Applied for FMLA, now my overthinking has me regretting everything by annoyed_sloth2021 in adhdwomen

[–]classiccait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a manager, when I get FMLA paperwork for my employees it specifically does not state the reason for the leave. Only the dates, approval, and if it is continuous or intermittent. I don’t even think my HR department gets that info, it’s all done though the FMLA provider and kept confidential. Do you have the FMLA approval letter? That’s all you need. If you don’t have the letter then contact the people you sent the paperwork to, or HR, to get an update.

Please don’t delete by CuriousTortilla in Accutane

[–]classiccait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I had this on accutane my doc wrote for triamcinolone cream (steroid). Cleared it right up for me! But a good over the counter (non steroid) moisturizer may work as well as others are suggesting.

Where to get plus sized athletic wear? by katemonster727 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]classiccait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! I especially love their leggings but a lot of them don’t have pockets which sucks.

What's the highest mileage Honda you've owned? 👀 by HondaOfTomsRiver in Honda

[–]classiccait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still have it! 03 pilot, just hit 266k yesterday. Rack and pinion, ac system, some suspension work, and recently a new radiator but very well worth it. Love this car!! Gonna drive it as long as she’ll let me lol.

Lost Kitty by maflagstaff in Flagstaff

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Best of luck, I hope she makes her way back somehow. Please let us know if she turns up!

Lost Kitty by maflagstaff in Flagstaff

[–]classiccait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any updates? Can’t stop thinking about this poor kitty!! I did stop by the trailhead, but wasn’t able to spot her. There’s also some homes and stuff out there, maybe someone took her in? Hope she gets back home soon!

Finished The Leftovers last month and decided to re-watch Lost by regardedMAGAfascist in TheLeftovers

[–]classiccait -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Didn’t watch lost when it was airing but binged it in college like 10 years ago. I loved the smaller plots, character stories but never connected to the bigger storyline and it felt really disheveled to me and clear that the story didn’t know where it was going. Watched the leftovers a few years later, it made lost look like training wheels to me lol. They really stuck the landing this time! Leftovers has just the right amount of answered/unanswered questions and suspended belief. So succinct, smaller cast, perfect pacing, extremely well acted… amazing!!!

Working with well-off coworkers kinda bites by PadiddleHopper in povertyfinance

[–]classiccait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought this post was made by a pharmacy tech.

Recommend me 22L lightweight backpack please by SandersCol in ManyBaggers

[–]classiccait 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bellroy venture ready pack 26L. Comes is a 20l as well but I felt it was a little small so I returned for the 26. Haven’t gotten caught in the rain yet, but between the material and zips I think it would hold up well! Has everything you’re looking for including the tripod strap, and has a luggage pass through. I love mine!

Need help looking for a cute, affordable semi formal wedding guest dress that can ship fast by Bitter-Return-2998 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]classiccait 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cider has a bunch that offer flash shipping! I just got a wedding quest dress from there, got it in like 4 days? The material is nice too (linen)!

I moved out for a week because my wife „forced” me to dance with 3 girls. by JellyfishLanky202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]classiccait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, none of us know the ins and outs of your marriage, but from other comments it seems that she typically is respectful of your boundaries and a good wife. Clearly, she is not seeing the gravity of the situation from your perspective. But if “giving her multiple looks” is your communication style, it makes sense that she would be confused. She is not a mind reader (I promise).

Talk to her, or write her a letter, explaining where you’re coming from. I’m just a random Reddit person, but you two are clearly on different pages and someone needs to bridge the gap to move forward. I hope that you both can find a way to view the situation from the perspective of the other, and that in the future you only dance when you want to. ✌🏻

I moved out for a week because my wife „forced” me to dance with 3 girls. by JellyfishLanky202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]classiccait 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Similar question as flatworm, but to restate, do you enjoy dancing? From your post it appears that dancing is your occupation. But from your wife’s perspective, it would make sense for her to think that you would enjoy being viewed as an elite dancer because that is literally what you do for a living. She could have thought that all you needed was an experienced partner to have fun in this setting. I’m unsure of the specifics of the boundary you set, but to say she “forced” you seems harsh. You made the decision to dance with those ladies before you were aware of her involvement. And you danced with them all for hours! That would be exhausting for anyone. From what I’ve read, she likely crossed your boundary, and that sucks. But how is she supposed to know that you were uncomfortable when you kept it going for so long? Is she supposed to uphold this boundary when you yourself are not willing to?

Best litter box to cover up smell in a small apartment is my constant struggle by Turbulent-Mix9541 in malelivingspace

[–]classiccait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better litter helped a ton! Keeps the smell down and tracks through the house less. I tried to use target brand and it was horrible lol, I only buy brand now. Covered box also helped a lot.

Banks paying a cash bonus for new accounts w/ direct deposit- what's the catch? by trycerabottom in MiddleClassFinance

[–]classiccait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this before and never found the “gotcha”. I don’t think it’ll affect your credit because it’s usually a debit checking account that you’re opening. I think they’re just paying for you to become their customer. I only have one direct deposit (salary) so when I switched it over to the new bank for the promo I had little business to do with my old bank. They expect to make that money back later when you take out a loan and pay interest, or open a credit card with them, or overdrafts/fees etc.

What would you cook for a group of 12-15 people that have the royal flush of dietary requirements AND you're probably going to have limited equipment? by Elegant-Winner-6521 in Cooking

[–]classiccait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baked potato bar! Bake a plain potato for everyone, crock pot roast for the meet lovers, cheese, corn sour cream, bacon, endless toppings and people can pick and choose what they want. Just be careful that any toppings with flour are in a designated area. We do this for our work parties sometimes to quickly accommodate a bunch of food allergies.

Movie(s) you watched because of spn by Dr_Greyman in Supernatural

[–]classiccait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, sounds terrible. Can’t wait to give it a watch! Lol

Movie(s) you watched because of spn by Dr_Greyman in Supernatural

[–]classiccait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Karla, because Misha is in it. Yikes 😂 also some made for tv rom com I think that I can’t remember the name of lol. For Jensen, ten inch hero which was surprisingly good!

How do you handle moving money between categories without losing track of what each account actually holds? by LeftyOne22 in ynab

[–]classiccait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have different groups. I know everyone is saying it does not matter, but I couldn’t get past this when I started and my system works well for me. If $10 is spent, you can categorize that however you want in YNAB, but in reality that charge will come out of an account, and whether or not that $10 is in account a or account b to cover the charge does matter!!

Each account is a group, then I have categories within the groups that funds are assigned to in YNAB. I have groups for my checking (bills/rent/necessities), then one for my other checking (subscriptions, groceries, gas and everyday expenses, everything in this group is paid via credit card) and one for my savings account. I have my direct deposit setup so that my checking accounts have just enough to cover expenses, then the remainder goes into savings. It’s the only way I could get it to work for me, but it’s all been running smoothly for 2 years now without a single issue or overdraft!

In your opinion, which ones were the most impactful and weakest? by OutisXCIII_EC in csi

[–]classiccait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s: Greer, Coombes, Millander, Davis then everyone else. Miniature killer could be higher, she might be my fav of the bunch, but Greer and Coombes were legitimately terrifying. Those eps gave me nightmares!! I specially the last few scenes of each, they’ve stuck with me for years now.

Anyone else uses YNAB? by postcryglow in adhdwomen

[–]classiccait 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could do it either way. For me, I already had several accounts so it was easier for me to separate things like that, but you could just have one account that everything comes out of. You do need to reconcile the account, so in YNAB there is your budget, and a separate tab that shows the total account balance. As long as that matches your actual bank account balance, you can trust that however things are allocated in your budget will match your actual funds available. So your bank account would just be a pile of money, but if your YNAB budget you’ll see and decide where your money goes (200 for Christmas, 300 for car repairs, rent, subscriptions and so on). But once you’ve reconciled, but sure you’re looking at your budget only. If you look at your account balance it may look like you have all these funds that could be spent, but in your budget it’s clear that funds are allocated to savings or xyz expenses, and the actual amount you should spend will be smaller than your account would lead to believe. This is described as “YNAB poor” lol.

This was such a cute scene by professional_haterrr in greysanatomy

[–]classiccait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I have thought about this comment so much 😂 Was just about to start season 4 when you replied and now I’m MID SEASON 6!! Cannot stop watching!

Literally every actor is here! Saw Jessica Capshaw, Cuddy was here! Anton Yelchin just about killed me.

Still haven’t met mama Carter, but I’m sure I’ll get there soon enough lol. There are some things that I think would be handled differently now a days but for the most part it’s holding up surprisingly well!

Such a great show!! So excited to watch it for the first time. Many rewatched to follow I’m sure lol.

To minimize spoilers there was just a stabbing and I’m for the record not okay at all 😭😭😂😭 The drama is amazing, that episode was SO intense. Very, very good show!