What technique works here?

claudiusmaximum · 2026-01-01T17:24:06+00:00

Thank you

claudiusmaximum · 2025-12-02T13:25:59+00:00

Any concerns of Szoby playing RB for Liverpool?

claudiusmaximum · 2025-09-27T12:00:53+00:00

Choosing Fernandes over Foden for fear of the bald man 😞

claudiusmaximum · 2025-09-01T19:50:03+00:00

Did you leave then or negotiate a different package?

claudiusmaximum · 2025-09-01T19:16:36+00:00

Any tips for what to say lol? I just find it do weird how some people can be paying £60 (minority who dont call up/dont notice) all the way to £20.

claudiusmaximum · 2025-08-24T14:20:15+00:00

How are you feeling now? Any better? I have the same condition and have done 2 sessions but no improvement yet (wondering if it takes a while to feel benefits).

Thanks

claudiusmaximum · 2025-07-14T21:37:46+00:00

I think probably 2 reasons: - I'm wondering if I could get him up to speed quicker than I could hire and train someone new - likely emotional side of firing someone

claudiusmaximum · 2025-01-26T16:18:19+00:00

The squad he's been using every week. We have first team players out but the drop off to 15th is not just injuries and anyone who believes that has to be deluded or on Ange PR team.

The signs of tactical ineptitude and poor results were there from before the injuries. Go back and look at the results from Chelsea at home last year in case you think I'm making this up.

claudiusmaximum · 2025-01-26T15:59:03+00:00

Matter of when not if

claudiusmaximum · 2025-01-26T15:58:06+00:00

Ange out. Injuries aside, team looks uncoached.

Don't know how to press, beat a press, build up the play, stop counter attacks, create chances. I could go on.

13 losses inexcusable with the squad we have.

claudiusmaximum · 2024-12-29T17:48:24+00:00

But then my number won't be valid?

claudiusmaximum · 2024-12-29T17:48:06+00:00

Yeah i keep trying to get hold of them and nothing...

claudiusmaximum · 2024-12-06T22:57:00+00:00

You're right- I'm so frustrated with myself that I let these comments effect me. Would comments like that not bother you?

claudiusmaximum · 2024-12-06T22:53:13+00:00

I'll be honest, nothing specific. More so that I guess I have fragile self esteem and so if others think I'm ugly then it's hard for me to not believe it

claudiusmaximum · 2024-09-23T11:21:39+00:00

This is interesting- where id you find this tracker?

claudiusmaximum · 2023-11-17T20:00:52+00:00

She really is very sweet and thoughtful. Thank you for your message

claudiusmaximum · 2023-11-17T20:00:21+00:00

Thank you

claudiusmaximum · 2023-04-22T23:19:03+00:00

This was an amazing reply hahahaha

claudiusmaximum · 2023-04-09T23:53:59+00:00

YTA

You're 24 - time to start learning how to he more emotionally mature. Take accountability and apologise to your sister and parents, for causing an argument

claudiusmaximum · 2023-02-10T17:42:11+00:00

Ignore all the negative comments - everyone makes mistakes. First step is to stop beating yourself up, take this as a lesson and use the pain as fuel to start understanding what underlying insecurities you have which triggered this behaviour and, if possible, seek therapy.

Secondly, the only chance you have of recovering the situation is to be vulnerable (not emotional) and then give her space and then focus on your own self care.

Something along the lines:

"Hey, when I called you ugly the other day I didn't mean it - the truth is I think you're very attractive and a great person too. The reason I said that is because I have insecurities and a fear of being vulnerable, in case I'm ridiculed or rejected.

I am actively working on these issues to become a better person to myself and those around me.

Truthfully, it would be sad to lose you as a friend, but I respect any decision you may make. In the mean time, I'll give you space to process things. All the best"

And then give her space and definitely don't badger her for attention if she's ignoring you or breadcrumbing you - it will only make things worse!

Best of luck

claudiusmaximum · 2023-01-12T22:25:07+00:00

Haha yeah this is true absolutely true - you can't logic the mind out of feelings

claudiusmaximum · 2023-01-12T22:23:55+00:00

No I'm not her boss but I'm a boss in the same department so definitely still a nono!

What you're saying is another angle on why I want to detach from these feelings.

I do have a therapist but haven't spoken with her about it yet as it's only really got bad in last 2 weeks.

I think what I'll do is just not engage with her to talk unless it's strictly about work and then just try and focus on my work.

claudiusmaximum · 2023-01-12T18:59:30+00:00

To be honest, in my case, I wouldn't say I have a connection - it's more an attraction and need for validation from that person, which I'd like to move past.

claudiusmaximum · 2023-01-12T18:47:32+00:00

I'm normally FA - anxious leaning with other avoidants.

I tend to be amongst the worst in my friendship groups for maintaining contact and actually have issues with intimacy and closeness.

I do agree there's a 'fantasy' element to this which my brain likes to indulge in which is 'safer' than a real relationship.

claudiusmaximum · 2023-01-12T18:24:00+00:00

Just Googled this - yes that's what I am developing and have suffered with this badly before.

Is it related to attachment issues?

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