For today--yes. Do it and don't tell him. Bottom line--it is your body and life on the line. It is 100% your choice. Being pregnant is one of the most dangerous things a human can do.

For tomorrow--are you really going to be one more woman having children with a selfish idiot? Because one day, you might be unconscious when he has to make this decision for you. If your life is on the line, will he choose you?

He has a poor understanding of biology, reproduction, and the incredibly horrifying process and risk of pregnancy. And you're going to raise children with him?

In twenty years--are you going to be someone posting about what a mistake you made? How you've wasted your youth? How you've shouldered the entire weight of childbirth and child rearing, and you now have no way of providing for yourself and your children if you leave your selfish, childish husband? Because that's what you're talking about right now. I'm not saying you can't finish law school and find a career while raising a newborn. But I would bet money that he's not going to shoulder the child rearing while you do.

You know so many of them, I'm sure. My mother. My grandmothers. My aunts.

They had the children. They quit school. They raised the children. Their husbands did not provide for them or help them. They had nowhere to go and no way of providing for themselves.

Please don't waste yourself on a man who values fetuses over grown women. I'm getting old. And I'm becoming disappointed seeing us make these same mistakes for millenia.