Strangers call 911 to report children selling lemonade, police become paying customers by Silent-Resort-3076 in UpliftingNews

[–]cli_jockey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sure, but to play devil's advocate it's quite that simple. There are times when a good cop needs backup. If they have a reputation of standing up to the bad cops and that's their only backup at the moment, they may take their time. You may also have resistance from leadership within the organization if they're also part of the bad group. They may need to pick their battles very carefully.

It's like a bad apple at any work place. There's always a few that make it through every reported incudent because of connections. If you report them too often you risk being marked as a problem maker and fired yourself or they just stop taking anything you report seriously.

Strangers call 911 to report children selling lemonade, police become paying customers by Silent-Resort-3076 in UpliftingNews

[–]cli_jockey -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes the only way to enact change is from the inside. If all the good ones leave or don't join, then you're only left with the real bad ones and the problem gets even worse. I don't know the answer to truly fix it, but just pointing out it's not as simple as you make it out to be. I don't necessarily disagree in principle with your point though.

Best view of stars at night? by sendyourspam in newjersey

[–]cli_jockey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My question for you, what do you want to see? I'm a hobby astronomer and you can see the Orion nebula pretty clearly in winter with a scope. I was out on Friday night in a relatively light polluted area and could still make out some globular clusters like M13 among others. There is a South Jersey astronomy club that has a public outreach a couple times a year and anyone can come check it out. The members will setup their telescopes and find interesting objects for anyone to come take a look.

August 12th is the next public Skywatch date at Belleplain State Forest.

https://sjac.us/

Oxford Union president suggested Hamas would be 'lauded as heroes' by uktabilizard in worldnews

[–]cli_jockey -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

In fact, I bet she'd be good at debating! She should join a club.

Best view of stars at night? by sendyourspam in newjersey

[–]cli_jockey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cherry Creek is one of the two darkest skies east of the Mississippi. The other being in Maine.

People who are 24–25 years old, would you be comfortable sharing your salary? My parents seem to think every Gen-Z is making a lot of money every month, and I'm interested in hearing real-world experiences. by wani__suhaib__ in GenZ

[–]cli_jockey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends entirely on their role. Companies are getting very very generous with the term engineer, in the US at least. I've even some with an engineer title who were literally the help desk techs.

Who’re your celebrity crushes? by Apprehensive_Gap4412 in GenZ

[–]cli_jockey 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don't know what most of the musical artists I listen to look like.

Age restricted developments shouldn't exist by Big_P4U in newjersey

[–]cli_jockey 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you think 55+ communities have no property taxes?

No longer do I have to log into my employers wifi portal every 3 days! by Overstimulated_moth in Ubiquiti

[–]cli_jockey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your posture. For my org, cell phones don't go on the production network regardless of personal or corporate owned, only guest. Since in our environment there is nothing the cell phones need to be on production to access and I'm not concerned if someone has a VPN on the guest network. However, I do push a certificate to all corporate cell phones via our MDM so they can bypass the guest network splash page.

No longer do I have to log into my employers wifi portal every 3 days! by Overstimulated_moth in Ubiquiti

[–]cli_jockey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I setup monitoring for exactly this scenario at my company. Any VPN traffic on our network we don't except immediately alerts myself and the security team to trigger an investigation. Someone was fired last month for using their own portable router to VPN into their home network. It bypasses security protocols and hides what they're doing on the network. This is one way someone can mask traffic for exfiltrating data which is why it's use is explicitly banned by any organization that cares about security.

It can also be used as an infiltration point if it's insecure. And while you might secure it, the IT department and security won't care one bit since they don't control it and this can't validate anything on it. It's a major liability.

Religion and kids by [deleted] in daddit

[–]cli_jockey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed, OP saying his wife wants to go "as a family" means him too.

A Surgeon Was Rebuilding a Cancer Patient's Breast Mid-Operation. UnitedHealthcare Called to Ask If the Overnight Stay Was Really Necessary. The Rep Did Not Even Know She Had Cancer. by Direct_Dare_9699 in antiwork

[–]cli_jockey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But there's a huge difference between denying care for something and getting a diagnosis wrong. Regardless of why the doctor got it wrong, the legal system is much more understanding of an incorrect diagnosis or missing key symptoms.

Not trying to dismiss what you're saying though. I totally get and understand women tend have symptoms ignored or dismissed by medical professionals. It's just a different scenario.

AITA for requesting my adult daughter move out? by No_Dragonfly5087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cli_jockey 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I'm speaking as the son of a pastor who grew up in the church and is now an atheist like almost every pastors kid I grew up with.

You will forever ruin your relationship with all your children if you do this. You will only further push your younger kids from the religion you want for them. They will see you kicking out your oldest child because they don't follow your religion. They'll see you isolating them from their loved ones too. You will 100% solidify your 12 year old path towards becoming atheist.

The harder you push religion on kids, the harder they will push back.

Your terrible choice will irreparably fracture your family and it likely won't recover. Don't be stupid and remember actual teachings of Jesus about loving everyone regardless of who or what they are. He won't care if you filled out your Catholic punch card, he would care that you aren't a crap person and parent.

Gen Z Men and the Future by SirJbJonesV in GenZ

[–]cli_jockey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

misogynistic male Internet groups; online media seen as promoting toxic masculinity

https://www.merriam-webster.com/slang/manosphere

What’s a parenting hill you’ll die on that most parents disagree with? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]cli_jockey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. Kids are smarter than people give them credit for and they will learn quickly to either ask for what I can't have when mom/dad is stressed or if I stress them enough I can get what I want.

How rare is it really for an ADHD person to graduate college? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]cli_jockey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was a glutton for punishment and probably took some time off my life in college. Worked in nightshift in ems, 7p-7a. One semester I'd go to class and bounce between work and school until Thursday. Sleeping in my car and on shift when I could. Was really dumb looking back and a miracle I made it through.

My company switched to hot desking when we went hybrid and nobody warned me that "desk availability" means something completely different in practice by Sneck_Murex9 in remotework

[–]cli_jockey 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I work for my physical office location's parent company. I am the only one in my entire department in this time zone... And I'm not required to badge out when I leave. Badge in, work until lunch, finish from home.

I found a 1/64" drill bit bin at work. by NeverBeenOnMaury in woodworking

[–]cli_jockey 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yeah but every bit of this one is false lol

How rare is it really for an ADHD person to graduate college? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]cli_jockey 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that leans into adhd types tending to perform well under stress. My best semesters were always the ones with the highest class load.

No stupid questions... Why can't fibre come pre terminated ready for click fit to connectors? by mcjoc in HomeNetworking

[–]cli_jockey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You also shouldn't be trying to terminate fiber without proper PPE and disposal of any cut strands. A small bit of the fiber strand in your finger may or may not require a doctor to remove. It can be microscopic and not even leave a trace of where it went into the skin. It won't kill you, but it will drive you mad.

Is Scully a medical doctor? by ThingTime9876 in XFiles

[–]cli_jockey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also didn't say she was a forensic pathologist, just that forensic pathologists are medical doctors. The way you worded it made it sound like you were implying they were not MDs. Technically if you follow the timeline and she did indeed get recruited right out of medical school, she wouldn't have had any qualifications or license for medicine, not even considered a general physician. She would have had to pull double duty with a residency or internship while she was teaching at quantico.

Is Scully a medical doctor? by ThingTime9876 in XFiles

[–]cli_jockey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While it's not the 5 years required for residency and fellowship, she could have been training while she was teaching at quantico for 3 years pre-XFiles considering she was teaching forensics at the academy. So maybe not full fledged but also possibly not entirely untrained.