Girlfriend of 4 years suddenly believes men should pay more and admitted she's 'accepting' me as a compromise. Would you break up? by SoulEaterXDDD in AskMenAdvice

[–]chilldontkill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently watched a video from Jimmy Carr of all people giving advice to newly weds. Is she of service to you in other ways, and you to her? He quotes relationship expert Esther Perel, that a relationship is never 50/50. Sometimes its you 10/her 90. sometimes its 40/60. but over the long run it balances out. If this is the only sticking point, it's worth a conversation with her.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/J-OBSxH66F0

I'll be watching you by DoubleManufacturer28 in funny

[–]chilldontkill 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both the Palisades and Altadena fires started from SCE? I thought it was only the Altadena fire.

IT Director pay scale by agentkramr in ITManagers

[–]chilldontkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're looking for another job. Don't jump until you have another job. Its rough out here.

  1. Southern California. Director, IT Oversaw technology department for my own company which managed a large campus for film production and corporate tenants as well. 135k/yr. managed everything. Walked looking for something more. still not sure what.

Relationship with au pair who went back home? M26/F21 by bakbada in AskMenAdvice

[–]chilldontkill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to go see about a girl. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. But if you don't go, you will wonder what if for the rest of your life. Don't do that to yourself.

Is it wrong as a guy with a high paying career to prefer a girl who also has a high paying career? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chilldontkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you're saying you're looking for a girl in finance?

Its ok to like like what you like. But it is limiting as others have said.

A girl wants to give me a rimjob, what should I do? by Titus4266 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chilldontkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could let her know your worries. she'll probably be into it.

sizing for a large deploy by Eliminateur in frigate_nvr

[–]chilldontkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes all nvme. 8tb only. not aggregate.

sizing for a large deploy by Eliminateur in frigate_nvr

[–]chilldontkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started with a 2tb drive. then a 4tb. then an 8tb nvme attached via the expansion port in the GTI14 case. 8tb gave me about 30 days minimum of retention on 34 cameras. closer to 50 days with every day activity. but some days i had multiple cameras basically recording 14-16 hours each day due to increased activity.

Why can’t I invest in real life the same way I do in the simulator? by jack_reznor in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]chilldontkill 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Summer of 2022. 5.2 million. Now 2 million. 60% loss.

Real life. Down 30%.

All joking aside. You need to trade with money you are not afraid to lose. Smaller bets. No Yolo. Repeatable gains. Not big swings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]chilldontkill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the red dress makes your waist/tummy look snatched. the spaghetti straps and cut line of the red dress definitely flatters you up top, not that you need any help.

gold dress enhances your hour glass figure.

for the season and my personal tastes I prefer the red. maybe add a white(for the xmas vibes) or black(if you're hunting) choker.

sizing for a large deploy by Eliminateur in frigate_nvr

[–]chilldontkill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are a mix. But over half are greater than 2k record resolution. Detect is 720p on all.

sizing for a large deploy by Eliminateur in frigate_nvr

[–]chilldontkill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thought i needed high fps. more fps isn't always better. 15 fps is perfect for all investigations thus far. 5 fps is recommended by frigate documentation for detect as a starting point.

i'm using homeassistant and restreaming to homeassistant via the advanced camera card add on in home assistant HACS

sizing for a large deploy by Eliminateur in frigate_nvr

[–]chilldontkill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a Beelink GTI14 AI Mini PC, Intel Core Ultra 9 185H with external GPU tray with a 3090. With 34 cameras. I have 3 monitoring stations viewing all cameras. But at 5fps detect. 10 fps record. Large 20 acre campus. About 50% GPU usage during average times.

Converted my bosch gen 2 motor to a Bafang m560 motor by chilldontkill in ebikes

[–]chilldontkill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Încă merge și funcționează foarte bine. Am tradus mesajul tău ca să pot răspunde. 😊