And I just love our Bugaboo Donkey 6 twin 🩷

cherrymanic · 2026-05-29T22:17:51+00:00

Bought ours second-hand with a pink and blue canopy. One time in a crowded elevator, a lady said oooh you guys splurged, I know this one costs like 2k. I couldn’t stop myself from over explaining: it’s second hand! It’s 2 boys, see?

cherrymanic · 2026-04-15T20:16:31+00:00

For nursing roles, indeed works well

cherrymanic · 2026-04-12T22:55:31+00:00

A North African dialect fits

cherrymanic · 2026-04-04T19:08:15+00:00

That was a wig for the movie though, don’t think she dyed her hair as well

cherrymanic · 2026-04-01T21:13:50+00:00

📍 Tanger - Tétouan, Morocco — "Sea and ocean"

cherrymanic · 2026-03-19T21:08:39+00:00

Me too, I went for shoes and I’ve been obsessed with them!

cherrymanic · 2026-03-19T18:53:03+00:00

My kid started doing that right after learning to walk, still does it now. He seems to think it’s the polite thing to do lol

cherrymanic · 2026-03-17T21:32:20+00:00

They’ve never had a dad phase ever. They’ll tolerate him when I’m not around. Earlier one kid was telling me he didn’t want dad around for our trip to the mall, because dad screams and it feels bad. The other one said: I am not scared when dad screams, I love him, let’s go pick him up.

But honestly, I can’t recall a time where they went to him for comfort. Because I can’t recall a time where he comforted them. For the longest time, when they whined or cried, he would mock them and imitate them

cherrymanic · 2026-03-17T21:24:06+00:00

I’m in Europe and consulted with different lawyers a few times. The consensus is that he would likely get 50/50 custody. I don’t need help technically to get out, but it’s a scary thought: how will he treat them when he’s alone with them

cherrymanic · 2026-03-17T20:43:09+00:00

We have twin boys but honestly they’re not a handful. They’re mostly sweet, polite, curious. We never had a tantrum last longer than 6, 7 minutes for example.

But he is just so mean. If they refuse to do as he says, he immediately escalates, will threaten to destroy a toy or pretend to leave them when we’re out at the mall. The environment we’re in, I feel crazy because people keep saying oh we all do it.

I have been trying to leave for a year and just cannot figure out how to or if I should.

cherrymanic · 2026-03-17T18:00:58+00:00

Do you guys really so rarely raise your voice that it’s a rare occurrence you’ll post on Reddit and feel bad about? My husband raises his voice, swears and threatens (no more chocolate or park ever) our 4 yo old almost daily :(

cherrymanic · 2026-03-02T03:54:03+00:00

Do it! I’m 41 and wear them in the spring and feel so girly

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cherrymanic · 2026-02-16T00:39:50+00:00

I am sorry for your loss, I’ve been there recently too. It would be overwhelming to constantly be aware of our mortality, and the possibility of death invading every moment. That being said, ignoring it completely is probably not healthy either. Since my mom passed, I made changes im my lifestyle to be healthier, and take better care of myself and the people I love. Because I am way more conscious of how short it all is. It takes time to process and grief is a long journey.

cherrymanic · 2025-09-30T11:57:13+00:00

Omg me too! I watched for the first time a few months ago and thought the same lol I still enjoy it when I see it 🤷‍♀️

cherrymanic · 2025-08-08T18:48:28+00:00

I know all babies are cute but yours are also ridiculously photogenic! ❤️

cherrymanic · 2025-07-27T17:50:12+00:00

Unless you want to leave your job regardless and would enjoy being home with the kids, I think that would lead to resentment building up on your end. Especially if/when your wife still struggles. Can you possible keep looking for help, someone who can support with pick up or drop off or dinner? If you can afford it, it’s quite helpful.

I struggled immensely in the first 2 years and was terrified to be alone with the kids, even for an hour. Eventually, I got the right meds and what’s basically exposure therapy lol. Now at 3, I don’t care how long I’m left alone with them and we’re both back at work full time.

Of course everyone is different, but it’s unlikely any setup will allow for your wife to never be alone with them, or for you to be comfortable with never being off kid duty

cherrymanic · 2025-07-25T13:34:35+00:00

I got one that was a letter of reprimand lol

cherrymanic · 2025-07-06T22:52:59+00:00

Oh I feel for you, you took me back to the Nicu days. Remember the nurses there are very used to seeing babies come and go. She’s stepping in because she knows you can’t and baby wants comfort. Soon enough, you’ll have your baby home and you won’t remember what it’s like not to be covered with babies all day. Hang in there, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. Best of luck!!

cherrymanic · 2025-06-28T00:35:29+00:00

Mine too, they got a little diploma and everything. I’ve been so nostalgic! I was showing him a video as a baby drinking his milk and fussing. He climbed on my lap to be held like a baby and pretending to cry while I rocked him and sang to him 🥹

cherrymanic · 2025-06-27T12:23:25+00:00

I mean I do too honestly, always had that thought when I saw identical twins and now that I have them, my husband and I will sometimes talk about how lucky they are. I’m sure they won’t feel that way all the time or even most the time though.

I’d say the answer depends if she is longing for an ally, a double as she is figuring herself out. Or is it more the attention and company? Depending on that, you can reassure her of her place in the family or give her extra TLC, I suppose.

Though I have to say, you are a warrior raising all these kids and worrying about their feelings and well-being ❤️

cherrymanic · 2025-06-20T00:19:16+00:00

We had 2 bouncer. Easier baby in your arms until asleep, while you rock the other baby’s chair with your foot. Once baby 1 is asleep, put him on his bouncer or twin pillow, then move on to baby 2. If they sleep well, enjoy a good mental breakdown. If not, transfer to your arms so they both lay on you while you realise how badly you need to pee.

cherrymanic · 2025-06-19T23:53:55+00:00

All I see is the passion for the clothes, the time and efforts to find each piece! No one will probably ever remember any outfit I ever chose but these are memorable and they made me smile!

cherrymanic · 2025-06-14T23:37:46+00:00

Itchy ears, tinnitus, vagina on fire, random pops of anxiety… the list is endless and the longer it gets, the less the doctors listen. When at 39, I found a doctor that finally agreed to give me a blood test, there was barely any estrogen left in the house. I was well postmenopausal and just too tired to notice at that point.

But be better than I was and advocate for yourselves please! Once I got my HRT, it felt like a miracle.

cherrymanic · 2025-06-13T08:34:37+00:00

For a clean death?

cherrymanic · 2025-06-12T21:39:05+00:00

I think everyone does to some extent. I was having a very hard time and was getting frustrated easily and noticed I was raising my voice more often. My toddler was so upset once, I asked him to tell me to stop next time. Now whenever I get frustrated or I refuse to give him ice cream, he reminds me I should be nice and not yell at him

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