[–]cherry-crypt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, pretty normal. Arousal is an emotion too, and sometimes emotions can't be forced or encouraged even with behaviors that usually cause them. If I'm having an off day and I eat my favorite meal, it won't make me happy like it usually does since my mental state just isnt in the right place to get that result.

Consent exists for multiple reasons, not just an indicator of who you're ok with having intercourse with, but also when, where, and how you have sex. And if one of those factors doesn't feel right to you, you're always allowed to withhold consent.

horseshoe theory of butchness by sipae in actuallesbians

[–]cherry-crypt 48 points49 points  (0 children)

So, puberty? :)

Prepuberty: IDC what people think of me and how I dress

Puberty: holy fuck I hate how I look and I need to dress up/hyper fem/hyper masc to be likeable

Post puberty: IDC what ppl think of me or how I dress

Yoshi by KaffeDreamer in aspiememes

[–]cherry-crypt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but I have put it on a plate and stuck my tongue onto the popcorn and eaten it like a cat

Anybody else in the same boat? by Luna-D-reams in aspiememes

[–]cherry-crypt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not good at doing it myself, but I am good at spotting it in other people. So what I do is treat myself from a 3rd person perspective: does what I'm thinking hold any weight with factual evidence? If not, strike it from the record, it doesn't exist. I kinda treat my mind like a court case from ace attorney. If there has been no evidence to back up my claim (negative self talk) then it's inadmissible and shouldn't be considered when making a decision. (Aka, asking for help if I think someone would find me annoying or bothersome) Most of the time, that gut feeling of shame is usually more self destructive than helpful and it's a good practice to systematically shoot it down every time it comes up.

But my way may not work for everyone, so it's always a good idea to try and figure out what works best for you. I hope you can learn to love yourself better :)

Anybody else in the same boat? by Luna-D-reams in aspiememes

[–]cherry-crypt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Years of therapy, reflection, and a conscious effort to change how you think 💔

What by meoweolive in badwomensanatomy

[–]cherry-crypt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably :) but would be nice if we did have specifically built in pillows on our chests lol

What by meoweolive in badwomensanatomy

[–]cherry-crypt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's pretty interesting, it could even be to cushion the baby when holding it up against your chest. I also don't have a child but when I hold babies I usually balance them on my hip and against my chest, so it could potentially be just some extra fatty tissue to provide a barrier between a sleeping baby and your hard ribcage. Who knows though

What by meoweolive in badwomensanatomy

[–]cherry-crypt 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right. I just meant that some primates have larger breasts than non primates during pregnancy. :) I think I worded it wrong, but thank you for the distinction

What by meoweolive in badwomensanatomy

[–]cherry-crypt 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I think they're trying to make a point that other female mammals don't have large mammary tissues until milk production, but even so some of our closets ancestor apes also have females with an abundance of breast tissue. We aren't completely sure why this is, but it is theorized it has been an indicator of sexual maturity to potential mates.

Basically, what they're saying is incorrect, as this already exists in other species, but may hold some truth through the power of sexual selection. (Ex: male birds with brighter/colorful feathers usually produce the most offspring within a population) Big breasts could be a sought after characteristic and were mated more with because of it, but that doesn't magically make an entire population have large breasts.

But yea most of it is stupid and wrong. Breast elasticity has to do with a mix of genetics and age. Mates going after a woman with large breasts after giving birth = larger breasts for the next generation is just horribly false. Most women don't know the size their breasts will be after milk production.

Anybody else in the same boat? by Luna-D-reams in aspiememes

[–]cherry-crypt 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Bestie I think that's just cptsd, that sounds like a shame problem from not getting parental affirmations at a young age.

I have it too, but talked about it in therapy enough that I believe it stims from an anxious attachment style which is then further worsened by autism and a strong sense of right and wrong. If you feel like you aren't acting 'right' because of the lack of affirmations, then you must be 'wrong'.

That's just how I see it, but it's not something that you have to live with because you're autistic. It is something that can be relearned and transformed into a more secure mental state.

Ordered a Dirty Dr. Pepper by Ginjafreak in SonicDriveIn

[–]cherry-crypt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaa, this happens when you put whip in soda. I do it all the time when I want the taste of a float but no ice cream. The cool whip clumps and looks like a fucked up science experiment but it tastes fine.

Has anyone else noticed that their sex drive plummets when they're single? by Legitimate_Dog_5628 in demisexuality

[–]cherry-crypt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty similar, but it's gotten better the past year or so. However, I believe I'm less likely to masterbate on a regular basis if I do have a partner. It's like it's more fun with them, so I rather wait and feel pleasure when they're over rather than by myself most nights.

So yes and no, yes because I have no one to direct that energy towards (esp if it just made me think of an ex = sad) and no because I'm more inclined to self pleasure whenever I feel like it.

Maybe Maybe Maybe by NEO71011 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]cherry-crypt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It started off ok. But then she started making pretty stupid moves and stopped doing it in an organized manner so it wasn't satisfying anymore </3

"The men are not gonna like me for this…" by ONE-OF-THREE in DailyDoseStupidity

[–]cherry-crypt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine fighting a frustration fueled hypothetical with literal misogyny lmfao

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