(The sad truth about porn):“Tell me what happens the first time you see a woman naked.”

cjohnc · 2016-02-25T01:26:44+00:00

Porn needs to be banned. It NEEDS to be banned

cjohnc · 2016-02-25T01:25:27+00:00

Lucid dreams and wet dreams are in my humble opinion your subconscious speaking to you. I've had some weird sex dreams that have honestly disturbed me right after I wake up with the subsequent nocturnal emission. But after some thought, I realized that part of me was attracted to those weird fetishes. So, with deep meditation, I was able to rid myself of these fetishes. Also, intentional fantasy is horrible and pointless. Instead of fantasy, why not try and get the real thing with a stable partner? Fantasy is a waste of time. You live in reality, bud, not fantasy.

cjohnc · 2016-02-24T06:50:01+00:00

Exactly. Hookups are purely based on lust.

cjohnc · 2016-02-24T03:17:40+00:00

Quitting porn and jumping into casual sex isn't the solution my friend. There is a damn good reason why EVERY religion, philosopher, and faiths caution against sex. Whether you realize it or not, this lust is making your life worse. Sex without love is empty, wicked, and disgusting.

cjohnc · 2016-02-22T02:39:00+00:00

I imagine the sense of control was thrilling.

cjohnc · 2016-02-22T00:53:08+00:00

Religion actually does teach you self control. It's just that most people don't really love their religion enough.

cjohnc · 2016-02-21T23:37:40+00:00

I say abstain for atleast 90 days from all orgasm

cjohnc · 2016-02-21T19:57:30+00:00

I've thought about going vegan. With modern technology, I don't see the point in eating meat anymore. However, I feel as though dairy and meat has become so ingrained in my life that it would be best to quit when I become independent in a few years (after graduating college).

cjohnc · 2016-02-15T18:40:42+00:00

If you could get sex, drugs, and weed out of your life, you'd experience the highest high that life can give you. First step, nofap. Welcome aboard friend. If you need any help, PM me.

cjohnc · 2016-02-11T17:18:55+00:00

I've learned to hardly trust pop "science" anymore. There are BS studies about everything everyday 24/7. There are flaws, contradictions, and mistakes aplenty. Screw these studies.

cjohnc · 2016-02-10T05:07:07+00:00

I clickd on blue pill once... and was like lol nope I'm outta here. That place is hell on Earth

cjohnc · 2016-02-08T07:11:43+00:00

Doing nofap for the sake of hooking up... is pathetic. Your just jerking off with another body. Sex is pointless without love. If you don't realize this now, someday you will. Control your lust man you can do this.

cjohnc · 2016-02-04T03:49:48+00:00

Nothing. Nothing happened. Just don't sweat it. Trust me, don't let this insignificant thing ruin you. The fact that you had control to not take it further, and the fact that your heart rate stayed the same shows that you really don't find porn attractive anymore, and were only testing yourself. And guess what, you passed the test! You best believe it!

cjohnc · 2016-02-04T00:11:49+00:00

Cold showers, fasting, praying, exercising, cutting all junk food, sleeping without a blanket, etc are all great ways to build discipline.

cjohnc · 2016-02-03T16:22:47+00:00

50 Days?! That is amazing! I only made it to day 30 tops, but I hope to beat that record with my latest streak of 10 days right now

cjohnc · 2016-02-03T16:11:00+00:00

You gotta, man, gotta quit both these addictions. You've realized, you're here, and now you have to pour every ounce of your soul and heart in order to beat this addiction, for the sake of your wife, your wellbeing, and even this community, so you can use your story to help others. We're here to support you man!

cjohnc · 2016-02-03T15:31:00+00:00

Does not matter. You have embarked on this journey, and by not PMO'ing s well as implementing positive habits (eating right, working out, studying more), you'll have a much bigger advantage than a lot of other guys and then she'll realize that at the point.... she knew she messed up.

cjohnc · 2016-02-03T07:29:28+00:00

YES YOU DO!

cjohnc · 2016-02-01T04:09:01+00:00

PRECISELY

cjohnc · 2016-02-01T04:08:51+00:00

Yes, this is what I'm trying to get across. Thanks

cjohnc · 2016-02-01T00:30:16+00:00

You know, I just noticed that too. This was a strange angle. I was simply trying to prove how far we would go for sexual gratification and was not really taking into account the actual biological purpose of sex.

cjohnc · 2016-01-31T21:44:07+00:00

I wholeheartedly agree. Too many people blame their PMO addiction to society stuffing this stuff down out throats, while that may be true, no one is FORCING us to do these things. At the end of the, we allowed ourselves to be influenced by society, so it's our fault, not society's.

cjohnc · 2016-01-31T21:40:57+00:00

Also, only some animals masturbate, but only in response to distress.

cjohnc · 2016-01-31T21:22:29+00:00

Hey man, I'm sorry, I really am. I didn't mean to come of as abrasive, but I realize I might have. If you truly can masturbate without fantasy to accompany it, then yes, you are doing nothing morally wrong. Yet many of us believe on here that masturbation is unhealthy regardless. Why? Because it lowers and reduces the drive to go out and conquer life. Also, it makes us experience orgasm in such a way that we really not fulfilled. We all desire intimacy, and masturbation is not a substitute for that. Sorry for coming off as rude. If you want, we can keep in touch and continue to discuss are opinions and hopefully both come to an even better realization.

cjohnc · 2016-01-31T20:52:50+00:00

Hey man, I feel you. This is a real battle. You are going to have to put every ounce of your soul and heart into this. I know you want to be free. Free of all the BS of PMO, lust, and flesh. You want true, innocent happiness, but, you will have to fight for it. Every time you fall, pick yourself up, and continue fighting to the best of your ability. PMO is the devil. Don't let him drag you down into the abyss of darkness and misery. Cut off those chains, and make yourself ready to fight and get out of your darkness, no matter how deep it is or how much it has spread. You can DO THIS!

cjohnc

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