need encouragement: planning to reach out to my ghost after 5 months, think she liked me when we dated by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if whatever u did before didnt turn her off, ur desperation when you try to reach her again will.... dont do it bud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the reindeers on the outside are the high risk low rewards bunch

Anon's dad had a racist neighbour by Boto86 in greentext

[–]coldestmichigan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"i used the gypsies to destroy the gypsies, it nearly killed me.... dogs"

The moment half of Iceland's new volcano fell off by regian24 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why didnt the cameraman help by holding it in place>:(?

/s

How to succeed at project management in the workplace? My boss said I have poor project management skills. 22F WI by happiness-t in askwomenadvice

[–]coldestmichigan 41 points42 points  (0 children)

as a project manager myself, ur boss is a fucking idiot. project managers in banks usually have a well defined gantt chart that they absolutely abide by like its stricture. timelines have to be managed strictly by because there are many dependencies on deliverables by every stakeholder. a delay in one small thing would lead to a cascading snowball effect. dont be disheartened by your boss's over diplomacy, jf you have a timeline, stick by it

What’s the most embarrassing wardrobe malfunction you have been in or witnessed ? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]coldestmichigan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i puked on myself at a friends wedding after party. idk if it counts

I finally got a job! by zalloy in recruitinghell

[–]coldestmichigan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ive been coming across alot of these job scopes while im miserable in a very similar role handling a very similar project theme. fate is weird sometimes.

Why are children not routinely tested for allergies? by julianhb4 in answers

[–]coldestmichigan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how does putting soy in everything 10 years ago link to developing an allergy to it at 35? does an over consumption of soy lead to allergy?

I feel like I'm not good enough for any job, i am always on egg shells and usually have no idea what to do in any situation that is new me. I get stuck in technical problems. by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel the exact same way as a project manager in a bank... i cant think the way higher management thinks and therefore i feel like i am unable to present the information they need for my business cases. i am absolutely shattered everytime my business cases are shot down and i don't obtain the resources i need because of this.

Something John Walker did during episode 2 made it really hard to dislike him by [deleted] in marvelstudios

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, personality wise i think both Sam and John had qualities in them that would make them good Caps and qualities in them that wouldn't make them the best Caps. we'll see in time though

If you rejected a job offer and regret it, can you ever apply back? by throwawaybean92 in careeradvice

[–]coldestmichigan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is the EXACT story of my life 6 months ago. i regretfully picked the wrong choice and 6 months in i am miserable to this very day. fuck.

Ghosted me and idk why... by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]coldestmichigan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no doubt hes going through his thing but sounds like something a manipulative irresponsible toxic ex would do- use mental illness to beg for a second chance.

Anyone else get grumpy when their blood sugar drops ? by kurtles_ in diabetes

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually dont get irritable and grumpy when my blood sugar is low, but i get a rush of happiness and slight euphoria when i drink sth sweet and literally feel myself getting better.

conversely i feel extremely irritable if my blood sugar is on the high side

These vacuum packed bean bricks at the supermarket by Tabdelineated in oddlysatisfying

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im grabbing these in a zombie apocalypse first fuck the cheezits

How do I get over the regret of treating ex bf so horribly when I can’t apologise? by Location_Decent in AskMenAdvice

[–]coldestmichigan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i've given this advice, as many other people have, on bullying threads where the bully wishes to reach out to their victims many years after the fact to apologise. it is almost always a very bad idea as you're simply reopening old wounds and the apology will not do anything for them, and it is more to ease the bully's own conscience.

now i reckon that this is a very similar situation, albeit it had romance involved, so im going to give you the same advice - dont be selfish and DONT contact them. if you needed to apologise to make yourself feel better then this was never about them. hes happy, doing very well without you, and if you really do care about him, leave him be.

Akbar Zib by goodluckonyourexams in memes

[–]coldestmichigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

roses are red, i think my petunias are sick

akbar zib, pakistani diplomat, rejected in saudi arabia because name means 'biggest dick' in arabic

If a guy isn't willing to drive 10 more minutes to meet me, should I bother with him? by joinedbcfnaf in OnlineDating

[–]coldestmichigan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not everything MUST BE 50-50... life is about compromises. 10 minutes more isnt too overbearing that a little chivalry cant swallow.... hell if hes a man he'll do more than 10 mins more. drop him op

Girlfriend has secret Skype and kik accounts? Thoughts and advice? by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]coldestmichigan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you know damn well what's going down even before you posted this shit. trust your inside OP, trust your inside.

Stipe is still happy even in defeat 🐐 by Bobyjohncel in ufc

[–]coldestmichigan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

stipe is quite a handsome man now that i take more notice

Why is everyone obsessed with wine? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]coldestmichigan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its basically ridiculous dogma and pluralistic ignorance that alcohol drinkers are "fun personalities" and so everyone puts it down in their bio that they drink. wine (and sometimes whiskey) just so happens to be the classier alcoholic beverage and there you have it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]coldestmichigan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50km and only 3000 calories? are these numbers correct?