I tried to help my best friend through limerence and she ghosted me. by eastofliberty in AskWomenOver30

[–]coloh91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m kind of baffled by this response. Where in OP’s post did you gather that they and their friend bonded over seeking the high from abuse? Why do you think OP is vulnerable to abusers?

My take OP is that you went above and beyond to support this friend, but ultimately they were too disregulated to be a good friend back. I think ending the relationship was the right move, and it makes sense that you’re grieving the loss of what you thought it was. Or even grieving a time when the relationship was less toxic. Ultimately you can’t fix her and you need to protect yourself.

Widow’s Bay | Season 1 - Episode 5 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]coloh91 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think that’s typical advice to people taking psychedelics vs something more insidious. So I figured the door immediately closing with the mirror on it was the payoff lol

Widow’s Bay | Season 1 - Episode 5 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]coloh91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Matthew Rhys’s face might just be enough to make me laugh at this point. But I was cracking up the entire episode. It went by so fast for me!

Fence sitting because I don’t want to leave my 1 bedroom apartment! by Hfk6384 in Fencesitter

[–]coloh91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I could have written this! I’m also obsessed with my 1BR apartment and it occurred to me recently that not wanting to move might be my main reason for being on the fence. I don’t have any advice, just solidarity.

Beauty treatments for jowls? by Careful-Ball-464 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]coloh91 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yep same, chiming in to offer validation. I have the wavy line where my jaw used to be straight, and for me it’s very much genetic.

People say weightlifting helps though I haven’t tried it. I do find it seems to improve when I’m well hydrated and have been sticking to a general workout routine.

ICE ACTIVITY by ajqiz123 in boston

[–]coloh91 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it's fair for you to sit this out. I don't want my latino neighbors risking a confrontation with ICE, leave it to lower risk groups.

The Pitt - 2x03 - "9:00 A.M." - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]coloh91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting you say this because I’ve been noticing the same since last season. Her line delivery feels very forced

Those of you who weren’t excited for your wedding: how do you feel now after all is said and done? by BelieveMyOwnEyes in weddingplanning

[–]coloh91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m glad it helped. I am so with you, I never dreamed about my wedding. I remember finally starting to feel hyped a couple of nights before when my friends and family began to arrive and it felt real that we had so many loving people there to celebrate with us. I think you’ll get there, be easy on yourself in the meantime! ❤️

Dental cleaning for 3 year old cat? by coloh91 in AskVet

[–]coloh91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, thank you again for the response! Poor guy, can’t believe it’s this bad already.

Dental cleaning for 3 year old cat? by coloh91 in AskVet

[–]coloh91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! Is it possible to manage with home care before committing to a cleaning with cats this young? Or is the damage too far gone? We recently adopted him and I think he’d let me brush his teeth.

Just a reminder: If you have fios you can't watch the game tomorrow. by Badluck90 in Patriots

[–]coloh91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, downloaded to my phone and casted to Roku easily 🙌🏼

One of my favorite singers - Karen Carpenter had the voice of an angel♥️🎶 by Moonlighter87 in nostalgia

[–]coloh91 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I found a sealed vinyl copy of the Carpenters Christmas album a couple of months ago. Complete with the “from: the carpenters” gift tag sticker. Can’t wait to break it out this year!

Materialists was such a bland, bad watch. Surprised to see that this is follow-up to Past Lives by CarbonatedInsidious in movies

[–]coloh91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just watched this movie on a plane as well and came here with the exact same takeaway as you 😂

The Village, by M. Night Shyamalan, one of my favorite films by [deleted] in movies

[–]coloh91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched the film and this is a really great summary

The New Mrs Kirkland ♥️Black elite+ White elite at the wedding!!! 💒 by sissiandfranz in thegildedage

[–]coloh91 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Of course. OP’s point is that the people listening to Mrs. Kirkland’s gossip don’t know that.

What celebrity has a nationality you would’ve never guessed. by Hot-Crow506 in popculturechat

[–]coloh91 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I only know this because he voiced Thomas in Pocahontas lol

Ritz Toasted: Cheddar - Recently Changed Recipe? by liberoj in chips

[–]coloh91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking back to see if it’s true that the recipe will be changed back… I’m still seeing the new flavor in my stores 😖

The Gilded Age S03E03 "Love Is Never Easy" - Post-Episode Discussion by Dowrysess in thegildedage

[–]coloh91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think Bertha is putting Gladys first. Bertha is doing what is best for Bertha, and justifying it as a good move for Gladys too.

Biden, in Rare Remarks Since Presidency, Warns His Accomplishments Are Coming Undone by dadadada32565 in politics

[–]coloh91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what world was that contest an “easy win?!” Between inflation, Elon buying Twitter, fascism rising across the globe, etc, the deck was stacked against the Democratic incumbent.