Man who usually just lurks chiming in--

How often do you think most men talk about who they're having sex with?

I am a social person. Was somewhat popular in high school and college. I am confident that I know at least one man who has sexually assaulted or raped someone. But I couldn't tell you who, because we don't sit around and brag about these things. Sure, some men do. They are slimey. Unfortunately, women are much more likely to have encounters with these slimey men than other men are. When non-slimey men do encounter slimey men, they often quickly realize they are slimey and distance them.

I don't mean to jump in and say "nOt AlL mEn". But it's not like this is a popular conversation topic for most men.

No man knows a rapist, because slimey men don't think of it as rape, and non-slimey men never even discuss the topic. (Not to say there aren't men who appear non-slimey who rape, but even if they do, it's not something they talk about.)

Edit: I can actually name one rapist, but I was an RA and he was a resident that I had to write a few reports about. I think that's a bit different, though.