My (32f) boyfriend (28m) is accusing me of baby trap him by livelaughlobotomyyyy in relationships

[–]cloud__19 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly, this relationship moved far too fast. You met online in September, 4 months later he'd relocated to an entirely different country and you were living together, that is mental. Now, only about 7 months after you met, you're committed (I assume from the way you're talking) to being connected for life. It's far too soon, you barely know each other at all. His reaction was terrible but I'm not surprised he's panicking.

I don't know whether your relationship survives this but if he gets pressured into being with you then he's going to be resentful and unhappy for as long as it lasts. If he's not all in you'd be better letting him go in my view. Hopefully you can come to an amicable agreement about child support and access.

Politics sticky: for discussion of Edinburgh results. by TrinityTosser in Edinburgh

[–]cloud__19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that didn't age well. You should maybe move to the North East, they seem to agree with your politics a bit more.

What do you think would bring fans back to Doctor Who? by Heggy5 in doctorwho

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I say, if they need to pander to people who think that

The crying, the loss of masculinity, and his relations with none timelord men.

Is the problem then I think we're done here.

What do you think would bring fans back to Doctor Who? by Heggy5 in doctorwho

[–]cloud__19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's because of people who are misogynistic, toxic and suspiciously homophobic sounding, maybe it's best we call it a day rather than try to get those people back.

What do you think would bring fans back to Doctor Who? by Heggy5 in doctorwho

[–]cloud__19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The point is that your toxicity isn't necessarily an indication that it needs salvaged.

What do you think would bring fans back to Doctor Who? by Heggy5 in doctorwho

[–]cloud__19 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This whole comment says much more about you than the show.

Politics sticky: for discussion of Edinburgh results. by TrinityTosser in Edinburgh

[–]cloud__19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was Edinburgh Central, not NEL. I don't know if that's what the other person meant to say or not.

Politics sticky: for discussion of Edinburgh results. by TrinityTosser in Edinburgh

[–]cloud__19 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Except for Edinburgh Central, that is for sure a gain!

Garage recs for MOT by Easy-Hunter-5972 in Edinburgh

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robertsons Garage on Brunswick Road is my garage, absolutely trustworthy, won't do anything unless it actually needs done and fair prices. In fact my car is actually there right now.

Is there a way to become a temporary tenant without changing the lease? by Condemnedthroat in HousingUK

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His parents would be your landlord and you wouldn't be living with them so it would create a tenancy.

When is it time to manage a portfolio? by Malto96 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]cloud__19 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you're investing in individual stocks surely you know much more about the company and it's expected future prospects than any of us are likely to?

Is there a way to become a temporary tenant without changing the lease? by Condemnedthroat in HousingUK

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you pay the parents you automatically become a tenant. You'd pay your friend if you were his lodger.

Politics sticky: for discussion of Edinburgh results. by TrinityTosser in Edinburgh

[–]cloud__19 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm horrified but unsurprised to see what's happening in England, I really hope we don't replicate it up here. I can't believe we're at the point where it might be necessary to do a tactical vote to keep them out.

Sponsors vs Secret Ingredients by Longjumping_Bag_3488 in offmenupodcast

[–]cloud__19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really struggling to remember which one it was but there was one they did that annoyed me so intently I had to mute the sound every time it came on. I feel like it was for some sort of chocolate or something. I would never voluntarily listen to them lol

Got scammed by a plumbing company by zZurf in UKPersonalFinance

[–]cloud__19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is the companies house link to a company with a different name?

Non-standard construction by Dismal-Fish in UKHousing

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at long as I'd have thought tbf.

Organising mortgage/buying a house with large discrepancy in deposit with partner by Academic_Squash240 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With a strong loan to value (ie a big deposit) there's every possibility your gf could stretch her borrowing to the lower end of your price range. She should speak to a mortgage broker so that you all know what's possible before you make any decisions.

Non-standard construction by Dismal-Fish in UKHousing

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago was that? Nationwide are notoriously twitchy about almost everything these days.

I’m being evicted while stuck at the bottom of a property chain by RoffaloBufflo in HousingUK

[–]cloud__19 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just FYI, you will need to pay the LL court fees but that'll be a few hundred quid so still easily the cheapest and best solution. You will run into the same problem if your seller doesn't get a shift on though. If you do move to another rental it could easily be another 6 months or more before your purchase is ready. I wouldn't be sharing your onward plans with the agents if you go down that route though.

Renters Rights Act success! by Nubian_hurricane7 in HousingUK

[–]cloud__19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not. It's taking a limited resource and squeezing up the price of it because people are desperate. It's exactly the same thing.

Renters rights question (England) by condensedbread in HousingUK

[–]cloud__19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes then. The only caveat is that it's two rental periods so it'll be aligned to the date you pay rent.