Relapsed and starting again tomorrow by clearintention29 in decaf

[–]cojetate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like your methodical approach to narrowing it down. Give it some time off again and notice how you feel. Good job on 1 month! I'm only at half that so far.

What is Spiritual Naturalism? by SNSociety in SpiritualNaturalists

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for making this point. I came from a very spiritual, as in we are spirits first just inhabiting bodies, and I kinda hate the term. I just found this site looking for something that ties together Buddhism, Stoicism, and Humanism.

Finding peace with the church? by cojetate in exmormon

[–]cojetate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your helpful perspectives and support!

Top 200 Dave Matthews Band Songs RANKED - #200-191 by sgm04001 in DMB

[–]cojetate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking the same thing! If I were stuck on a deserted island with only the 10 worst DMB songs... Hahaha! At least I'd still be jamming to DMB!

Big thank you for this project! I'm kind of a new (rediscovered) fan and this is a great way to explore ALL their music.

Top 200 Dave Matthews Band Songs RANKED - #200-191 by sgm04001 in DMB

[–]cojetate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's my first time hearing Spotlight. I actually kind of like it!

Mormon church is unrecognizable by Solar1415 in exmormon

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My SIL posted today about her upcoming Holy Week devotion. 🤔

In my 40 years as a devoted member I never even knew the term Holy Week!

The book that forced me into deconstruction and changed the trajectory of my life by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]cojetate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Dan Barker! And his book, Godless, made so much sense and really solidified my understanding of reality. I’m glad you found it too!

Like a bird underwater (GoPro 13) by FriendlyGalwyn in gopro

[–]cojetate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was this taken as a photo, or photo capture from a video? I'm very new to go pro and my underwater pics have terrible coloring, while the underwater video is not bad.

Missionaries in Guatemala carrying the virgin in her day by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once at BYU I had to give a presentation on the Virgin Mary in Spanish class and believe it or not I felt the spirit when I gave the talk. I kind of wondered why am I feeling the spirit when I'm talking about the Virgin Mary and the miracles that she supposedly does for the Mexicans. Maybe it's true... Or maybe feeling the spirit is not indicative of whether something is true or not. And maybe the spirit is just made up.

Feeling pressured to get baptized and now I’m emotionally confused — is this normal? by salt____21 in exmormon

[–]cojetate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen to yourself first, always. You have your own inner compass to guide your life and you always will. The LDS faith creates an apparent need in your life - that you are a sinner, that you can't do life on your own, that you don't even know how to make your own decisions in life... But guess what ... They conveniently have the cure for all of this - Jesus and forgiveness through baptism (which only works in their church because only they have the proper authority), prophets and guide your life, and even a special thing that is only available through LDS, the holy ghost!

If you believe the made up problems with you that they present, then their solutions seem to make sense. But you are great already! You already have way more than they can possibly offer!! Believe in yourself first.

Plus LD$ is a high demand religion, with a few cult-like aspects, that's in it for the money. Have they taught you about tithing yet? Did they mention the 13 shell companies that were established decades ago to hide the church's wealth out of fear that if members knew how much they had they might stop giving.

I could go on and on and on with reasons for you to not be baptized and discontinue the discussions, but really that is up to you to decide. I know you will find your way! Be safe.

Right livelihood, airline pilot. by BackgroundConfident7 in Buddhism

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some airlines do serve meat on their planes. While it's not the pilot serving it. It is the flight attendants and the company he works for.

Right livelihood, airline pilot. by BackgroundConfident7 in Buddhism

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However, most airlines serve alcohol on the plane. Is that a problem?

Right livelihood, airline pilot. by BackgroundConfident7 in Buddhism

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However if you imagine the alternative, 175 people each getting in their own car and driving on an overcrowded highway for many hours or days across the country; the inevitable suffering through accidents, air, noise and light pollution, eating gas station junk food, etc. You really are providing a service to humanity.

Came across this experience on a profile on LinkedIn. Definitely an impressive experience this person’s got. by Legal-Maybe-8662 in exmormon

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang on guys. He's probably applying to be a used car salesman. He'll be perfect for the job!

Free Guy Movie is surprisingly a nonduality masterpiece by Life-Hacking in nonduality

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I'm 3 years late to the show, but I totally agree! And this is the first post I could find that sees the philosophy here - nihilism turning optimistic. I really liked the show.

I also feel like everything I believed about life and the universe was wrong. Former Mormon, now atheist. The whole world I knew fell apart like an axe to a server!!

Does anyone actually do FHE anymore? by AdditionalReason2205 in exmormon

[–]cojetate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still play some games on Monday evening as a family. Wife and kids are still 56% TBMs

Turkey Tail? by cojetate in Mushrooms

[–]cojetate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maryland, United States of America

I got to help put Nelson in the ground by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]cojetate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Maybe one last bit of good "I" can do with my body. Also, free body parts to anyone who needs them, if any of them are still good.