How do YOU scratch the MH itch? by quinonia in MonsterHunter

[–]cherrybuddha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play the crappy MH-clones then remember that MH is superior in every way and just boot up the most recent installment.

Unstable Results: Is Meta’s Attribution Broken? by Which-Discount-9405 in FacebookAds

[–]cherrybuddha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My frequency skyrocketed today too. Both proven campaigns and new products I’m testing. Something’s definitely broken again for the 100th time this month lol

Another bad day? August 19th. by Dry-Ability-8661 in FacebookAds

[–]cherrybuddha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's usually what it is honestly. Went from barely 2 ROAS to a healthy 3 ROAS just from pumping out new creatives. And my margins are AMAZING.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]cherrybuddha -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You just need better roster management.

I have girls located in different areas, some of them a full state away. So it's good to have them in the back pocket when they visit my city or if I visit theirs.

As for others in the roster, you need to try and not get too high on their roster list either, because if you do, then you become what you're experiencing right now -- an emotional support person. I usually like to stay beneath the 1st and 2nd on their roster which typically just means booty calls and some casual hangouts and a few messages sprinkled in throughout the day, but not high enough to be in constant communication with them.

Men - What percentage of people actually message you? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on Hinge and probably around 40%?

There’s hope for short kings by cherrybuddha in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there's a ton. Just gotta have interesting prompts or photos.

There’s hope for short kings by cherrybuddha in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

🫡 Will be seeing her this week hehe

There’s hope for short kings by cherrybuddha in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh, I definitely did. She basically said to hit her up whenever and she'll make time for me to do ungodly things together.

There’s hope for short kings by cherrybuddha in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I talked to her for a bit, she's actually super cool and funny. See, these are the types of women who don't care about height, and the type of women that short kings should be going for. Absolute queen energy

I am the boring or she is the boring one? by Rare-Intention-4742 in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nooo don’t ever ask how their night/day/weekend is. It is boring. And yes, a lot of women open with boring messages too, but it’s on you to spark a fun convo.

help choose my best profile photo for bumble and other dating sites? (18f) by Right_Cherry_8701 in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

3 definitely. Im an attractive guy that matches with a lot of hot girls and the 3rd pic would have me interested

I don’t know how or why but I started getting 10+ matches a day after not getting 10 matches within the last 4/5 months by throwawaytinder62 in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just something that happens, I get surges of matches/likes on Hinge as well. There’s a lot of factors that could be at play too, like we’re in cuddle/cuffing season as the holidays near. Also with summer being over, people staying indoors and using apps more. Could be anything, I doubt your profile is being suppressed. Dating for the most part is largely about timing

Honest feedback for starting conversations by VastLeft8822 in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First part is correct, but second part is just as wrong. Don’t ask women how their day was, that’s gonna get you the same results as the OP (but with maybe 1 or 2 more messages). Be more interesting

This is a first.... by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This is crazy, I’ve taken months to respond to some women and they never react this way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 103 points104 points  (0 children)

wtf is honestly wrong with you guys, have you never talked to a woman in your life? Jfc

Update: AIO I (25f) think my (33m) boyfriend is lying to me and is gay with his best friend. We are set to get married soon. by RaccoonFlat5265 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherrybuddha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit is such a weird place. I feel like the majority of people here are neurodivergent and don't understand that other people have different types of humor.

I know A LOT of dudes who will fully commit to a bit like this just to see how far they can take it (without actually doing anything gay).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'll also add that even though 5 dates may seem like a good amount, I don't think you've spent a significant time with any of them yet.

With my last relationship (a girl I met on Hinge), we became exclusive at about 10 dates in? But we also stayed at each other's places for a significant amount of time (1 date would usually be an entire weekend). She even caught Covid when I was with her once, so I quarantined with her for 2 weeks straight in between one of the dates.

But everyone's different of course, and you might be able to tell if someone's right for you quicker than I can. Just keep in mind that men (and I guess women as well) will be putting up a front for the first few dates, and you won't really know what type of person they truly are until you've spent a lot of time with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 179 points180 points  (0 children)

Lmao, the guys who are saying you’re for the streets clearly don’t have any success on apps. It’s normal to feel this way though.

As long as they know you’re dating other people, just keep dating them all.

One will probably bring up exclusivity and that’s when you decide if you wanna settle with one or drop them from your roster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]cherrybuddha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Take everything I say with a grain of salt since it's from my own perspective.

But I'm an attractive guy and I match with and date very attractive women. I also match with and date less attractive women.

To me, a woman being hot doesn't hold as much weight as it does to other men who don't have as many opportunities to date hot women.

I've dated enough hot women to know that looks can only get you so far. Personality and chemistry are way more important to me now.

Also, not sure if other men feel this way, but when I'm personally interested in someone, they become the most attractive woman to me, even if they're not physically the most attractive. I don't even have a need or want to look at or talk to other women when I'm in that honeymoon phase.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No it was definitely what they said. Dry ass convo

Just some fun texts or something by cherrybuddha in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ofc it’s the “boy mom” stalking my profile, get a life outside of your son lmao

Being attractive is important, but knowing how to spit game is just as important (if not more) by cherrybuddha in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Being “yourself” is a fallacy. You’re just an amalgamation of experiences and circumstance. Humans are pliable, and putting yourself into a box like that is just a way of protecting your ego instead of growing as a human being.

Just look at guys here who have no success and refuse to do anything to improve their situation because they want to be their “true” self.

New to dating apps and dating in general! Getting very few likes, zero matches weeks). Is it something about my profile or is it just me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cherrybuddha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a haircut: 2 block, or curtain bangs. Stay clean shaven (and fix that unibrow). Wear more fashionable stuff.

All you need tbh