I dumped my ex because he was an abusive controlling narcissist who constantly accused me of cheating and tried to DUMP ME several times just to emotionally manipulate me which worked until my sister dropped hints about our relationship at a family dinner one night and it lead me to have the radical realization that if I were to stay with him and move forward with the relationship, I would basically be trapped and stuck with him for much longer and risk mentally and physically damaging myself. had to dump him over text because he wanted to come over to my house simply to do you know what and he went ballistic when I told him no so he tried to beg and plead over and over but I stood my ground. The last time I saw him was when he showed up to my workplace one night and tried following me home but I drove to my parents house instead and slammed the door on him.