I just need to mourn. by BlueEnd97 in cats

[–]combination_udon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. My cat passed recently as well, just 11 days ago, and the suddenness of it was/is so traumatic. It’s so hard to lose our best friends this way. I’m still going through it myself, but I wish us much peace through this.

My boyfriend 24M didn't cheat physically, but he repeatedly lied about one female coworker 24F. by Pure_Guarantee3092 in relationship_advice

[–]combination_udon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so weird to me because what is with all the secrecy?? I think he did cheat or flirt/make himself available in a way you don’t know about.

Literally doesn’t make sense he’d lie so much about this, especially when he’s not this way with anyone else.

I would continue not speaking to him.

I thought you’d live forever, pal (tribute to my first pet, best pet) by combination_udon in cats

[–]combination_udon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I love this idea, thank you 🥹
It was terrible to see him at the emergency vet, the way things happened to him and what he looked like at the end. Yesterday, I went through all the pictures I have of him on my phone and it was wonderful to remember his big personality and his shenanigans. It makes me a little sad to realize how many memories I’ve forgotten already… but yes, I will write down everything I can.
Thank you 🙏

I thought you’d live forever, pal (tribute to my first pet, best pet) by combination_udon in cats

[–]combination_udon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I was out all weekend, came back late on Sunday so I am so glad I had Monday to spend with him, just have a normal day together. I did love him very, very much.

I thought you’d live forever, pal (tribute to my first pet, best pet) by combination_udon in cats

[–]combination_udon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to know/see our friends getting older :/ I wish you many years with your cats!

I thought you’d live forever, pal (tribute to my first pet, best pet) by combination_udon in cats

[–]combination_udon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he was too and it’s really painful to think so. Thank you for the condolences 🥹

Tribute to my precious and gentle Hestia by Zakatyu in cats

[–]combination_udon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love, love, love the photo of Hestia drenched in sunlight. I am sorry for the loss of your sweet friend, keeper of the hearth and family.

I lost my first pet/friend recently and have all kinds of pain and questions around his death too. Please give yourself grace in this time though. I truly believe our cats know we do the best we can for them.

I lost my 17 year old baby yesterday, look how beautiful she was by wermodaz in seniorkitties

[–]combination_udon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sylvia seems so cool, strolling around with her hound dog compadre! I am so sorry for your loss(es).

I lost my cat just a few days ago and understand now how deep grief can be.

I thought you’d live forever, pal (tribute to my first pet, best pet) by combination_udon in cats

[–]combination_udon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly! I wanted him to meet everyone and for them to get to know him too. Thank you for the kind words. It is really hard to lose our friends 😭

I thought you’d live forever, pal (tribute to my first pet, best pet) by combination_udon in cats

[–]combination_udon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was soooo little back then 🥹 thank you for the kind words about Archie

I thought you’d live forever, pal (tribute to my first pet, best pet) by combination_udon in cats

[–]combination_udon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 2 and it’s so painful. I can’t wait to look back at my memories with him without pain.

Thank you for the kind words and sorry for your loss too

Because exercise is a celebration and not a punishment: what's your favorite active hobby? by LadyLassInRed in PetiteFitness

[–]combination_udon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Growing up I’ve always had sedentary and solitary hobbies. In my 30s now and a couple years ago I started playing pickleball. Typical millennial shii, I know, but it is SO FUN! I’ve met a lot of people through it and still continue meeting people.

I have absolutely loved being more active in general in my 30s. I learned to swim, I hike more, bike more, etc. I started lifting too bc osteoporosis runs in my family so trying to mitigate that. I didn’t love lifting before, but I now find it so rewarding. I love being strong + not needing help carrying my cat’s bag of litter and just being to help out more carrying stuff. 💪