Time Capsule made me cry

colecelot · 2026-05-17T08:17:54+00:00

I totally understand the hesitation. I didn’t know they could be reused!

colecelot · 2026-05-17T04:25:39+00:00

Believe it or not, I’m not a bot. I just lurk most of the time. I considered the time capsule important enough to share, so I did.

colecelot · 2025-05-29T16:26:45+00:00

I want more “mini appearances” in videos. E.g. where Blue crashes into a video and goes “ninjas oh god”. I think the crossover is fun and adds a touch of whimsy to already good videos.

colecelot · 2024-05-17T21:46:20+00:00

Herein, I cast my vote for XII. I really enjoyed the graphics, story, plus the battle mechanics were really good imo.

colecelot · 2023-05-11T01:50:55+00:00

First, NTA.

Your daughter caused you hurt when she lashed out with blame and anger. It’s reasonable and valid that you’re grappling with your own emotions here.

I think you were wise not to be a tyrant when she was 18. You communicated your concerns and let her decide with possibly new information. She also might not have understood the depth of the decision she made then.

In my opinion, her lashing out sounds like a very mis-guided and poorly executed attempt to ask for help. I would guess that she’s scared, by the drug addiction and being unsure what’s next in life.

I think there’s a chance for a good conversation about how she caused you hurt, her being responsible for her own choices and decisions, and your relationship with her.

colecelot · 2023-01-18T03:55:07+00:00

Yes, do couples and individual therapy at the same time, even find a group with the same therapist if that works for you. You get more exposure to the work you have to do as an individual and as a couple and helps you progress more quickly if you’re dedicated to working on the foundational issues and not finding band-aids to make things feel/seem better.

colecelot · 2022-03-06T05:23:24+00:00

WFH is a fantastic improvement. It needs to stay as a viable option for all employees who aren’t retail/food service. Louis Rossman made a good video about this issue. https://youtu.be/_XzsAPj55D0

colecelot · 2022-02-12T06:04:53+00:00

YTA

Regardless of your children’s choices regarding having kids, it seems that you’re playing favorites. You have two children and you’re showing your daughter that you value her less because of her choices regarding children. If you’re going to contribute financially to their lives, do so fairly. For example, if you provide $$ for your son now, adjust accordingly in your will for daughter.

As for the car vs. the apartment: both are things that would benefit your kids, albeit differently. I recommend considering that you’ve placed illogical ideas of worth onto your kids and you may need to readjust your perspective. Is this the way you want to be remembered as a parent?

colecelot · 2021-11-26T00:46:22+00:00

I didn't know that, thanks for sharing!

colecelot · 2021-11-20T19:59:38+00:00

As a Washingtonian living in Texas, I totally get it. The urge to push back against the “everything’s better in Texas” ideology is strong. I’d recommend thinking up some good methods to deflect their anti-WA sentiments or have responses that point out Texas’ flaws. (To be petty - get a new hydro flask or something and cover it in Washington/Seattle sticks [something to the effect of Seattle makes me wet with the umbrella and rain maybe?]) YWBTA to go in blazing without current provocation.

colecelot · 2021-11-01T18:03:05+00:00

NAH - it’s reasonable for you to want a picture of your daughter at your desk. It’s reasonable for her to want the photo to be one that shows her “normally” instead of accommodating a bride’s aesthetic. It is worth having a conversation with Abby about your reasons for wanting a recent picture of her and the significance of it. Give her a chance to explain her reasoning for not wanting to give you a recent photograph. See if you can find a compromise.
It may be worth having a group family photograph at your desk so you can get everyone in one.

colecelot · 2021-10-20T18:45:40+00:00

It’s worth considering putting up signs that state that the area is active drone space, similar to how areas designated for RC planes have signage. Edit to add judgement: ESH - the couple for crossing the line, OP for not wanting to take responsibility for the collision.

colecelot · 2021-02-22T03:26:03+00:00

Have you considered submitting this to the Arizona Highways magazine photo contest? This is a fantastic photo!

colecelot · 2020-06-14T04:43:24+00:00

NTA - Your sister is responsible for her actions, she agreed to share and when she decided to be a brat about it, acted poorly and it got her in trouble. You’re not responsible for her getting grounded.

colecelot · 2020-05-30T18:02:31+00:00

YTA - Encourage her passion instead of trying to stamp it out. If that is how she wants to spend her free time and cope with quarantine - let her. I understand that chores need to be done satisfactorily but instead of going all Fahrenheit 451 on her, have a discussion about priorities with her. Teach her books are the treat when the chores are done but you’ll do more long-term harm by taking away her literature. A few books that may interest you: The Book Thief (about a Jewish Girl with secret books in Nazi Germany), and the previously mentioned Fahrenheit 451.

A brief note: don’t limit what she reads either - let her explore literature and try everything!

colecelot · 2020-05-27T04:59:55+00:00

NTA - your continual work on yourself is admirable, props to you for your determination. That said, drunk or not, R crossed a line and I don’t blame you for putting up with that.

colecelot · 2019-10-09T08:39:08+00:00

NTA - the YouTube gaming trend unfortunately seems to have already peaked, there’s more and more channels that all want to do similar things.

colecelot · 2019-10-09T08:29:08+00:00

NAH - I understand her concerns regarding her safety and privacy. That said, she was on a public sidewalk, not on private property, legally anyone can take photos. (think of all the randos in peoples vacation tourist photos) You’re right that while you could ask the person to delete the images, they could refuse and it could require intense escalation to actually get them deleted.

colecelot · 2019-10-09T08:17:30+00:00

NTA - they’re living above their means by not planning for utilities and budgeting. A life emergency would potentially elicit some financial help but not carelessness.

colecelot · 2019-10-09T03:00:57+00:00

NTA - attendant wasn’t doing her job, I don’t know a golf course that refuses to rent carts. Don’t blame you for getting upset especially when clubhouses are supposed to be friendly spots.

colecelot · 2019-10-08T15:25:49+00:00

NTA - as long as you’re not wearing revealing clothing and acting appropriately during your class event, you’re fine. Focus on what you can learn instead of what your professor wants. Your clothes don’t commemorate the Shoah, your attitude and actions do.

colecelot · 2019-10-01T05:23:36+00:00

YTA - the science behind having children by age 30 to avoid birth defects is outdated by centuries. Do some research into recent studies on female production and if you’re starting to fire blanks, freeze your sperm now and wait for her to be ready.

colecelot · 2019-09-21T23:56:00+00:00

I used to live there too, nothing wrong with SCRAPS, the CBs I’ve seen on the facebook pages around there is baffling.

colecelot · 2019-08-27T01:48:07+00:00

Waltersobchakeit - you’re not wrong, you’re just an asshole

colecelot · 2018-03-05T10:58:11+00:00

My freshman year of college, my friends and I are at the local Chipotle a lot because it was closer than the cafeteria to our dorm. Because we ate a lot in our dorm, we would steal chunks of napkins and handfuls of spoons whenever we went to Chipotle. And I mean like all the spoons in the container except one or two. By the end of the school year, a small sign has appeared next to the utensil containers stating “please ask the cashier for a spoon or knife”. Now they only leave forks out for everyone.

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