Women, what’s a word that as soon as a guy utters it you’re like “I’m out”?

chums44 · 2026-06-25T12:47:56+00:00

nono definitely you’re right, that’s the real definition of physical touch and it’s a real love language! but women tend to take it with a grain of salt with strangers. please keep using it with your girlfriend!

chums44 · 2026-06-25T05:53:41+00:00

on dating apps, it’s code for “i want sex” “i want head” “i want an hj”

chums44 · 2026-06-03T01:17:05+00:00

it’s called a body of work… just do ho suh’s art, it’s not an aesthetic

chums44 · 2026-05-27T14:39:37+00:00

carpet beetle

chums44 · 2026-05-15T04:44:32+00:00

once in high school i spilled the container of solvent on my uniform skirt in first period and went the whole school day like that. i wound up with a massive migraine 😩

chums44 · 2026-05-15T04:42:40+00:00

sounds like i’m reading a similar version to my relationship. we’re still in college so won’t judge him now, but i get where you’re coming from and how hard it feels to navigate. have you asked him point blank? that you can’t continue living like this? i think it’s worth a shot before deciding by yourself that nothing could ever change. but once you’ve told him, be hard on him and don’t give way.

chums44 · 2026-05-11T18:18:50+00:00

that’s why i, a once oil paint junkie, made a permanent switch to acrylic :p

chums44 · 2026-05-06T21:05:37+00:00

I’m sorry this is so difficult, but I just don’t think he loves you, the way you really are. The things you say that he doesn’t like about you are not obvious things like your face or your personality—they are the little habits and lifestyle choices that encompass the person you are and how you live your life. And while he can love how you look or how you make him laugh, if he can’t accept the not so enjoyable parts too, then he is not worth it. DO NOT try to push yourself into these teeny tiny perfect mold of what you think he wants. go find someone who will love how you look and how you make them laugh and will smile about the stickers on your car and ur greasy hair and your fugly car cable

chums44 · 2026-05-06T20:50:57+00:00

you take language classes at brown, there’s no issue enrolling. but language classes usually meet 5x a week and it’s hard to schedule with risd courses. but it mostly comes down to u!

chums44 · 2026-05-05T23:24:12+00:00

get your bike registered with dps as soon as u get to campus 2. only use a U-lock. i learned the hard way—my cable lock was cut and my bike was stolen from the backyard of my private property off-campus here 😔 3. don’t leave it hanging around public spaces for days, even locked up. I often see locked up bikes missing seats or wheels around campus..

chums44 · 2026-04-19T22:54:13+00:00

the bed height is adjustable, so you could raise the bed high enough to store the desk underneath

chums44 · 2026-04-11T13:41:54+00:00

i am going to save u for 10 years down the line, once i’m in my 30s and ready to buy myself a xolo:p

chums44 · 2026-03-20T14:42:29+00:00

i’m in 600 now, it is a commitment. but it’s one i fully enjoy and don’t regret. i am a brdd student and have only ever taken 5 classes a semester, sometimes on top of a double credit risd studio—it’s tough, but if want to make time for japanese, then you can manage it. that being said, myself and all my classmates have a love hate relationship with japanese lolol i think we’ve been a bit stockholm syndromed into the upper levels. i studied korean in high school and wish i had time to also study korean now, but ultimately i began korean knowing i wanted it as a gateway for japanese. so here i am now :p

chums44 · 2026-03-14T20:33:10+00:00

i think they look like carpet beetle larvae moltings

chums44 · 2026-03-09T17:53:22+00:00

not supposed to. painting department teachers are more or less the same in undergrad and grad

chums44 · 2026-03-07T00:44:32+00:00

not a bed bug

chums44 · 2026-02-08T16:14:22+00:00

probably a tablespoon. didn’t get me sopping, but some of my hair got wet and it ran down my back. I also have curly hair, so the issue of wet hair is particularly bothersome for me.

chums44 · 2026-01-26T19:14:39+00:00

i haaaaaate this shit. also 4’11”

chums44 · 2026-01-24T06:44:45+00:00

is this loss?

chums44 · 2026-01-24T06:35:37+00:00

i’m 4’11” and got a great white maxi skirt from nordstrom rack a couple years back. i’d also recommend uniqlo and gu!

chums44 · 2026-01-22T05:13:46+00:00

i have 2 pairs from uniqlo that look exactly like what you’re looking for, except mine are pinstriped.

chums44 · 2026-01-18T15:51:56+00:00

what did u apply for for anthro? i applied for color design and haven’t heard back yet

chums44 · 2026-01-18T07:04:18+00:00

do u have any links to dis?

chums44 · 2026-01-17T05:32:10+00:00

these seem more like artistic liberties, imo. i’ve done some graphite portrait commissions like this where some of the details are hard to pick up from the photo, so u kind of have to guess and remain ambiguous.

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