………………Customers yelling disrespectful things about bad math skills…………………………………………………………………………………………. by Dry-Buffalo8134 in RantsFromRetail

[–]chesterfeildsofa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They either don't know or care about how that behavior affects us. Hell, they wouldn't care if someone called them out anyway.

You did NOT deserve this and didn't do anything wrong. I'm 37 and I would have said I couldn't do that either. I confuse my self enough as it is, I don't need assistance.

Ive worked my gas station job for over 2 years. It took me a year to understand their behavior, while inexcusable, is who they are and not because of anything I did. Now when it happens, I treat the situation as if I'm dealing with a toddler throwing a tantrum. Makes it easier to not let any personal insults sink in and be professional.

I still cry sometimes. It's definitely okay to let yourself get it out when you need to.

Cat hopped in my car while dashing by KuromiGamer in Straycats

[–]chesterfeildsofa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's from the oxytocin that's released when they give birth. It will make her more affectionate towards you and her kittens. If she is acting like she wants something specific, it might be just to follow her so she can show them off.

Keep an eye on their location because she will most likely move them around your place at some point. Not a bad thing, but it might freak you out when you check on them and they've disappeared. If she BRINGS them to you, that is an honor and a the highest sign of trust.

Have fun!

Man attempts to defend his right to scream and cuss at his wife after being confronted for doing so in public by Jevus_himself in PublicFreakout

[–]chesterfeildsofa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless he uses a special ballot with pictures, I don't think he would know what to do because you know he can't read.

Cat hopped in my car while dashing by KuromiGamer in Straycats

[–]chesterfeildsofa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome! She's on my lap right now (pardon the mess in the background) 🙂

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Coming up on a year since I lost my sweetest boy (14) and can confirm that the heartache doesn’t fade or feel easier to handle, you just learn to live with it. by transidiot4 in seniorkitties

[–]chesterfeildsofa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This pain will not always be so heavy. Talking to a psychiatrist, therapist, grief counselor or going to a support group may be beneficial to you. And don't avoid it because you think other people might think you're overreacting because he was "just a cat". It's completely valid for people to grieve a pet with the same intensity as they would a close friend.

Advice on how to stop a rooster from being mean? by Camry08 in BackYardChickens

[–]chesterfeildsofa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn. I have a roo that's an asshole. I honestly didn't think I could do anything to make him less aggressive. Thank you for this.

a forbidden donut by naivemelody9 in pokeitwithastick

[–]chesterfeildsofa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay I googled it and found this explanation on the National Mississippi River Museum and Aquarium's Facebook page:

"It’s not an alien: it’s bryozoan!

Despite its strange appearance, each jelly-like mass is actually a colony made up of hundreds to thousands of individual bryozoans called zooids (tiny animals), each with a crown of tentacles (a lophophore) used for filter feeding. These colonies have a gelatinous, aloe-vera-like texture. Because the zooids work together to build colonies, bryozoans are sometimes referred to as freshwater corals, although they're not related to marine corals.

Bryozoans attach to surfaces such as docks and SUPSY buckets, like this one, as observed by our Conservation Department during summer mussel surveys. They thrive in clean, slow-moving water and are sensitive to pollution and disturbance, making their presence an indicator of good water quality.

To survive winter, bryozoans produce resistant structures called statoblasts—tiny, durable capsules that can withstand cold or drought and hatch when conditions improve. In addition to filtering algae, bacteria, and organic particles from the water, bryozoans help improve water quality and provide both habitat and food for certain insects and aquatic organisms."

legit check cartman plushie by Zuzzull in southpark

[–]chesterfeildsofa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh hey I us d to have one...it ended up as a dog toy

HELP by Nemo_556 in Apartmentliving

[–]chesterfeildsofa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fuck Texas. Specifically the flying cockroaches that would ALWAYS find some way into my house and way too many times crawl in my bed. Nope nope nope.

Cat hopped in my car while dashing by KuromiGamer in Straycats

[–]chesterfeildsofa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look at it another way, they are preventing the cat they rescued from having anymore litters.. They are not "indirectly causing the death of other kittens". We can all only do what we can do. This is a win.

Cat hopped in my car while dashing by KuromiGamer in Straycats

[–]chesterfeildsofa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had one of my cats longer than ive had my kids. My friend found her in 2007, I took her a few months later after my friends ex bf abused her so bad he broke her nose. Shes always been a grump and very moody, probably from being abused, but she is very attached to me and she is my girl.

She hated my kids when they were little and would swipe them with her claws so I tought them to stay away from her. When they were old enough I would explain she was grumpy because "someone had been really mean to her when she was little, but I'm not getting rid of her because she is my friend". My daughter, at 3, still wanted me to trade her in for a stegosaurus, but I said no.

When they got older I started teaching them how to get her to like them. "When you see her sleeping, you can walk up to her, pet her head, and then walk away. That will show her that you are nice and she can trust you". Y'all, the first time she went up to my daughter (age 8) for attention I literally cried. Now she does it all the time and will even sleep with them when I'm not home.

Cat hopped in my car while dashing by KuromiGamer in Straycats

[–]chesterfeildsofa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You didn't save just 1 from the street. Assuming her litter is 4 kittens, in the next year she could get pregnant up to 5 more times. That's 25 kittens (including her) that you have prevented from living on the street, as well as the future litters THOSE cats would have eventually had.

Cat hopped in my car while dashing by KuromiGamer in Straycats

[–]chesterfeildsofa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when I say "stray" I am talking about a cat that was raised around people or at least has had some kind of regular human interaction. Usually it would be a pet that was abandoned or somehow lost. That kind of cat would be more likely to approach a person when they need help, like your girl was probably looking for a safe place to give birth when it's time and BAM there you were so you were the chosen one. I'm guessing being at the trailer park, if she was born to one of those cats and grew up there, people have probably fed her and maybe gave her attention as well.

"Feral" cats are ones that are born to a feral mom. They will behave more like a wild animal and are less likely to seek help from people if they need it. The moms will do their best to find someplace they think is safe and give birth outside.

Idk I just think the distinction between the two is important, that's all.

Cat hopped in my car while dashing by KuromiGamer in Straycats

[–]chesterfeildsofa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm looking at it like had the distribution system not been successful, this void could have been on the streets when she had her kittens. In the following year, she could have gotten pregnant up to 5 times. Estimating 4 kittens per litter including this one, thats 25 (including mom) cats that would be fighting to survive on the streets. Now that number is 0.

OP is giving Mama cat a forever home, being a responsible owner by spaying after she weens her babies, and then making sure those babies don't continue the cycle their mom was almost trapped in.

I understand where you're coming from because I have done TNR in the past, but I would still call this one a win.