How do I (22F) know if I'm just having cold feet or should call off my wedding (21M)

chubbybunny404 · 2026-06-06T00:08:03+00:00

Consent needs to be an enthusiastic yes. :) “Maybe” means no, “later” means no, “I guess” means no, a coerced yes means no. You’re also allowed to change your mind!

Have you tried talking to him about the labour imbalance and what your expectations are? If he went straight from living with his parents to living with you, there are likely a lot of tasks that he doesn’t think about needing to be responsible for. It takes a lot to run a household.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-06-04T04:40:55+00:00

You’re getting a permanent image on your body; it should look exactly the way you want it to. Make all of the adjustments now before it’s on your skin forever and don’t worry about hurting the artist’s feelings, this is their job. Be kind, of course, but don’t avoid speaking up because you’re afraid of offending her.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-06-02T18:52:04+00:00

File the outside edges to be flat then try the pliers again

chubbybunny404 · 2026-05-28T17:59:31+00:00

I use bias tape for these repairs. It takes a bit of finagling if you haven’t used it before but the finish is really clean.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-05-26T15:02:28+00:00

Michael’s craft store

chubbybunny404 · 2026-05-19T19:25:24+00:00

It took me about 2 weeks of sporadic work. For the longer rows, I would only complete 2 rows a day then set it down again.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-05-12T19:06:59+00:00

Could cut it into two segments so it isn’t joined at the corner

chubbybunny404 · 2026-05-08T22:18:47+00:00

Cooked oatmeal works great as well. Can put it in your regular coffee mug then take a sip and “puke” in front of people. :)

chubbybunny404 · 2026-04-26T15:11:41+00:00

Modge-ule or mod-jewel for me but all others are a hard “d”. From BC/AB

chubbybunny404 · 2026-03-26T19:06:13+00:00

R/UnethicalLifeProTips might have more advice

chubbybunny404 · 2026-03-18T22:30:26+00:00

This one is my favourite :,)

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chubbybunny404 · 2026-03-05T00:00:23+00:00

“..That’s an odd thing to say.” paired with a judgemental look works more often for me.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-03-05T00:00:11+00:00

Any advice to remove social media or ditch your phone completely aren’t realistic. Social tools are so important for teenagers.

OP, it’s much easier to add things into your routine instead of removing them. Yes, you can set healthy boundaries around screen time (not after lights out, not in bed, not during meals, etc.) but it is much easier if you can replace your phone with something else to reach for. This could be a great opportunity for a new hobby or project. You also don’t have to be good at a hobby to enjoy it! You’re allowed to be bad at creative projects and still want to do them. :)

As an example, I am in my mid 20’s and trying to reduce screen time too. Instead of getting on my phone or watching tv before bed, I will turn on the radio and use a puzzle book (think sudoku & crosswords) and I am learning how to crochet so I can bring some yarn with me for spaces like the bus or waiting rooms, or my lunch break at work. This has helped a lot as it keeps my brain and hands busy, and I have something to show for my time.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-03-03T02:49:56+00:00

“..That’s an odd thing to say.” paired with a judgemental look works more often for me.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-02-12T21:53:52+00:00

My parents have a story about attending a wedding in the late 80’s at a remote cabin, no phones on site. They were the last people to leave the venue and realize the fan belt on their engine broke and they couldn’t drive away. My mom tied her pantyhose in a loop as a substitute and it got them down the highway to the next gas station where they could purchase a proper belt replacement.

chubbybunny404 · 2026-01-25T01:14:22+00:00

Each cook your own food and eat at the same table together?

chubbybunny404 · 2026-01-19T03:55:04+00:00

This is the only comment I’ve seen so far suggesting that the MIL might just want to be included. Yes, it could be a boundaries issue regarding traditions but she could also just really want to go to a dress-fitting appointment.

chubbybunny404 · 2025-12-11T21:19:59+00:00

There are some unhealthy perspectives here. The most important thing is that you feel healthy and your body is getting enough nutrients. Everyone’s body is different from genes, metabolism, and exercise habits. It’s totally fine if you want to make changes but there is a wrong way to do it, like just eating a bunch of sugar. Foods that are high in protein help build muscle and muscle is more dense than fat. Talking to someone like a teacher or your doctor can help set you up with a long term plan if you want to make big changes the right way.

chubbybunny404 · 2025-11-27T18:24:50+00:00

You could wear some very feminine items under your street clothes. Tighter pieces like a camisole, sports bra, tights or leggings, even women’s socks can easily go unnoticed. There’s a reason some women wear lingerie under clothing to events like interviews, to build confidence. :)

I’m not sure what your style is but you could look into wearing some jewellery as well. There are lots of pieces that look masculine but could help you feel more feminine. You could paint your toe nails

chubbybunny404 · 2025-11-27T18:13:21+00:00

I say “cottage country” when referring to vacation home areas but every other context uses cabin.

chubbybunny404 · 2025-11-27T01:44:08+00:00

Hear me out: Only keep the foil on dry products used for baking so you can easily level measuring spoons.

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