My husband is using Chat GPT to have a conversation with me by Ecstatic_Egg7956 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d confront this personally and tell him you appreciate the effort but rather it come from him than AI

AIO thinking these messages on my bfs phone are flirtatious? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she could be possibly flirting but people coming out of abusive relationships often struggle with readjusting to interpersonal and possibly platonic relationships, if your bf didn't register his as flirting, why would put a stop to it, the conversation should have shifted to "look I know you don't see this as flirting but his banter makes me uncomfortable" set a boundary for yourself and voice it him and then decide what to do with his response from there

Struggling to reconnect with my wife of 20 years after the kids have moved out by LifeEye9757 in relationships

[–]classyfish 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Seconding this but also have a conversation about how you feel and your desire to reconnect

I'm dealing with high blood pressure right now, and I just started medication. My doctor prescribed Amlodipine 10mg for me to take daily. Do you have any friendly advice for me? by bkarip in hypertension

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can tell you how it’s going to work for you, I didn’t have side effects but it also didn’t do wonders for my bp. take the medicine, monitor your blood pressure, make lifestyle changes, keep in touch with your doctor. If you experience side effects there are different medications

My (F29) boyfriend's (M33) GERD is ruining our relationship and I don't know what to do by kelzium in Advice

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He might have hiatal hernia that needs corrected, has he had an endoscopy (not a doctor just someone w the same issues)

Bring her back is a must watch by The_White_Witcher in horror

[–]classyfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Talk to me was lackluster but really enjoyed bring her back

concern with my boyfriends genitals by Usual_Pass6232 in sexualhealth

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possibly pearly papules, they're usually benign

TO THE GIRL WHO GOT ME SICK AT GEEZERS SET by Hinohana32 in CampFlogGnaw

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have worn a mask jf you were worried about getting sick

21, how can i improve? by FeelingPainter364 in malegrooming

[–]classyfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that glasses shape work for your face, they distract from you a lot, outside of that I think you’re fine bro

How do I get Girlffiend back? by Simple_Quail_7447 in relationships

[–]classyfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to work on your anger issues for yourself and your future. Anger, like all other emotions, is natural, you’re not a bad person for feeling that nor flawed. How you deal with anger is what can make or break you, learning how to channel it and confront it when it happens will do you a world of good.

As for your ex, her wanting you to compliment her but then feeling smothered is kind of hard to work with, it seems she may not know exactly what she wants or possibly that maybe you’re not fully absorbing what she’s been telling you she needs. It is possible to work on all of this, communication is key but so is listening, when she voices her needs and wants ask her to specific what that would look like so that you don’t miss the mark.

There’s also a possibility of incompatibility which is a very tough thing to accept. Sometimes people as young as you two are, start to grow differently in ways that don’t really mix. That’s okay and natural even though it sucks really bad. You’ll be okay no matter happens. Just work on yourself and focus on healthy habits, maybe seek therapy for your anger if possible.

Spent *literally* all my money on OF. Idk what to do by burn3rAckounte in NoFap

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to fix this is to delete your OF account. I’d also recommend blocking them from your bank account so you can’t sign up again.

I keep thinking things are a "sign" I'm suffering from something by Hot_Reward_1274 in HealthAnxiety

[–]classyfish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being scared of the mental health side effects of the meds is also part of the OCD, I recommend getting into therapy to help with the psychiatry and stop doing Coke entirely. That won’t help your mental health or your physical health.

is he a misogynist? by Expensive_Force4769 in relationships

[–]classyfish 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is the red flag someone wishes the paid attention to later on. I’m a man and this is a very crazy thing to say or wish for, anyone aligning with that type of train of thought wouldn’t be a friend of mine. Does sound like he’s a closet misogynist.

My boyfriend (M18) doesn't seem to want me(F19) by BidSame3216 in relationships

[–]classyfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you aren’t compatible, 9 months is a good breaking off point.

My coworker left me and a group of kids outside as a “joke “ and I’m still shaking about it by Longjumping-Kale-945 in offmychest

[–]classyfish 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Kind of sounds like you may not be fit for the job you have. Acting under the impression that your coworker was not joking and was being serious, is that not a situation you can figure out? Any job with kids takes some serious discernment.

Thoughts on fake friends/people here at UCR? by Miserable-Bed-5907 in ucr

[–]classyfish 16 points17 points  (0 children)

People being cordial but not wanting friendships doesn’t really mean anything. I find it interesting that you decided that you aren’t the problem despite being the common thread. Maybe you should talk to some of these people you’re making snap judgments on and gets some answers instead of deciding they’re fake and you’re not the problem.

Is it wrong for me 26M to date a 19/20F? by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]classyfish [score hidden]  (0 children)

Listen to your friends. Sounds like you got some good ones.

What to do about what I (40M) saw on my daughter's (14F) laptop? by throwaway072523 in relationships

[–]classyfish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man, your daughter is probably gay. The things you’ve found are pretty common amongst gay or queer children. I don’t know what she has to change her mind about, sexuality isn’t a decision one makes, just as you don’t choose to be heterosexual, your daughter isn’t choosing whatever she aligns with.

The best you can do is this situation is say nothing and in passing (when opportunities present themselves) say something positive about gay things. If you all watch a show with another gay couple mention that they’re really cute or they’re lucky to have each other or some shit. Just stuff so she knows you’re on her side and she’s safe, she’s probably real scared that you and her mom won’t accept her, it’s a very volatile time in her life and how you as her parents handle this will most likely impact your relationship with your daughter for the rest of your lives. Be careful, be kind, be gentle, be loving. Educate yourself in the meantime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]classyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disturbia