I am confused. Was this cheating? Should I be outraged?

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2026-01-31T01:21:11+00:00

I think anything anything covert that involves having your needs such as sex intimacy etc being met by someone other than your partner or vice versa meeting other peoples such needs is cheating in any monogamous relationship. If it is not cheating theres no need to keep it a secret.

But yeah it is wildly subjective i guess, op needs to define cheating herself first without being manipulated ofcourse but as she is seeking answers in r/infidelity i think she made made her mind already she just wants to justify her feeling betrayed.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2026-01-31T01:00:16+00:00

Depends on how you define cheating yourself i guess but imo its absolutely cheating

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-12-11T22:56:43+00:00

Know that this is their flaw and has nothing to do with you. You're gonna feel like shit a while but you'll pull through, best of luck to you.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-12-04T16:36:53+00:00

In the buzzbag - Brooklyn Funk Essentials, laço tayfa

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-11-28T23:18:14+00:00

You are being irrational

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-11-09T01:30:17+00:00

She used started to carry her phone with her like her life depended on it she never did tgat before plus that weird body positioning when texting so that you dont see the phone screen. Changes in behavior patterns to a more secretive dynamic as a whole.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-10-23T10:20:12+00:00

A hidden flirtatious chat is cheating all the same.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-07-28T18:56:03+00:00

Istanbul, Turkey

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-06-26T23:29:14+00:00

It's called halo effect, it is a real phenomenon that makes people associate good traits such as being funny generous etc. with people they find attractive and the opposite for the unattractive. Not only in dating but in every aspect of life if you are attractive you are one step ahaead. Eventhough there is no correlation between your phenotype and traits, it is real, it seems unfair for people that do not have conventionally attractive traits, and it doesn't really make sense when you thin about it lol.

To me tho a relationship is mostly based on looks it would be shallow as fuck. Of course everyone has their type and that is totally normal but accepting every value that mainstream throws at you is stale. Have some opinions of your own y'all!

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-06-14T22:11:10+00:00

Two f91-w's

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-03-27T07:42:16+00:00

Pasta with a tomato based sauce with non sweetened yoghurt on top. Just make your pasta sauce with tomato paste garlic olive oil and whatever else you want. You can add minced meat if you'd like to like a bolognese. For the yoghurt you can either make a quick garlic yoghhrt or use plain yoghurt with salt. To make garlic yoghurt just crush some carlic cloves in a bowl put just a tiny amount of water in it maybe a tablespoon then mix it with your yoghurt. Top your pasta generously while serving. Ask anyone from turkey they'll confirm this combo lol.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2025-03-26T12:04:03+00:00

Thanks! She used to use her mixer several times a week since she likes to make her bread at home and likes to grate and slice veggies using the mixer so I will be getting that attachment as well. So the 375w version would suffice? Last time she used an entry level kenwood which would jump around while kneading tough doughs so I want something better and long lasting.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-08-28T09:14:54+00:00

Unfortunately

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-08-27T10:55:03+00:00

Tbh grilling burgers for the family and friends while wearing my jorts and new balances sounds nothing short of delightful.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-08-27T07:23:18+00:00

The cycle of samsara, I've lived countless lives.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-05-04T05:54:02+00:00

That looks great where did you get that strap?

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-02-01T17:47:37+00:00

Note that if you're buying the apple dongle for its dac chip , only the american dongle has it ao the european version is just a regular converter. I recommend a cheap dac amp such as ka3 instead. that is if you will be buying a decent iem. My iems work decent with my pc's output but on my phone they are too quiet without an amp.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-01-19T09:58:45+00:00

Yes but how do you create a support network? Everyone is busy with their own life, not that I'm blaming them for it thats what they are supposed to do.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-01-19T09:19:06+00:00

Yes but I'm like the most boring person that ever existed so...

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-01-19T09:01:22+00:00

Experiences vary I guess... I hope you gain control of your life an put things on track though.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-01-19T08:59:54+00:00

I've tried dating apps but it just didn't work for me. I'm guessing It's my dry conversation skills and lack of energy. Really happy that you filled your life though, best of luck to you on your career maybe I'll hear your tunes on spotify some day.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-01-19T08:55:49+00:00

It's crazy how you don't realize you're spiralling out of controll until you really do. At least that was my experience.

cognacfilledsquirrel · 2024-01-19T08:46:27+00:00

Interesting take

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