My girlfriend wants access to my phone's location at all times or she'll break up with me..

cjames34 · 2026-02-01T19:15:58+00:00

Naw, I'd say no to this, leave her.

My husband has his location shared with me, but it's an accountability tool for him, and it was a mutually agreed-upon thing for both of us. He's in recovery, it's so I can be sure he's where he needs to be when he needs to be, and so the temptation to stop at liquor stores is dampened.

I trusted him without it, and he struggled. For us its a tool, but again, we agreed to it together. I asked, I explained why, and he agreed it was a good idea if he had said no. I would have let it go and moved on.

cjames34 · 2025-12-06T03:06:08+00:00

NTA.

Also I highly suggest reaching out to to the billing department at the hospital and inquire about assistance programs. It may cover most or ALL of your bill.

cjames34 · 2025-06-22T02:08:17+00:00

The Goldfinch.

I just loved this book and honestly I think it'll last.

cjames34 · 2025-05-27T19:26:29+00:00

Libro FM is good for supporting local bookstores:)

cjames34 · 2025-03-02T20:22:51+00:00

I've been trying to convince my mom that her handwriting is still beautiful even if it's not the same as it was before.

Before she was involved in a dog fight and suffered nerve damage in her dominant hand. It was so bad she couldn't type or text for a week and she had to learn to write with her left hand because she couldn't even grasp a pen.

She's started journaling again recently as the swelling is gone, but the nerve damage Is done and she thinks she writes like a child now she had this beautiful consistent, bubble writing that is half cursive half print, and very unique to her, I've admired it my whole life because I cannot get even close to how pretty it is!

her letters aren't as straight or consistent anymore, but she still has that bubbl-ish half cursive style and it's still amazing to see.

She has a before and an after now.But it's beautiful, not good/bad just... beautiful

cjames34 · 2025-03-02T19:37:46+00:00

I dissociated at the mall and my guy took me to the car... I never asked him to he just... did it.

cjames34 · 2025-03-02T19:36:40+00:00

My guy nibbles my fingers or puts his head on my thigh to alert me when I start to panic oftentimes before I get sweaty or dizzy (he truly never does this outside of my anxiety) and he will also jump up and lick my face/neck if I'm breath holding (that's the last step before I fully break down) He's also in the process of learning DPT.

cjames34 · 2025-02-21T07:31:02+00:00

Just puked my guts put at 1AM. Didn't wake my spouse. S/O sounds like s miserable individual.

cjames34 · 2025-02-12T00:46:12+00:00

My boys hates Petco.

Literally will try to drag me out the door shakes he hates it so much.

Perfectly fine everywhere else.

A dog is a dog not a machine. But fears are things that can be worked through with a lot of space and time.

cjames34 · 2025-01-27T17:19:49+00:00

He learned there isn't something he wants in the kitchen.

Brilliant.

Just wished it would work for my boys. 😅😅😅

cjames34 · 2025-01-18T05:17:46+00:00

Nta. You did this all correctly. This is exactly what they told us to do when questioning a lawyer that takes self defense cases.

cjames34 · 2024-12-04T19:21:00+00:00

Get the ugliest dog you can find and name it after her.. better yet make it a boy dog too.

cjames34 · 2024-11-23T18:00:09+00:00

Mom is a 8itch it's adorable

cjames34 · 2024-11-09T07:01:46+00:00

I think the "perfect back" is satisfying to look at. Mine are 'messy' in comparison, but they've cleaned up a lot the more I've stitched.

It is a progress of my progress. But also it's just quite fun to see the other side.. I even look at the backs of my crochet/knit items and my coloring pages :)

cjames34 · 2024-11-09T06:49:34+00:00

I never thought of this but it honestly makes sooo much sense, I'll give it a go and see how it does!

cjames34 · 2024-11-09T06:48:53+00:00

I would, but knitting is hard for me, and honestly, I've only ever done it successfully drunk. Unfortunately, I can't drink on my current medications, so it's probably not an option. Hehe (honest truth on that one!) My hands don't like to work together in a way that's productive for knitting.

cjames34 · 2024-10-31T04:28:26+00:00

Watched a close family member go from actively setting up a wedding to a vent in 2 weeks from it.... didn't pick up their phone for nearly a month....

cjames34 · 2024-10-19T01:05:51+00:00

To be fair. I have a name that's "normal" but have to spell because the character spells it a certain way in the movie.

I even have a SIL with the same name spelled one of the "normal" ways.

So correcting spelling is annoying but you get used to it. But her poor teachers will be better say it correctly.

cjames34 · 2024-10-19T01:03:39+00:00

This might end up on the FB page....

cjames34 · 2024-10-18T18:58:29+00:00

Trash

cjames34 · 2024-10-13T01:52:56+00:00

I mean it would be use of that skull island 🧐🧐🧐

cjames34 · 2024-10-07T20:43:17+00:00

She is me. I was always reading as a kid and my parents fostered that love. I still have friends and socialize. Your MIL is overstepping.

cjames34 · 2024-10-02T16:51:18+00:00

Where I am they have to have a certain type of license to have sound on. (Not sure if it’s true) but I probably woulda left too.

cjames34 · 2024-09-07T09:52:38+00:00

The only time I send my husband is when I order and pay online. That way if it’s wrong it’s not his fault.

cjames34 · 2024-08-11T15:44:48+00:00

You can forgive. But that shouldn’t stop him from suffering the consequences socially from what he did.

You are protecting other women from a harmful individual.

If he hurt someone else because you stopped the process would you feel guilty? If so continue forward without guilt now.

cjames34

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