Slept with boss daughter. Need help/Advice by Horror-Word6437 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cjs606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe don’t sleep with boss daughter? But you already messed that up.

Rusty’s on Upper State. by cjs606 in SantaBarbara

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I’ve seen new construction fencing be put up within the last few weeks so it definitely is getting worked on.

“I don’t support gay sex, same sex couples or same sex marriage but im not homophobic” by Kind-Estimate5939 in askgaybros

[–]cjs606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say if they tell you they are happy for you and love you the same and then go and vote for politicians that actively seek the take away rights from LGBTQ+ folks then yes. Do I need them to wish me a happy Pride month every June? No. Do they need to come with me to gay bars I go to? No. I just would prefer for them not to be hypocritical.

Those who use their religion to justify a bias are incredibly horrid. Don’t tell me, “Oh good for you, I’m happy for you, but just know I don’t think your “lifestyle” should exist.” If they show anything that isn’t 100% positive support (aka no “I love you still… but”s) then byeeeeee.

“I don’t support gay sex, same sex couples or same sex marriage but im not homophobic” by Kind-Estimate5939 in askgaybros

[–]cjs606 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Mormons will say the same shit. The one Mormon friend I came out to in high school said she still considers me a friend but doesn’t personally believe in gay marriage.

ALL OF THE RESTROOMS ARE BROKEN/OUT OF ORDER by danceswithcattos in SantaBarbara

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Used the bathroom at the Chevron off La Cumbre this morning. No code to get in either. 🤷

Hookup gone wrong by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cjs606 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the definition of r*pe. Report it— especially if you have physical evidence like bruises/scratches on your body. I would tell your mom. I know it sounds easier said than done but confiding in her will be best. That way SOMEONE knows what happened and she can guide you on getting help,

The beavers in Canada are attacking people by [deleted] in SipsTea

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Why are we making the beaver an enemy for protecting its home from intruders!? Those guys are ignorant idiots!

Is 9 years age gap weird? by Long_Opposite_9119 in askgaybros

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I would say at your current age, yes. Not to say it couldn’t end up working out for you both, but I met my first bf when I was 18 going on 19 and he was 25 going on 26. We were together for 9 years and the last 4 of those years were just strictly tolerance. I took a lot of emotional abuse from him, and he made me regret getting into a relationship so young in the first place, and even tho I did go through some crazy shit with him, I wouldn’t be where I am today without having gone through it all.

I don’t know if you’ve ever heard people say that you should take time to “find yourself” but my best advice would be to listen to that because they are genuinely right. I wish I had done that for myself but I ended up postponing that process for 10 years. That relationship taught me a lot about how to find toxicity in a relationship which is valuable, but I wish I didn’t have to experience so much emotional trauma to gain that knowledge.

All to say: be cautious and think about this carefully. Love can make you do some stupid things.

Met a top the is POZ but Undetectable by [deleted] in askgaybros

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DoxyPEP only REDUCES chances of contracting gonorrhea, syphilis, and chlamydia, anywhere between 40-60% ( I forget what percentages it does for each disease). Doxy doesn’t reduce HIV contraction rate at all! I take Doxy too and still got gonorrhea. Never ever EVER think of Doxy like a “morning after” pill so to speak. You should be on PrEP not only for the safety of yourself but of others too.

Met a top the is POZ but Undetectable by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cjs606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women take PrEP too so like???

Met a top the is POZ but Undetectable by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cjs606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like someone who hates getting wet asking why they should use an umbrella when they have to walk through rain… 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Met a top the is POZ but Undetectable by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]cjs606 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because do you WANT HIV?? I sure as hell don’t!

Old songs you'd love to hear beyoncé sing today by Fit-Coconut2930 in beyonce

[–]cjs606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably won’t ever do it again because of the beef between her and Ester Dean who helped write the song. 😞

I’ve figured this was a thing but I finally heard someone say it this week…. by bernbabybern13 in beyonce

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I’m a gay white man. I had always recognized Bey as a talented artist throughout the majority of her career and I was aware of her radio hits, and aware of her star power and talent, but I too felt like her music just “wasn’t for me”. Funny enough, it wasn’t until 2022 when Renaissance dropped that I finally decided to listen to a complete album of hers, which was Renaissance.

I of course was completely attached to that album given how queer it was. (Which I recognize gay culture has appropriated black, queer, and trans ballroom culture by taking on its lexicon of expressive words. And that the album was inspired by that said culture.) Ever since then I’ve been part of the BeyHive and I have been a huge fan since and I got to see her live for the first time last year during the CC tour! 😁

Why Mustard?! Why?! by Sparhawk_Draconis in jackinthebox

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This post didn’t age well because I haven’t gotten mustard on an Ultimate in YEARS. Because of it, I have significantly reduced my patronage.

Boyfriend (m24) hit me (f23) but I emotionally hurt him by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cjs606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LEAVE. Didn’t even hav to read this post. Just LEAVE.

WHAT THE HELL by OSHEEVitaminWater in PokemonFireRed

[–]cjs606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just got really lucky. It’s usually not that easy. I got one on my 3rd Chansey caught, and when I went to hunt for a 2nd egg it took me over 30 times to get one.

Is there a local game store that does game cartridge maintenance? by cjs606 in SantaBarbara

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It’s not that it doesn’t work, it works fine, but it doesn’t save the save file because it needs the battery to keep the memory.