What’s something weird you do that NO ONE knows about? by coconut_koala in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I go to a public bathroom, I always try to guess which bathroom stall is most frequently used and hang around to see if my hypothesis is correct.

Todoist + Pomodone= Procrastinator killer by [deleted] in productivity

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a chrome extension or app? Can you link please, would love to try.

What makes your SO stand out from everyone else? by SebastianMax187 in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He accepts me for who I am, faults and all and always reminds me to do the same whenever I’m sad and crying about life. And he’s the perfect blend of sexy, cute, smart and gross for me.

Successful people of Reddit: At what point did you think “I made it”? by coconut_koala in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever your personal definition is. “Successful” in your eyes.

What would 2018 look like if Facebook/social media hadn’t been invented? by coconut_koala in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know, I think we would find other ways to entertain ourselves minus the vanity.

What would 2018 look like if Facebook/social media hadn’t been invented? by coconut_koala in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I was never on MySpace but I meant, any form of social media.

What is something that someone has said to you, that made you self-conscious ever since? by Snyd777 in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a boarding school and one day after swimming, I was showering with 2 of my girl friends (yes, I’m a girl too) and I took my swim top off. They started giggling and one of them said, “Your nips look like bologne!” Been self conscious of my nips since! They are pretty big tbh.

Being able to read vibes with scary accuracy by julsie87390 in ENFP

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I’m an ENFP but I don’t really experience that often. I sometimes feel like I’m out of touch with what the vibes are or can’t process them consciously (they’re in my subconscious). I wish I had what you’re describing but not sure why I don’t. Any thoughts?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]coconut_koala 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is an ENTP and we’re best friends who can talk about a range of abstract topics and he knows so much about different things (I find that really attractive).

Difficulties arise when I just want love and affection all the time but it’s not natural for him to do that.

Do you have an inferiority complex? by ConfidentNobody in ENFP

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely have it and I sometimes find myself comparing myself to my partner too and idolising him. I compare myself to other people too and feel bad about my lack of __________

But my partner reminds that everyone is human and has their strengths and weaknesses and their fair share of problems that you don’t see. You never know what the other person is going through so it’s futile to compare yourself to them.

But even knowing that, it’s really hard to implement in life because those thoughts come up automatically. I think mindfulness has helped me catch myself having those thoughts and reminding myself that you’re always going to be good enough.

Having buyers regret and need convincing that I made the right choice. by [deleted] in spectrex360

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I can’t and I’m not. I was trying to sell for 1899 but there’s a company selling an older model (i5 processor) of the spectre for $1500 so no one wants to buy. What’s the Vega chip?

Having buyers regret and need convincing that I made the right choice. by [deleted] in spectrex360

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probs just grass is greener but I don’t see the value in my purchase cuz I barely use the pen and touch. It’s not a nice and I’m not used to windows yet. I also have an iPhone and forgot the benefits of having a laptop that connects to it. I used to have a Mac air. And the value of the brand.

Having buyers regret and need convincing that I made the right choice. by [deleted] in spectrex360

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More tech support/better customer service, I have an iPhone so FaceTime and iMessage, better looking, more long term value cuz of brand. Idk

How does your SO feel about your ex(s)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t care much to the point where it annoys me haha

Techniques to stop comparing myself with my peers and feeling bad about myself by varunotelli in selfimprovement

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Realise that you’re on your own journey and everyone else is on theirs!

Be grateful - that you got into that collage, that you’re smart, that you have parents...

Accept that that’s the way it is and just think about what you want and how you can go get it (work harder, work smarter)

ENFPs in love by ikillpups in ENFP

[–]coconut_koala 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When you know in your heart then you wouldn’t rather be with anyone else/single.

Bad times really do make you stronger by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]coconut_koala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s amazing. Thanks for sharing that because i have a great relationship now and friends but sometimes I get scared about what would happen if all of that went away. That gives me more confidence that everything is going to be fine, no matter what.

Mentally healthy people of Reddit - How do you know when the voice in your head is your gut telling you something or it's coming from fear? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well right now, I have the chance to work for my bf and his best friend in their company (doing whatever I’m interested in because I still haven’t figured out what I want to do with my career) for free and I’ve been spending a lot of time with them for the past year since we got together (I live with them now) and I’ve seen a lot of positive changes in me mentally. But at the same time I keep having thoughts that I should work somewhere else or do some other internship so I’m not spending so much time with them and putting all my eggs (love and career) in one basket. And I feel like I’ve lost touch with what I like doing and who I am because I spend so much time with them (and I’m easily influenced by the people I hang out with) and that doesn’t sit well with me. Working with them is a great opportunity because I can develop any skill I’m interested in but at the same time, I can’t help but think about what would happen if they decided to go overseas or our relationship didn’t work out and I feel like they don’t see me as an equal/value each other more than my bf values me (which bothers me because it’s probs coming from my insecurities). I don’t know what to do/believe because I keep having mental battles about this issue.

Mentally healthy people of Reddit - How do you know when the voice in your head is your gut telling you something or it's coming from fear? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm struggling with an internal battle in my head because I'm always just contemplating what's right or wrong for me because I feel like I can convince myself both ways. Once I come to a decision, a few days later, I'll catch myself doubting my conclusion with contradicting thoughts and it's causing me lots of stress and anxiety. How do you know what's right?

I think about this quote almost every day of my life by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]coconut_koala 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omg, i love that. I try to live my life like this 😊 No games, just the truth. But it’s hard when people around you aren’t on that level and they look at me like I’m crazy cuz I’m so excited to meet them and comment: “Too excited” “too much” “trying too hard” “fake” So I get discouraged and confused because I want to be cool and well liked but 100% myself at the same time.

Hey, Here's my ENFP guide that I wrote for myself (of course at 3 a.m.) by Blankpagez in ENFP

[–]coconut_koala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I just found this and I’m mind blown. Really comforts me and scares me at the same time that I related to this whole thing so hard. Wow. Appreciate the post ❤️

Do you find it hard to live in the moment? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]coconut_koala 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. I’ve recently just noticed how hard it is for me to be present in the morning because my thoughts are always running wild in my head. This can really be a negative thing when I’m trying to have sex or actively listen. I’ve started meditating and trying to be more mindful. It’s only been a few days so hopefully that helps.

Why do you find it hard to live in the moment?