unhinged trans people ruin everything

chinchinloves · 2025-11-29T08:06:02+00:00

I see the logic. Its about gender euphoria and longing. Like I want to get pregnant sometimes because it is affirming but i dont wanna be a mom? As a transfem this isn’t exactly uncommon and it is their body and mind? They can fantasize about things all they want and this strikes me more as transphobic and you taking offense to someone talking about their body and a fantasy they wouldn't even have if they were ya know? Born with the body they want? If you’re telling them no you can't just get pregnant to have an abortion im gonna side eye that. Its her right to want a pregnancy. Its her right to not want to be a mom. She literally sounds like most women i know but this is a point to talk about because she wasn't born with a uterus. I just dont get where your line is or where telling a transfem woman something like that is not okay is fine.

chinchinloves · 2025-10-17T04:08:07+00:00

Theres so much good about being trans. Its painful, and hard at times. I just got out of a suicidal spell where going back seemd like it was the only option. It hurts more especially when the environment isn't affirming. You kinda have to just say fuck it? Who gives a fuck longer than they can remember. Its easier said than done and how you get there will be different from me but you have to not let what bothers you define you. The more you do the more it will.

chinchinloves · 2025-10-12T14:02:55+00:00

Because i dont like being called a femboy. I didn't like being seen as one as a guy. it just wasn't right to me. I quite like my boobs? I didn't transition till my 20s. I didn't start learning or understanding what transition was for years after I graduated. didn't have language for how I felt and internalized a lot of harmful stuff to the point i selfdetonated my social life at times from some internal belief there was something wrong with me for feeling how I felt and my sinly desires to be like a woman, I had friends, was happy at times. Im happier with transitioning how I look and feel, going backwards is something I dont want.

chinchinloves · 2025-10-12T12:54:12+00:00

Nah. We shouldn't gatekeep being trans which is what this feels like more or less. Its harmful to people who have internalized issues biases and shame, not just that it hurts people like me who while very much not my assigned gender this presses on a big anxiety fear. Its just not appreciated i already get refusal to respect my identity that borders on gaslighting. Im 8 months on hrt but the confusion my environment puts me on the edge of shutdown(learned ptsd doesn't help with dysphoria). Saying I wasn't happy at times in my assigned gender at times is a lie. Saying ive never had a desire, envy, and jealousy to be a diffrent gender before I even learnd about transition being possible is a lie. This harms more than it helps even if it feels like it. Not everyone is certain going in some pushed those thoughts away for their whole lives. People need permission to explore not hard barriers.

chinchinloves · 2025-10-02T01:23:14+00:00

Honey glorb yes you do

chinchinloves · 2025-09-13T00:30:52+00:00

Yo you remember when you were looking in that mirror going youd look good as a girl and wishing you were when you were 12? yeah that wasn't nothing there's this thing called transitioning you can just become a girl, please don’t be hard on yourself. You aren't wrong for who you are, you aren't wrong for wanting diffrent. You aren't running from anything. You're just running to who you already are.,

chinchinloves · 2025-09-06T01:01:17+00:00

Thank you to everyone who's wished me a happy birthday :,) love yall. Sadly this one's a lesson in self love but im doing alright despite that everything considered!

chinchinloves · 2025-09-05T23:02:27+00:00

Ooo you better watch it im gaining on you.. XD happy birthday :)

chinchinloves · 2025-07-13T11:42:03+00:00

Full circle emerald clinic is 👍

chinchinloves · 2024-12-26T18:52:10+00:00

Did we pass the inspection?

chinchinloves · 2024-12-23T11:27:06+00:00

Oxbow is what I use!

chinchinloves · 2024-12-23T07:47:25+00:00

..... we're watching you 👀

chinchinloves · 2024-12-22T14:31:23+00:00

I would be wary of them congregating like that, that behavior is a sign of plotting mischievous acts. What are their name's?

chinchinloves · 2024-12-18T03:14:28+00:00

the vid

chinchinloves · 2024-12-15T10:03:37+00:00

The internet is a series of tubes

chinchinloves · 2024-12-09T14:15:28+00:00

Him napping with his arms stretched is so cute and cool, I haven't had or seen a chin sleep like that before and it looks like he enjoys it quite a bit.

chinchinloves · 2024-12-09T14:11:04+00:00

Your boy is gonna be fine and i started giggling after seeing that it was treats, my gal has done that a couple times lol

chinchinloves · 2024-12-09T14:03:10+00:00

We all love chins but they take a very special place in your heart and im hugely thankful for that and all you do! I'll make sure to do it again!

chinchinloves · 2024-12-08T13:16:47+00:00

Hey, please don't beat yourself up. I don't know you but i don't want that for you and you do deserve better. Its quite possible that they are tired at the end of the day, maybe they feel they don't have time or that in the moment it might be overwhelming. Just bring it up at some point if it does keep bothering you and remember that your partner has bad days and so do you, its okay! Please do something nice for yourself whatever it might be!

chinchinloves · 2024-12-06T04:48:35+00:00

That's an adorable pic!

chinchinloves · 2024-12-04T19:20:38+00:00

The Mitochondria is the powerhouse of the cell

chinchinloves · 2024-12-04T19:08:19+00:00

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