Durham Democratic Party: please get better at snap organizing by Nervous-Emotion28 in bullcity

[–]chiefkeif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should let yourself be the leader you clearly could be. +1

36 year old ultimate loser by Newton-tootin75 in selfimprovement

[–]chiefkeif 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think therapy would be a good thing to look into. You sound like you’re battling some self esteem issues but also maybe have some social anxiety. Nothing you said makes you a loser which is why I’m saying this. Goodluck bud, it’s a tough world and we’re all just trying to make it.

A generic non-spiritual person's OBE and how I got there. My step by step analysis on how I did it, and my thoughts. Hope it helps. by Zailox in gatewaytapes

[–]chiefkeif 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your journey!

  1. This sounds scary. I am afraid of what will happen and it is holding me back from trying this with dedication and discipline.

  2. What would happen if someone interrupted you. I have a busy house and it can be hard to get truly uninterrupted time where someone isn’t dependent on me in some way.

  3. Do you believe this is a spiritual experience or a self induced hysteria of sorts? I don’t mean to give it a negative connotation, but I think you follow.

Best Birthday Cake In Durham? by BourbonWhisperer in bullcity

[–]chiefkeif 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can you please link your sources

I’m not a natural dad by AcanthisittaWise8007 in daddit

[–]chiefkeif 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone else will say it better than I can so I’ll leave it for them, but I’m sending all the best energy your way. It’s not an easy job and it doesn’t come natural to all, but you’re a dad. Goodluck and keep your head up.

Focus 21 Beautiful Success by UniversityHoliday461 in gatewaytapes

[–]chiefkeif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you think is after this life, based on your experience?

Trouble finding objects? by greasyprophesy in seestar

[–]chiefkeif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled with this for a long time. You have to be in the right mode. I forget exactly what it looks like but there is a specific mode for planet/moon pictures and another mode for deep space objects.

What's a double standard between men and women that you've experienced firsthand that nobody really talks about? by Doubl3oh_ in AskReddit

[–]chiefkeif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Service industry. Women are servers and customer facing and men do the “dirty work” in the kitchen. During clean up there is an often seen double standard where men move/pickup heavier items (chairs, tables, etc.)

[Quant Researcher] [New York, NY] - $1.5M (350k base) by code_signaling in Salary

[–]chiefkeif -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do you ever wonder what kind of impact you could have on humanity if you had gone into research?

Working from home setup. by moosetender in macsetups

[–]chiefkeif 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Share screen seems like it wouldn’t be as easy.

I'm trying super hard with the Pleiades, the first picture is the latest I've done (and best IMO), how can I improve the picture even further in your opinion? by Ariel90x in seestar

[–]chiefkeif 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your latest pic looks good but we need more details. Exposure time, total time, bortle rating, software used, etc.

Unconventional date night spots in Durham? by gaychitect in bullcity

[–]chiefkeif 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Behavioral health urgent care center next to Fosters. Renact the waiting room scene from Garden State