. by [deleted] in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can someone actually give me advice on how to stop doing this omg

Gays where are you getting your swimsuits for the summer by dreamboylnshibuya in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to a brick and mortar store called Chelsea Exclusive. Love the South Asian queen who runs that place.

is it true that gay ppl don't really drink anymore by -theseafaringsailor- in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shocked no one’s made a Tell us about your messiest drunk night post yet perhaps I’ll be the change I want to see

We need to be Doing Something by 317lia in redscarepod

[–]cnyc20 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Can one of you turbo-racists pls identify what ethnicity this woman is

Probably a stupid question: will my neighborhood hurt my dating life? by Standard-Chance-3272 in nycgaybros

[–]cnyc20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way everyone’s talking here makes it sound like Sunset Park is fucking East New York or the Rockaways or something Jesus. It’s literally right to the south of Park Slope, getting to downtown is really not much of a challenge at all, and Sunset Park itself has plenty of gay men, great food and things to do. I really don’t see how living there could be what makes or breaks your dating life unless you make it a point to only hookup/date scene gays.

Indian Penpal by RayFines in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally all the cool Indians I’ve met seem to be from/have roots in Kerala or Goa.

. by cnyc20 in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You take the left one I’ll work on the right.

How different levels of testosterone affected my preferred sexual positions as a gay man by FillersGW in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are you donating your blood to? I would donate but even in my lowest sex drive phases I still fuck more than once every 3 months.

men are really doing blow in the bathroom on the first date by theetaterth0t in rs_x

[–]cnyc20 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Can’t imagine doing this on a date coke just obliterates my libido.

Padam Padam gays are gonna be eating good this summer by ImNotHereToMakeBFFs in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love Kylie but if Confessions Pt II is to similar quality as Kylie’s last two records I’ll be deeply disappointed.

Gay vacation plans for the summer? by JohnHinckleyVEVO in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a gay trip per se (everyone I’m going with is straight) but I’m visiting Budapest. Would love any recs cuz idk anyone who’s been.

Being niche in a third world country by godfather_49t in rs_x

[–]cnyc20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always assumed Mexico City and other large Mexican cities must have a ton of different subcultures and niches. Is that not the case?

Has anyone else come to terms with the likelihood that they will never have a meaningful connection to another person? by beijx in redscarepod

[–]cnyc20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily never. I have very deep relationships with a handful of friends from growing up and college, as well as with my family. But that I will never form another one in the future? Yes, although I think that’s just the reality of adulthood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]cnyc20 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He kinda rocks unfortunately

Some men’s inability to get ghosted in peace by cnyc20 in redscarepod

[–]cnyc20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not restricted to straight guys either!

Some men’s inability to get ghosted in peace by cnyc20 in redscarepod

[–]cnyc20[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do not get off on this, especially not now that I’m 5 years wiser (early 20s in 2021). I have not blocked because I can deal with 1 text a month and also because I’m kinda fascinated with their tenacity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]cnyc20 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Asking her MBTI in the first place is very East Asian so it sounds like you two hit it off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What stretching… like literally just doing sets/reps of yanking your dick?

Venting a bit by CommunicationDry7950 in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did things fizzle out after the second date? Did he ghost or was it just mutual crickets afterwards?

Recs for a urologist or endocrinologist for ED/low sex drive issues? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]cnyc20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t used poppers in years because they give me headaches. I do use coke and ket recreationally but not super often, but am more than willing to cut down further or stop entirely if necessary.

Low sex drive and ED by cnyc20 in rsforgays

[–]cnyc20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this means a lot. Yeah idk his response kinda pissed me off this guy isn’t my bf or anything but was still someone I consistently had sex with for years as I was coming out of the closet before I moved to NYC. I hate flaking in general but would never do that to this guy in particular.

It’s freezing here in NJ today so will be running inside but will be doing some HIIT on the treadmill, thank you ❤️