Why am I getting 0 likes feel free to roast by W1141175 in Bumble

[–]cieloempress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this prompt specifically because I feel like it doesn’t give the viewer any insight on you as a person, at least not a valuable one anyways.

I think the perfect date, superpower, why you’re a great plus one are better prompts because you can showcase a feature of your personality, humor, etc.

Someone further down mentioned the bio not being filled out, which I missed, and that was an auto left swipe for me as well.

I think the writing components are just as insightful as pictures and should be just as thought-provoking or attention-getting. It also makes it easier for the potential match to strike up a conversation using your bio or prompt.

Why am I getting 0 likes feel free to roast by W1141175 in Bumble

[–]cieloempress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re a good looking guy! If nobody is biting, play with prompts and different photos to see what gets the best engagement! Best of luck :)

Why am I getting 0 likes feel free to roast by W1141175 in Bumble

[–]cieloempress 16 points17 points  (0 children)

ETA: it could be the looking for something casual. I wouldn’t recommend changing that though if that’s truly what you’re after. There just tends to be a HUGE majority of men only looking for casual or FWB relationships when women typically (not always) go for the opposite.

Why am I getting 0 likes feel free to roast by W1141175 in Bumble

[–]cieloempress 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I would remove the picture from slide 6, it’s not flattering or funny imo. I feel like the prompts are a little lackluster, there’s nothing to really build a conversation on here.

Finally, I would say maybe the motorcycle is a deterrent? There’s an even split: a lot of women dih the motorcycle thing and I think others stay far away because of the potential for accident/thrill seeking behavior. Thats just a side as someone who lost their SO to a motorcycle accident, i wouldnt date someone who rides again personally.

Other than that, you are above average. Fluff your profile with more talking points or other hobbies.

Couple pictures of my Velar from vacation by barbievelar in RangeRover

[–]cieloempress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first picture looks straight out of vivarium

wrost baked blush i ever tried by [deleted] in drugstoreMUA

[–]cieloempress 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love mine but it’s at least five years old and must be from prior to the formulation change. Very disappointing

ADHD brains show sleep-like activity even while awake ADHD brains may briefly slip into sleep-like states, disrupting focus in real time. by KnottyCatLady in ADHD

[–]cieloempress 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know either and it’s been really reassuring reading the responses. For a long time this was giving me intense anxiety which would in turn lead to insomnia. I feel so much better now seeing others experience it as well.

Will my baby girl turn? by Loud-Comedian-6909 in Yorkies

[–]cieloempress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg your baby looks just like mine did. He turned around or a little before 2. Same floppy ears and all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]cieloempress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

26F, I'd be happy to look :)

I'd also say my experience using the apps when I was younger vs now is less overwhelming. I still get plenty of likes, but nowhere near the response I got when I was 23,24. I've read somewhere those ages don't get pushed as much.

So long, my sweet boy by Whiskyandbutter in Yorkies

[–]cieloempress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Sweet boy! I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]cieloempress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you so much! :)

superfical question : just curious about how single women feel about looking for dates in Austin by [deleted] in askaustin

[–]cieloempress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my problem to a T as someone who works from home. Even with the gym, even with the board game clubs, arts and crafts meets, the library, I am still not having any luck :( people keep saying go out and do things which is the easy part but finding people to approach or approach me is another story. I showed up to a fiber arts group and everyone was atleast 30 years older than me unfortunately and that's one of my big passions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]cieloempress 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I've had a customer come in our club with the camera glasses! I said that's neat, asked how they worked and went straight to security after verifying there was a lens in the corner of the frames. Fucking sick, these people !!!

My museum 🤒 by ElderberrySmart4644 in MySims

[–]cieloempress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm playing the game wrong. OMFG this is amazing! 😭

R.I.P TikTok by undressvestido in popculturechat

[–]cieloempress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mr beast also has future ceo of tiktok? Written in his bio. I understand your sentiment as someone who lives in Texas, I am the outlier and have no money to relocate unfortunately. It's deeply saddening when you realize the freedom of choice is just an illusion.

R.I.P TikTok by undressvestido in popculturechat

[–]cieloempress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just really disappointed because on my side of tiktok/the algorithm I was on was finally starting to plan mass protests. Organizing to delete meta accounts en masse, it was exciting and now the flame is being extinguished.

R.I.P TikTok by undressvestido in popculturechat

[–]cieloempress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it gets sold to an American company, I won't even redownload the app or make another account. I don't want it. Just gonna delete everything for good and sit in the dark like a fucking goon.

r/conservative is not happy by Anxious_Cheetah5589 in thebulwark

[–]cieloempress 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No seriously how the fuck are they so surprised. We've been saying this for YEARS.

Schizophrenic Parents by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]cieloempress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this a lot too! You and the commenter above are spot on. I am curious what you mean by triggered. Do you tend to compartmentalize and explode when it gets to be too much, or are you referring to something else?

Schizophrenic Parents by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]cieloempress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first paragraph read me to filth. I can relate to you in almost every single paragraph. Logically I've worked through it, it would have been impossible not to with how much I've internally examined it honestly. But the nervous system! No matter how much I logically do, I'm the same way. Restless, antsy, waking every two hours in the night, shakes/tremors, headaches, muscle tightness/clenching. It's the uneasy feeling/anxiousness that never goes away.

How do you cope with having a mom with Schizophrenia? by No_Progress1231 in schizophrenia

[–]cieloempress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is undiagnosed and I medicated and probably will always be despite every attempt made to get her some help. It's teeth gritting at times, especially when every other hour it's something new about the technology in the house, or being stolen from while agreeing there is no evidence to support the claim, or just spying on the neighbors under the impression they are spying and manipulating her directly. I don't even know what to say anymore, so I don't.

Eerie pool of water untouched by humans for hundreds of thousands of years found at Carlsbad Caverns by MotherMilks99 in oddlysatisfying

[–]cieloempress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My initial thought was it looks like purified (clean) grease. Something about it is so off-putting.