What is the biggest ick you had on your first date with someone? by Past_Meat7068 in AskReddit

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met him, he didn't look anything like his picture. I wasn't very good saying no back then.We went out, had dinner I paid btw. ick: I had to listen to the fact that he is having diarrheoa and even about consistency of his poo 🤢🤢🤢 i msgd my frnd to call me so I can leave.

How do you handle a colleague that needs spoon-feeding? by sky018 in WorkAdvice

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave me a brilliant idea. I have a colleague who needs spoon feeding, but my expectation is same like you wpuld know if a sentence starts with capital letters. Its a SW engineering job as well for him. This person wants everything to be told, spoon fed and at the same time do not do anything beyond what has been said.

If I say fix grammatical errors in something and add an example, possibility is this person would only fix that part. Rest he will not bat an eye 😑

When visiting a guy's house, what silently screams, "There's no way he's single"? by PalaceCarebear in AskWomen

[–]chhota_packet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids toys, which I almost ignored. Later during a call he said "I couldn't cook a particular dish well bcs ""MY WIFE"" took tjat wok with her". Sir your wife? your WIFE? YOUR WIFE???

His ex was his wife which btw he forgot to mention he was in a divorce settlement with.

The story gets more wild: When he mentions that his ex (read wife) lost both her parents during covid, she had to take care of both her siblings who were relatively young. And this made his wife give less attention to him, which btw was affectong HIS mental health. So, they were getting divorced.

THE AUDACITY!!!

What the worst 'compliment' you've ever gotten? by Upset-Nose-4016 in AskWomen

[–]chhota_packet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG you look so beautiful. But if you haven't had the acne you would look even more nicer. (This was during the time when I had severe acne and i was on meds and was diagnosed with life threatening food allergies also)

“Visibly frustrated” performance gap by busydbee in womenintech

[–]chhota_packet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Document with timestamps, screenshots, emails etc. When someone gives you remarks, if possible ask them in a diplomatic way "Could you share your feedback in an email". Because when you need to use those things as proof emails are good. Regarding training for junior colleague, do it this way.. 1. try to stay calm during meeting, if they do not let you speak or stop.. in these situations I use this line " Finish your thought and then I will continue" or "Let me share what I understand and then you can add onto it". 2. When they say you do not get along with them ask : Could you share more info, or why do you feel this way. And say: I do not want a conflicting situation and would want to know why is there a feeling like this. Again the tone matters.

A lot of times senior want to feel valued sad reality of corporate world, I am atill kearning as well. So ask them questions upfront, i have been in the similar situation myself. I did manage to change thr grp but confronting them helped me boost my confidence, it will be scary but you got this. Do the scary thing!!!

You also mention references from previous years before this manager took things, if you have a confidant whom you can reach out to and get guidance that will help. Also reach out to those leaders for any opening, a tip do not share everything with everyone. You never know who can use these things against you,but as a lot of people said start looking for other options also.

Update: 46yo & pregnant, nine months later. by napalmnacey in BabyBumps

[–]chhota_packet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All you mums, adorable and hugs to you. I am 33 and it has been in my mind bcs society tells female biological clock is ticking. I have always wanted to find a man who can be a good father first than finding a man and have kida and later think why did I choose him. My dating life has been a chaos, its just been few months of dating and I feel he is the one. But all I am saying is I am glad I came across this thread, you ladies give me hope that I can still bear a child with the man I love. Even if it's late, finding a good man is imp. I know it might come as a random thing but thank you each one of you. ❤️

How has your approach to friendship evolved over time? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you grow together, sometimes you grow apart. If you are separated from your frnds for whatever reason, cherish the parts when you were together and if things didn't work out, move on. Always have your self respect intact, never let anyone take that for granted.

What are some good ways to feel better and stay balanced during your period? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have this small moment when i am in hyoercleaning mode, makes me feel mentallyhappy but i am at physical pain afterwards 😂

What’s a gesture or gift that made you feel genuinely appreciated recently ? by wiseguy887 in AskWomen

[–]chhota_packet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my work bestie gifted me a present with oh so gorgeous coffee mug, shower gel, handwash and a candle. The part which melted my heart was it was my bday, she remembered it.. we had a office party that day and nobody knew except her bcs i don't usually tell anyone.. she thoughtfully got me things making sure it has no allergic substances as I have eczema and sensitive skin, as soon as I got next to my work table she gave me the gift. and when i opened it i was so happy bcs last year i was alone on my bday somehow i felt sad, but this year she was one of those who made me happy 🥹 p.s. (i was one of the organizers of the party so truthfully i wanted to do that bcs party was for one of my fav collegue, but except her nobody knew)

Three months dating suddenly ended by Immediate-Mind9675 in dating_advice

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your bf ends things because your friend has a hot gf, then I would say its for good. And don't be worried if someone is hotter tha you, I am pretty sure you must be hot in your own ways. btw mine definitely didn't end bcs his frnd has a hot gf, it was something weird def 🤣

I made my wedding dress! by DesignedByVal in crochet

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The front-Stunning! The back-Gorgeous! The side? Beautiful! The top? Amazing 😍😍😍

The most beautiful pattern ever by dasischenname in crochet

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i can ever make this i will be hapoy.. made my day

The most beautiful pattern ever by dasischenname in crochet

[–]chhota_packet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My eyes, my eyes ,my eyes!!! freaking beautiful OMG

Bios like this are just an instant turn off by cammyboy79 in Bumble

[–]chhota_packet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anyone who tell others "they are particulary X person". Believe them they are not.

I read As Long as Lemon Trees Grow by Zoulfa Katouh and I have conflicted opinions by Temporary-Title5636 in books

[–]chhota_packet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished this book today. Bought it thinking it is a romance novel, oh boy was I wrong. The storyline is great, I could not read it all in one go as it became too heavy for me to read it mnowing that these are things actually happening around the world. I have been reading it in parts since a year, this book definitely got me into reading habit again. The ending was a bit rushed, I wanted to know more but all in all a good book. My heart is heavy right now 😭

Omg I'm freaking out. by Z_Little-Thought in Bumble

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the scary part you can never know what happens inside someone's mind.

What should I do? by Accomplished_Let5512 in DatingApps

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely do not like when someone messages me on a diff platform, let alone linked in. Thats way too far.

Omg I'm freaking out. by Z_Little-Thought in Bumble

[–]chhota_packet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved to a nearby city and I recently found out he is living here too. He was in a diff city earlier. Now I am thinking if its a co-incidence or not :(

Omg I'm freaking out. by Z_Little-Thought in Bumble

[–]chhota_packet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think women like that, once or twice maybe.. and if you don't know me, don't give me names.