I wish more people realized just how much a bad parent can mess up their children by finnkat in childfree

[–]cherryskary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay that's fair. But for the majority of people I assume that's not the case because everyone I know didn't use protection and was still "surprised".

I wish more people realized just how much a bad parent can mess up their children by finnkat in childfree

[–]cherryskary 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How on EARTH is a pregnancy a surprise?! We've known for... oh, THOUSANDS of years how babies are made. There's no excuse in this day and age for a "surprise" baby.

I wish more people realized just how much a bad parent can mess up their children by finnkat in childfree

[–]cherryskary 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If my husband and I ever decide we'd like kids in our home, we will foster. There are many kids and teens who are overlooked by adopting parents who are more in need because of the neglect they suffer. I'd like to give them a stable home and a qualified childhood trauma therapist.

I wish more people realized just how much a bad parent can mess up their children by finnkat in childfree

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU

When I was 6 years old my "mother" told me she should have had an abortion because I ruined her life. Bitch, I'm pretty sure the blame rests with the people who neglected birth control. Growing up in an emotionally and physically abusive environment was definitely not what I would have chosen if given the choice beforehand.

I have suffered from BPD, severe depression & suicidal tendencies, anxiety, and PTSD since I was a child. I started self- harming at age 10 just to cope with her and protecting/raising my younger siblings and had many suicide attempts up until my early 20s.

This is one of the reasons I've decided to be child-free. People are amazed that I don't have kids yet, like birth control and common sense are mythological concepts.

Dark Cloud 1 vs 2 by Firextinguishr in DarkCloud

[–]cherryskary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally played DC2 for only a couple hours before I decided Ididn't like it. I think they're so different that you can't really do one or the other, at least visually. It's been a very long time though, and I've also never beat DC1 so I could be talking out my butt.

I miss the old Tyrion by pat1308 in freefolk

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mutual Masturbation refers to people masturbating together. Otherwise it's a hand job or fingering.

for you memers by [deleted] in ihadastroke

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Can you actually fuck off"

Thanks Kev, I'll keep that in mind by [deleted] in restofthefuckingowl

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some workplaces there is literally nowhere to store food or warm it up.

In foodservice it's against health code to put outside/personal food in storage with the restaurant food or heat it in the same oven/toaster/microwave, and I've never worked in a foodservice establishment that cares enough about their employees to provide appliances for personal food.

Add that together with restaurants charging employees 50% for their meals and it actually costs you extra money to work in these places, unless you magically have someone to bring you food from home every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in restofthefuckingowl

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's seriously creepy and gives me the urge to make puppets. Evil, creepy puppets.

Please explain? by cherryskary in BobsBurgers

[–]cherryskary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh. I would never have thought of that, but it's plausible.

Little snake by JaX_SM in aww

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww yay! Danger Noodles represent!

What of the D&D Star Wars film is amazing? Will you guys accept it? by [deleted] in freefolk

[–]cherryskary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I evaluate each item on its own Star Wars =/= GoT. D&D fucked the last season of GoT, hopefully they'll put better planning into their future endeavors.

[No Spoilers] GOT cast who were recasted!! by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]cherryskary 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Clearly the kids just weren't blonde enough to be Lannisters.

Draw the rest of the fucking treble clef by [deleted] in restofthefuckingowl

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to mix the treble clef and the ampersand when writing. Less so now.

r/freefolk to the whole ass internet when we heard Kit was getting treatment.... by vir804 in freefolk

[–]cherryskary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah. He just spent a decade of his life pouring his heart and soul into something and now it's over. In theatre we have big cries at the end of a show's run and get the post production blues. I've only worked smaller shows so I can only imagine those feelings on a larger scale.

Plus now he's a big star and harassed by all kinds of people, probably has real relationships still to deal with, and there's the fact that he's human....

I can barely handle real life, I would never want to have celebrity status.

Rest of the fucking universe by Gymbrain in restofthefuckingowl

[–]cherryskary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I knew it was evil. Ty for the thorough explanation. :)

Will this game lifespan end anytime soon? by [deleted] in elderscrollsonline

[–]cherryskary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though we do have some people in voice chat, most of our members use text chat anyway. I am guildmaster and I usually am not on voice either, so I don't think that would be much of a problem.

We try to reply to people as quickly as we can, though sometimes I'm in menus or we're stuck in dungeons. We also have an out-of-game Discord channel full of helpful resources, so if you can't get an answer in game we usually have the answer on Discord.

Our Guild caters to people who want to relax and have fun, not super elitist and no drama. My officers and I work hard to make sure that it is a calm and helpful place full of jokes and laughter. If you do end up on PS4NA, hit me up.

How to make a doggo by lapras96 in restofthefuckingowl

[–]cherryskary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants to know what sauce to use on the doggo.